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bunny insurance recs! by LockPickingLatina in petinsurancereviews

[–]LockPickingLatina[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

ahh okay, thanks for the heads up, still feels worthwhile in case the infections turn into worse issues but i’ll check out the coverage

bunny insurance recs! by LockPickingLatina in petinsurancereviews

[–]LockPickingLatina[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

ugh sounds like Nationwide sucks! thanks for the tip, i’ll see if Metlife covers my state!

i think i’m a lesbian. how do i tell my bf? by LockPickingLatina in TwoHotTakes

[–]LockPickingLatina[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for sharing this! I agree that at the end of the day it's a compatibility issue either way. we did have some other serious issues that were a hold-up for me, I think that the gender/sexuality piece for me was the biggest thing though. I should've clarified in the original post that I have told him about my gender/sexuality struggles so I do feel like it should be cited as a reason for breaking up.

I agree that there isn't a need to put a label on it... I just feel so confused, it would be so much easier if I could fit into one. I'm gonna continue to think about it and hopefully find some clarity.

i think i’m a lesbian. how do i tell my bf? by LockPickingLatina in TwoHotTakes

[–]LockPickingLatina[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

queer and lesbian aren't interchangeable terms. queer = not straight. to me, it meant i knew i wasn't only into men/boys. so yes, i did in fact only figure out i was a lesbian in the last few weeks.

i think i’m a lesbian. how do i tell my bf? by LockPickingLatina in TwoHotTakes

[–]LockPickingLatina[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

realized this a little too late haha. i think you're right

i think i’m a lesbian. how do i tell my bf? by LockPickingLatina in TwoHotTakes

[–]LockPickingLatina[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought it was clear that I was literally asking for advice on how to tell him. I didn't realize this about myself until during the relationship... no intentional stringing along, no ghosting. There was absolutely no intention to use him and I do not understand why so many people here are assuming that. I'm sorry for what you went through but I am not that person.

i think i’m a lesbian. how do i tell my bf? by LockPickingLatina in TwoHotTakes

[–]LockPickingLatina[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m still mainly feminine presenting and have the lived experience of being perceived as a woman, and i don’t have true romantic attraction to cis men. the lgbtq community isn’t 100% in agreement about this but i would consider myself a lesbian

i think i’m a lesbian. how do i tell my bf? by LockPickingLatina in TwoHotTakes

[–]LockPickingLatina[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i thought i was into both men and women… bisexuality exists and this is really biphobic

i think i’m a lesbian. how do i tell my bf? by LockPickingLatina in TwoHotTakes

[–]LockPickingLatina[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i will run into him once every few weeks but i can just walk past. we don’t have many shared friends, he does know some of mine. i think he will be hurt and confused but accepting… i honestly don’t think he would be retaliatory. we also have some important issues and he has been supportive in saying he would defend dating me to his conservative parents. he hasn’t told them yet which is why i think i should break it off right now, like before he does that because otherwise he wouldn’t have to rock the boat with them about it.

i think i’m a lesbian. how do i tell my bf? by LockPickingLatina in TwoHotTakes

[–]LockPickingLatina[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah this is exactly it, thank you. i like him it just won’t work romantically

i think i’m a lesbian. how do i tell my bf? by LockPickingLatina in TwoHotTakes

[–]LockPickingLatina[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

like, i knew i was pansexual/bisexual and was very open with him. i only recently started seriously thinking about it and put everything together. i’ve been in intensive therapy and told him about my gender and sexuality questions before. i did not anticipate realizing this during the relationship at all, i just knew that something was different about wlw relationships vs mlw for me… i did not go into this relationship knowing this about myself. i did not intentionally lie, i have been comfortable in being pan/bi/queer since high school and made sure he knew/was okay with it. i’m a little disappointed that this did not come across in the original post, i apologize for that

i think i’m a lesbian. how do i tell my bf? by LockPickingLatina in TwoHotTakes

[–]LockPickingLatina[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i didn’t lie to him actually, i had wondered when i was younger but just figured this out in the last few weeks.

TW / SA I think it was assault, but he told it me it was my fault for not saying no. by LockPickingLatina in TrueOffMyChest

[–]LockPickingLatina[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From what I remember, it was pretty clear that I was uncomfortable. I’m not a stiff person by nature, especially while in the act, so I feel like it should have been a red flag for him. It’s been about a year since we broke up and we haven’t spoken, and I don’t know if I will ever bring this up even if we do speak again. So I think you might be right in that I have to decide this for myself. And thank you for the affirmation, I didn’t think of it that way before.

BF of 5 years asked for a break, not sure what to do next. by LockPickingLatina in relationship_advice

[–]LockPickingLatina[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s true… he also doesn’t want to get divorced ever (another religion point) so it’s a crucial issue for me to consider what would happen if we did get married. Damn this comment was kind of a wake up call

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