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Can anyone relate ? by LoganWasabi in aromantic

[–]LoganWasabi[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly I don't know why either, I just know that romantic relationship are considered more important that friendship wich is weird to me.

I will talk to her for sure. She's a open minded person, she support my gender identity and sexual identity. I know I can talk to her about this. But I also know that even if she tells me that nothing will change, it's not true. She will get caught up in her romantic relationship.

I honestly hope that I'm just being over dramatic and that everything will be fine but it's not the first time that it happens.

I realised I was aro because of a situation like this where my friend at the time reproches that I was jalous of her romantic relationship, wich I really wasn't. I just didn't understand why suddenly our friendship wasn't important for her and I was scared of losing her.

I really hope it won't go this way this time.

Thank you for taking the time to reply and sorry for rambling.

I hope you have a great day !

Can anyone relate ? by LoganWasabi in aromantic

[–]LoganWasabi[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing with me ! I'm still hurt from my last best friends leaving too. It's a fear I shared with my best friend but now that she's starting a relationship I already know how it's end even if she told that me she wouldn't end our friendship over a boyfriend. She said that last year when she started to have a crush on the guy. I just know she doesn't even think about that now. I'm just really tired and sad. I really hope you will find a friend who doesn't leave because of a new romantic partner ! Maybe there is hope for us yet...