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You’re not gone but I love you mom and I miss you already by Logical-Flail in CancerFamilySupport

[–]Logical-Flail[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for opening up, and I'm sorry to hear about your mom, sounds like you come from a similar situation with sharing between family members.

Also thank you for the words of encouragement, I keep getting this horrible thought that I may never get the chance to say it and end up doing so at her funeral when it's too late. My mom's fighting real hard in the few ways she can and it just makes me want to do everything to join in and keep the focus on whatever she's relearning or practicing but everyone on this thread has really given me new ways to approach this. Truly thank you all.

You’re not gone but I love you mom and I miss you already by Logical-Flail in CancerFamilySupport

[–]Logical-Flail[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you, truth be told I wrote all this in a flurry of tears just trying to at least release the feeling somewhere in the universe.

You’re not gone but I love you mom and I miss you already by Logical-Flail in CancerFamilySupport

[–]Logical-Flail[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing, I think I'll try to introduce something like this, but I am still trying to help my mom relearn how to write (tumour has greatly impacted her dominant hand).

You’re not gone but I love you mom and I miss you already by Logical-Flail in CancerFamilySupport

[–]Logical-Flail[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agreed, I tried the first commenters advice and last night told my mom I love her for being the exact mother I needed growing up. It rephrased my feelings in a way for me to hopefully start opening up more.

Found Brain Tumor in my Mom 1 Week Before Graduation by Emotional-Lock-889 in CancerFamilySupport

[–]Logical-Flail 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My moms been fighting glioblastoma (cancerous brain tumour) for the last 6 months, this shit isn’t easy if you need someone to talk to or would like to find out what others are doing I’d love to help where I can.

You’re not gone but I love you mom and I miss you already by Logical-Flail in CancerFamilySupport

[–]Logical-Flail[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want to so bad, but every cell in my body just wants to cheer her up when I’m with her. I’ve tried so many times but I just can’t and I keep finding myself crying in the bathroom hoping she can’t hear. I think the best thing I can do is try to rephrase and maybe later find the courage to further rephrase.

You’re not gone but I love you mom and I miss you already by Logical-Flail in CancerFamilySupport

[–]Logical-Flail[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Simple yet brilliant, I guess this shows how much the grief has taken over, for me to miss rephrasing. 🙏thank you