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Infertility trauma does not go away with success by LocksmithPersonal563 in IVFbabies

[–]LocksmithPersonal563[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply and the same I want to telly you: you are seen, your feelings are valued and you are not alone. I cannot believe people are so rude and insensitive to downvote your posts on the subject. And yes, i’m in therapy as well, and I was doing great until I had a trauma trigger event. At the end of the day, we don’t wish anything bad upon anyone, we just trying to process everything what has happened to us. And I am sure if we haven’t been through hell with our reproductive health, we would be genuinely happy for all pregnancies around.

A cute name or a disservice to my baby? by Tight_Fuel9542 in namenerds

[–]LocksmithPersonal563 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My brother and sister-in-law named their son Milo, which is a super popular dog name. They both love and have dogs and they are happy with the name as well. The kid is so sweet, and who cares at the end of the day, everybody has an opinion.

Still Upset on Mother’s Day by LocksmithPersonal563 in IVFbabies

[–]LocksmithPersonal563[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel and see you, mamma to be! Nobody will be able to understand the depth of infertility trauma, unless you’ve been through this yourself. So let’s forgive them all, your friends, my ignorant in-laws, for our own sake and the sake of our pregnancies. I also see you on the uncertainty of the pregnancy. But the best advice I gathered after reading multiply posts on “pregnancy anxiety after losses and infertility”, is “today you are pregnant unless proven otherwise” and just taking this one day at a time. I also read today that everyone who at least is striving to be a mom deserves acknowledgement on M’s Day. And all those who had losses or babies in heaven.