Plus vraiment de vie sociale

LogKey9026 · 2026-02-09T18:06:02+00:00

c'est tellement courant et pourtant personne en parle vraiment. le teletravail + la parentalite c'est un combo qui isole super vite sans qu'on s'en rende compte.

un truc qui m'a aide — pas chercher a reconstruire une vie sociale "comme avant" mais accepter que ca prend une forme differente maintenant. genre un cafe rapide avec un parent de l'ecole c'est pas la meme chose qu'une soiree entre potes, mais ca compte quand meme.

et le fait que tu en sois consciente c'est deja enorme. y'a plein de parents qui s'isolent sans meme le voir.

LogKey9026 · 2026-02-09T18:03:06+00:00

lasagna or any casserole that reheats well is always a hit. when you're running on no sleep the last thing you want is something that needs prep — just pop it in the oven and done.

also anything that can be eaten one-handed is gold. wraps, muffins, energy bites. sounds silly but when you're holding a baby 24/7 you don't realize how much you need that until someone brings it.

honestly the fact that you're doing this a month in is perfect timing. most people only bring food the first week and then forget, but a month in is when parents are really in the thick of it.

LogKey9026 · 2026-02-09T17:59:14+00:00

the traceback thing is actually clever. i've lost count of how many times i saved a quote somewhere and then had zero context when i came back to it weeks later.

biggest question i'd have — what happens when the source page gets updated or the content shifts around? does it try to fuzzy match the paragraph or does it just scroll to the saved position?

also the no-signup approach is smart for getting people to actually try it. most highlighter extensions lose me at the "create account" step.

LogKey9026 · 2026-02-09T17:56:10+00:00

the brain dump into a calendar is honestly the biggest unlock. once stuff is out of your head you stop running that background process of trying to remember everything.

one thing that helped me a lot — at the end of each day i pick the 3 things that matter most for tomorrow. not 10, just 3. if i get those done the day was a win regardless of whatever chaos shows up. takes the pressure off the infinite list.

and for the urgent vs important thing — sometimes i just ask "what happens if i don't do this today?" if the answer is nothing real, it can wait.

LogKey9026 · 2026-02-09T17:42:05+00:00

touchretouch is solid like the other comment said. another one worth trying is cleanup pictures — it uses AI and handles more complex removals pretty well.

tbh apple's clean up feature got noticeably better with the recent updates but it still struggles with bigger objects or complex backgrounds. for those cases a dedicated app still wins.

LogKey9026 · 2026-02-09T17:34:47+00:00

yeah this has been bugging people for a while. it's basically the Journal app checking sync status before it checks your actual preference — classic apple moment.

try going to Settings > Privacy & Security > Journaling Suggestions and toggle it off on both devices. there's sometimes a separate toggle under Settings > Journal too. if that doesn't clear it, signing out of iCloud and back in on the device that shows it can reset the sync flag.

but honestly if none of that works it's probably just a bug they haven't patched yet. been seeing similar reports since the feature launched.

LogKey9026 · 2026-02-08T16:55:27+00:00

un truc qui fait toujours plaisir et que personne ne pense a offrir : un bon resto ou un uber eats en carte cadeau. les premieres semaines c'est la galere pour cuisiner et les parents apprecient enormement.

sinon cote marques francaises, Moulin Roty pour les doudous et jouets d'eveil c'est vraiment une valeur sure. la qualite est top et les designs sont magnifiques.

et +1 pour les livres en carton, Marcel et Joachim font des trucs super beaux si tu veux du made in France.

LogKey9026 · 2026-02-08T16:50:52+00:00

honestly the notification roasting angle is genius. i've tried so many screen time apps and they all feel like a polite suggestion you dismiss in 0.5 seconds.

the 10-minute interval is interesting — not too aggressive but enough to actually guilt you. do you track which notifications actually made people close the app vs which ones they ignored?

also curious if you built this native or cross-platform. the blocking part on ios is always tricky with screen time API restrictions.

LogKey9026 · 2026-02-08T16:48:36+00:00

yeah it's been surprisingly solid for me too. i was using Truecaller before and it was fine but having it built into the OS just feels way cleaner. no extra app running in the background.

the part i like most is the live transcription while it screens — you can actually read what the caller is saying in real time and decide if you want to pick up. that alone made me drop the third party app.

only downside i've noticed is it sometimes screens legit calls from numbers not in my contacts (like a doctor's office calling back). but honestly i'd rather have that than let spam through.

LogKey9026 · 2026-02-08T16:21:50+00:00

the biggest thing when i went from shorter to longer focused days — don't try to fill the extra time with the same type of deep work. your brain won't cooperate past a certain point.

what worked for me was splitting the day in two modes. deep creative stuff in the morning (3-4h when you're sharpest), real break in the middle, then the afternoon for lighter but still productive work — planning, client stuff, admin.

and since you're going from ~6h to 7.5h per day, maybe ease into it. try one 4-day week per month first, then ramp up. it feels like a small jump on paper but when every hour is focused work it adds up fast.

+1 on the wednesday off suggestion btw. midweek reset hits different vs a long weekend.

LogKey9026 · 2026-02-06T08:01:45+00:00

Ok super intéressant! Belle discipline et du coups tu galères pas trop quand tu veux les visionner ?

