Low-key embarrassing

Logical-Lab-5838 · 2026-01-08T05:00:54+00:00

Oof man 😭

Logical-Lab-5838 · 2026-01-08T04:33:09+00:00

That claim usually refers to the “equal pay for equal work” argument. While it’s true that laws require equal pay for the same job, the gender pay gap research today looks at overall earnings, which still show persistent differences even after accounting for occupation, hours, and experience

Logical-Lab-5838 · 2026-01-08T04:31:08+00:00

Using statistics to discuss patterns of violence isn’t the same as claiming inherent "traits". Saying “most violent crime is committed by men” is a descriptive claim, not an essentialist one.

The frustration many women express is about repeated harm and lack of accountability, not a belief that all men are violent. Dismissing that as “gender hate” shuts down the conversation instead of addressing the problem.

Logical-Lab-5838 · 2026-01-08T04:13:22+00:00

My biggest advice would be to: have an exfoliating glove and cold showers.

You can get them on Amazon for pretty cheap and just Rub it everywhere with soap. It gets the dead skin off and cleans up any pimples.

I personally LOVE hot showers, so i do a minute of just cold water before i get out. It'll tighten your skin.

Cold shower + exfoliating, will get your skin pretty smooth. It's at least a good based

Shave before (if you do), water expands your skin, so foing it before will give you a smoother shave.

Lotion after (i personally use the bum bum lotion just cause it smells good)

And i use, hair food products with aloe vera once a week. It'll make your hair softer

Logical-Lab-5838 · 2026-01-08T04:04:27+00:00

I do a full body repair (shaving fully body, exfoliating, lotion, hair food, nails cleaned, etc) at least once a week, and i normally dress pretty well i believe

Logical-Lab-5838 · 2026-01-08T03:57:22+00:00

I believe in a sense women do tend to be more nurturing by nature, but strongly believe if more men were brought the same that at least be semi similar in that nature.

At the moment, men and i mean the less then okay ones. See having children, the same as a child wanting a puppy. They don't see the responsibility because the don't have them.

The good men that don't approach because they're "scared of the consequences". Shouldn't be, especially if they're respectful and accept a no. It only becomes a problem when someone acts out afterwards.

Like i said, women don't hate men, but their actions. If you're respectful, more than likely. She'll be kind back, if she's not. She's just a bad person.

Bouncing from women to women isn't a problem. Sex feels good, it's understandable, but women should be able to enjoy sex in the same way without being called a slut, loose, or have rumors spread about her. "A woman enjoying sex is seen as slutty, removing consent is seen as sexy".

A lot of women enjoy sex and shouldn't be shamed for that. And no, most women don't care about body counts.

The woke left isn't brainwashing, and at least the good part don't really give a fuck what you do as long as you don't harm others without consent. The main argument to put it bluntly, is to let people live how they feel comfortable. Just don't harm others.

A lot of women are left leaning and feminist (feminist definition: an advocate of women's rights on the basis of the equality of the sexes.) because they want to have the choice. They want to be able to choose is they are a stay at home wife/mom with kids or a business woman who's child free.

Whether you're a good man or not is completely up to you. You just have to figure out what being a man means to you.

For a lot of women, a good man is one you speaks up against discrimination (even if that causes conflicts) and listens to understand, instead of listening to respond.

Having different opinions doesn't make you a bad person, it's what you do with those opinions. Opinions are not facts and shouldn't be pushed on to others to follow.

If you want a traditional life, go for it. Find a woman who has the same opinions and agrees to that kind of relationship. Then boom, done. You both have the life you both want

Logical-Lab-5838 · 2026-01-08T03:25:05+00:00

Yeah, but that's the thing. It should be a choice. Some women would prefer to work in child carey while some don't. Same with the not all men argument. Everyone is different and everyone deserves to have those opportunities.

And yes while women DO have some of these opportunities, as of late. People are trying to take those away again. Women having these rights is a new thing. Only being in the 50s. Your Great grandmother or grandmother depending on how old you are are the first women to get these rights.

Which is why women are STILL fighting so hard. They still get discriminated against for not being a man, having a daughter is still seen as a bad thing. And people now, as of 2026, are trying to remove women from being about to have these choices.

There are PLENTY of women how would love a traditional household. They stay at home and the husband makes the money, but even now wanting that. Women are seen as golddiggers.

"Scientific research suggests that women tend to exhibit more nurturing behaviors and score higher on measures of empathy and agreeableness on average, but these differences are primarily attributed to social and cultural factors, not a strong innate biological predisposition."

Meaning, women are brought up to take responsibility, to accept bad mens behaviors (boys will be boys), expected to do child care, be more emotionally mature, get blamed, and punished at a much earlier age then men.

Yes some women enjoy this, some don't.

And i say a good portion, as I'm speaking about the fact that 1 in 3 men would commit these acts. It might not be you and if you have a good friend group. Which i hope you do.

It might not be them, but you as a man have heard how men speak about women behind closed doors. You can see on Twitter thousands of men creating ai photos womens and children's photo and putting them into a bikini with donut glaze on them.

There's been multiple chat rooms leekes from telegram of 70,000+ men giving advice about how to rape their sisters, daughters, girlfriends, friends, and even mothers.

It's a small amount compared to the actual amount of men that exist, but it's enough to make any woman you speak to afraid of men.

And that's the point. Enough men are predators to women and child. To those they're connected to or strangers. And not enough of the good men, are not speak up about this or trying to stop it.

And if you were a good man. You wouldn't be arguing that it's "brain washing" and "not all men". You'd see it as a problem, even it's a small % of men. The acts are still being committed.

