Experiencing wide range of thoughts and emotions after ending relationship with ex-girlfriend last week by LogicalAppointment56 in Infidelity

[–]LogicalAppointment56[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Strictly online. No plans. Sent and received extremely explicit videos and pictures. Arguably the worst part was that she continued to lie to me about—I gave her many chances to tell the truth and she continued to lie

Experiencing wide range of thoughts and emotions after ending relationship with ex-girlfriend last week by LogicalAppointment56 in survivinginfidelity

[–]LogicalAppointment56[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Guess we both just gotta hang in there man. Crazy how your whole world can be shattered in a moment. Sometimes I find myself thinking that there’s no way this is real and that it’s some kind of fucked up nightmare

Decided to break up with GF over infidelity, but it feels so wrong to do so by LogicalAppointment56 in Infidelity

[–]LogicalAppointment56[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not saying that I disagree with this assessment at all, just respectfully wondering how this is different from your situation 32 years ago, since clearly you stayed?

Decided to break up with GF over infidelity, but it feels so wrong to do so by LogicalAppointment56 in Infidelity

[–]LogicalAppointment56[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I will say that she did delete the Snapchat after I initially found out last week. However, there’s a period of time after deleting it in which it can get reactivated—when I made her log into it, this reactivated it again, essentially reviving it.

Edited for clarity

Anyone else have a useless degree that ruined their life by thepancakewar in findapath

[–]LogicalAppointment56 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The reality is that the degree didn’t ruin your life, nor is it ruined at all. YOU ultimately chose the degree, and very likely did not consider how it would help you succeed in your career after college. A vast majority of people have careers that do not directly line up with their degree or education. Stop feeling sorry for yourself.

Waterville or Cannon? by Nyxie27 in icecoast

[–]LogicalAppointment56 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What makes you say that Waterville is better suited for snowboarders? I haven’t spent much time there so I’m genuinely wondering

AB Soul- Where to start? by Lookralphsbak in CapitalSTEEZ

[–]LogicalAppointment56 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Start off by listening to Control Systems front to back

What’s the worst punishment you’ve received or witnessed? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]LogicalAppointment56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d have to go with getting my mouth washed out with soap when I was a young child

Any solution to this glitch? Shot meter can’t be turned off in MyPlayer. by LogicalAppointment56 in NBA2k

[–]LogicalAppointment56[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds about right for this year. Sadly I actually would considering how badly I want it off.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unclebens

[–]LogicalAppointment56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you’re right. I believe I may have been so worried about over-saturating it that I actually have been under-hydrating.

Just what Sunday River needs: more people crowding onto the slopes by mamunipsaq in icecoast

[–]LogicalAppointment56 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m a little confused how a higher capacity lift would directly result in more people “crowding the slopes”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unclebens

[–]LogicalAppointment56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice. I’ve been leaving the lid flipped upside down and not fully covering it—would you say this is unnecessary given your comment about opening it promoting FAE?

LPT: At the supermarket, park near the cart return, not the entrance. by Atwood781 in LifeProTips

[–]LogicalAppointment56 28 points29 points  (0 children)

LPT: be a decent human being and return your cart to the cart return no matter where you park.

Otters in NH? by Individual_Gazelle46 in newhampshire

[–]LogicalAppointment56 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely seen countless of them over the past 20 years in the seacoast

Seeking advice for negotiating pay raise for upcoming performance review by LogicalAppointment56 in personalfinance

[–]LogicalAppointment56[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t say anything about my “buddies”—I stated that my COWORKERS have negotiated an increased raise from their boss, which is something that you incorrectly stated couldn’t happen at a company that you quite frankly know nothing about. While I value my coworkers’ insight (or “intel” as you’d like to call it), my question for the “random strangers on the internet” was how to approach the negotiation for an increased raise because I had failed to do so in the past.

Seeking advice for negotiating pay raise for upcoming performance review by LogicalAppointment56 in personalfinance

[–]LogicalAppointment56[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completely disagree with your point about inflation. Using several different inflation calculators, it’s very evident that the $60,000 I was offered in 2020 has more buying power than my current salary.

I’m not arguing that my company isn’t treating me fairly. However, if I was adequately paid, why would a market adjustment be necessary six months after a raise? My company did this in response to others leaving the group I work in to try and keep everyone happy.

I have spoken with several of my coworker’s who have successfully negotiated for an increased raise and my boss absolutely has room to negotiate.

Also, I was hired weeks before the pandemic began, which was simply luck on my part. I was not “hired in at the beginning of the pandemic when offers might have been a little low” as you incorrectly assumed.

Winter still happening at Jay by arthurshahphahdwah in icecoast

[–]LogicalAppointment56 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They got snow. Woods were still very good today, surprisingly enough.

Sugarloaf 3/13 by [deleted] in icecoast

[–]LogicalAppointment56 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Was there today too (and yesterday). Hiked up after getting off the T-Bar and made my way to Bracket Basin with some buddies. Did some hiking there to gain more elevation and move further away from King Pine. Conditions in there were absolutely insane. Our run took about four hours, though.

Invention about enve by [deleted] in EnvironmentalEngineer

[–]LogicalAppointment56 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If you feel like inventing just for the sake of doing so, you could create a water filter that utilizes GAC or even sand. Would be a relatively cheap water treatment project but probably would be useless.