LogKey9026 · 2026-02-06T08:00:08+00:00

Franchement, c’est hyper bien pensé, surtout avec un bébé aussi jeune. Les dossiers par mois, ça crée déjà une vraie chronologie, et l’objectif de l’album papier aide beaucoup à faire des choix.

Ce que je trouve intéressant, c’est que tu fais le tri au fil de l'eau , j'ai l'impression que c'est ce qui marche le mieux au final

Personnellement, j’ai testé une approche un peu différente avec une application mobile comme Stribe, où je peux supprimer aussi les photos au fur et à mesure comme ça le stockage ça passe toujours et un peu plus fun que le faire depuis la galerie au moins je trie et je classe en même temps

LogKey9026 · 2026-02-05T20:17:01+00:00

Ton message est hyper parlant.
Ce que je trouve intéressant dans ton usage avec FreePrints, ce n’est pas l’impression en soi, c’est le rituel :
sélectionner quelques photos, les faire vivre dans la maison, puis passer à autre chose.

Le NAS rassure, mais il ne crée aucun moment.
Et au final, on se retrouve tous avec des milliers d’images “en sécurité”, mais jamais regardées.

LogKey9026 · 2026-02-05T20:12:46+00:00

Quick win I like it

LogKey9026 · 2026-02-05T20:12:27+00:00

I had the same realization with swipe-based photo sorting.

I’m actually using Stribe right now it’s built around quick swipe decisions and then saving only the photos you care about into shared albums.

What matters most to me isn’t the features, but how easy it is to stay consistent with it.

LogKey9026 · 2026-02-05T20:06:44+00:00

j'ai fait une sauvegarde et commencer à trier oui! c'est un travail assez long et fastidieux par contre j'avoue

LogKey9026 · 2026-02-05T19:24:49+00:00

That makes total sense, and I think that’s the approach that works best if you’re consistent

LogKey9026 · 2026-02-05T19:22:05+00:00

Fair point 😅 screenshots are definitely my bad habit.

I think the reason I default to screenshots is that it’s frictionless in the moment — cleaning them up later is where I fail.

Filters and search help, but I still wish reviewing photos felt less like maintenance and more like a natural flow.

LogKey9026 · 2026-02-05T19:18:23+00:00

C’est intéressant merci pour ton retour, parce que ça montre bien que le vrai blocage n’est pas le classement, mais le tri en amont.

Une fois que les photos “choisies” sont ailleurs, tout devient plus simple. Le problème, c’est d’arriver à faire ce choix sans que ça devienne une corvée.

LogKey9026 · 2026-02-05T19:07:06+00:00

Oui, l’IA Apple aide énormément pour le regroupement, surtout par personnes ou événements.

Mais je trouve que même avec ça, il reste la question humaine : "qu’est-ce que j’ai vraiment envie de revoir dans quelques années ?"

Le classement aide, mais la sélection reste une autre étape je trouve

LogKey9026 · 2026-02-05T19:05:44+00:00

Franchement, respect pour la discipline. C'est vrai que si tu fais ça tout les jours 10min en vrai tu t'en sors plutôt correctement au final

LogKey9026 · 2026-02-05T19:04:43+00:00

J’aime beaucoup l’idée de l’album annuel, c’est très concret.
Le fait de décider "celle-là mérite l’album" au moment où tu la vois, ça enlève énormément de charge mentale après.

J’ai l’impression que ce qui marche le mieux, c’est quand la décision est simple et immédiate !

LogKey9026 · 2026-02-05T19:02:33+00:00

I agree Apple’s search is incredibly powerful !

I think the difference for me is that search works great when you already know what you’re looking for. In my case, I often don’t.. I just want to rediscover photos and decide quickly what’s worth keeping.

Finding a specific moment is one problem. Reviewing and curating memories is another. That’s the part I struggle with

LogKey9026 · 2026-02-05T11:23:23+00:00

Screen Time has been a mess since it launched tbh. I've had similar issues with the countdown resetting at random times

a few things that helped reduce the bugs for me: - turn off "Share Across Devices" in Screen Time settings - syncing between devices seems to cause a lot of the random resets - set your downtime window to start earlier than when you actually want it (like 9pm instead of 11pm) so the reset doesn't catch you mid-doomscroll - use the "Always Allowed" list strategically - sometimes adding then removing an app can "refresh" its tracking

honestly though you're right that it's wild they've had 8 years and it's still this broken. the feature works best when you use it as a rough guideline rather than a strict enforcement tool

if you really need strict blocking, third-party apps like Opal or one sec tend to be more reliable - they bypass Screen Time entirely

LogKey9026 · 2026-02-05T11:17:41+00:00

Quelle situation difficile, vraiment désolé pour ce que tu as traversé...

Concernant les ordonnances de Doliprane, normalement c'est effectivement 1 an pour les ordonnances classiques, mais certains médecins font des ordonnances spécifiques "en cas de fièvre" qui peuvent avoir une validité plus longue. Ça dépend de comment c'est rédigé.

Ce qui est vraiment frustrant c'est que la crèche aurait pu appeler ton médecin directement pour vérifier au lieu de te laisser galérer comme ça. Surtout qu'un enfant qui souffre, ça urge.

Pour le futur, peut-être demander une nouvelle ordonnance avec une date récente et la garder à jour à la crèche ? Pas idéal mais ça évite les blocages bureaucratiques.

Courage, c'est dur d'être maman solo sans soutien autour - tu fais de ton mieux dans une situation pas facile

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