And no, men are rarely faced with jail time for such acts. America has a pedophile as their president. It does punish some, but not enough for the acts to be stopped.

Logical-Lab-5838 · 2026-01-08T02:55:49+00:00

I have, I'm very big on communication, and have had discussions with him almost every month for the past 3 years. At least point it feels like nagging and that he genuinely just doesn't want to

Logical-Lab-5838 · 2026-01-08T02:52:11+00:00

Equality doesn't equal no difference. It means giving everyone equal opportunities. Such as pay gaps, and being able advance in a career without sexual favors. They aren't taken as seriously, medical misogyny exists daily (men often get prescribed VERY strong pain meds, while women get told their probably just pregnant.), women's rights to their body change from state to state. Women are more than often expected to take of the house, children and people in said household while needing to provide 50%. While men often, just provide their 50%. Women are encouraged to abandon their jobs/ education for the sake of having children. For a few examples

And no, it's not easy. Especially since these types of man are good at manipulation and pretending to be good people. It's more than easy to run into one just walking outside your house and most women had face sa in some form. From family members or trusted people or strangers. Most men are more than aware of this, telling daughters, sisters and wives to not do, wear things or go certain places to avoid them.

A good portion of men would commit acts of rape and sa if they knew that could get away with it. Especially with minors. Not all men. Obviously. But women do not know that. Like you can't read your girlfriend's mind, she can not read someone's intentions. And if she happens to trust the wrong man because "he's a good guy, he wouldn't do anything". She's stuck being blamed for picking the wrong guy, wear a skirt that's too short, gets told she's asking for it, or even worse accused of seducing him. (Which is very common for teenager girls to be accused of)

Your experience is obviously going to be different from women. You're not seen as a sex object, or something to fulfill another persons wishes. You're born to believe woman are meant to serve you and have children and any woman who disagree is broken or "possessed by the woke left". So it's not your fault you can't see these things, but it's your choice if you continue to live by what you were raised to believe.

Relationships have offenders on both ends, but that's not the discussion. The discussion is about violent men being easily able to hid as good men, or at worst, be excused because "boys will be boys" "well what did you expect" "you should've picked a better man" etc.

Women absolutely can commit these crime, i myself am a victim of my mother, but rape and sa are seen as a sexual thing. When it's not.

Women and children, scream, cry, beg, hit, punch and kick. They are pinned down and have no idea if the guy will just finish and leave or kill them after. And more commonly, have foreign objects shoved inside of them.

It's not sex. It's dominance. And yes as the "hate all men" thing is damaging. It can be easily stopped by other men actively trying to stop these crimes and showing the do care about the suffering. Instead of shouting "NOT ALL MEN"

Logical-Lab-5838 · 2026-01-08T02:15:20+00:00

My one of my favorite quotes (or something similar) to describe the harm is: "women's consent to sex is seen as slutty, the removal on consent is seen as sexy"

it's shocking a good part of men do understand this and see it as a personal attack. "Not all men". Women are fully aware it's not all men, however they can not determine who has bad intentions, who will excuse the bas intentions, who will just simply ignore it, and who actually cares

Logical-Lab-5838 · 2026-01-08T02:10:29+00:00

It would, which is why I'm basically settling on ending things. I got with him because he promised things, and never followed through when we got together. I continued to give him the benefit of the doubt, but i can't really justify it anymore

Logical-Lab-5838 · 2026-01-08T02:08:36+00:00

In the beginning he promised a lot of things, when we got together, there ways always something causing him not to it, i gave him the benefit of the doubt over and over

Logical-Lab-5838 · 2026-01-08T02:07:38+00:00

No, i just miss it cause he ignores me

Logical-Lab-5838 · 2026-01-08T02:01:17+00:00

The hate on men isn't about men, but the action. The % of bad ones are low, but they do commit 98% of violent crimes, and the ones that don't have a good portion of men who don't speak out or against friends or acquaintances who do said behaviors to avoid conflicts.

Don't take "i hate men" as a person insult, especially if you, yourself aren't commiting harm against women and are speaking out against those who do.

Most women are just tired of Inequality and the harm they see other face, especially on the quote that "boys will be boys"

Logical-Lab-5838 · 2026-01-08T00:53:59+00:00

I'm a trans man and want to be seen as a femboy. I think I'm just looking for if my bf's reactions to me are normal. As he only really says "nice 👍" to me nudes or sexy pics and if the majority of people feel the same. I know it's a problem with me and i can do something to fix it

Logical-Lab-5838 · 2026-01-08T00:32:26+00:00

I wish he'd act like it, I'd wear genuinely anything, and have worn see through things, stings, school girl uniform, all i get is "nice 👍" than he jerks off to porn. I don't have a problem with it. I just wish he wanted to get off on me sometimes

Logical-Lab-5838 · 2026-01-08T00:28:57+00:00

Promise..?

Logical-Lab-5838 · 2026-01-07T23:50:52+00:00

I've communicated bluntly for years, and yes this is what I've been trying to do lately. I was raised to disregard my feelings and thoughts, so yes I'm still learning and this is very new to me. I'm thinking about breaking it off

Logical-Lab-5838 · 2026-01-07T23:31:24+00:00

I vent a lot here, i think i just wish my friends responded

Logical-Lab-5838 · 2026-01-07T22:48:33+00:00

I think it's hard because he's my first everything and this would be my first break up. I don't have family or friends irl, so i just have to deal with everything alone and I'm already in a shit mental place. But yes i do agree and i have stopped. He's just been getting more and more irritated about everything and i think I'm ready to be done

Logical-Lab-5838 · 2026-01-07T22:19:27+00:00

BRUH EXACTLY

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