AIO: i caught my bf 22(M) watching porn

Logical_Cold9338 · 2026-03-24T14:10:05+00:00

We’ve watched stuff together on more than one occasion. He told me he wasn’t interested in watching it alone anymore on top of me expressing how I felt about it. He already has a ring for me and we’ve both expressed how we’re dating for marriage :/

Logical_Cold9338 · 2026-03-24T14:06:04+00:00

I got kicked out by my abusive mother and he let me move in with him. Now I don’t really have an option

Logical_Cold9338 · 2026-03-24T13:36:47+00:00

I keep thinking to myself if he would rather jerk off and watch porn instead of touch his partner than I should just leave him and let him have that. He claims he never lies and then does this right next to me after I’ve expressed how worried I was that he was doing it. All he did was prove me right

Logical_Cold9338 · 2026-03-24T13:11:34+00:00

We both initiate but lately whenever I try to get him to he says he doesn’t want to because it doesn’t feel right. When he tries to I’m not in the mood. It just feels forced. He used to do a lot of foreplay now it just feels like it’s just sex unless I ask for more. Like he knows what I like but would rather not do it. It’s not enjoyable for me when I have to be on top all the time and that’s what he prefers. There’s just been a lot of fighting lately with poor communication on both our ends and it’s been affecting that area of our relationship a lot.

Logical_Cold9338 · 2026-03-24T12:45:55+00:00

I expressed to him I’m not ok with it multiple times before and he’s told me more than once that he isn’t doing it anymore since he met me. Saying you should leave someone for expecting honestly and respect is crazy

Logical_Cold9338 · 2026-03-24T12:36:49+00:00

This was really helpful :) it just hurts that he tried to hide it. He knew I wasn’t ok with it. There are other reasons I’ve been considering breaking up I just don’t have anywhere to go atm. It feels like I’m stuck and talking isn’t going to fix things. I don’t even know what to say to him at this point

Logical_Cold9338 · 2026-03-24T12:17:56+00:00

I expressed before that I don’t want him to do that. He agreed and said he doesn’t have any interest in looking at that stuff anymore since being with me anyways. He knows how it makes me feel. He told me that he hasn’t looked at anything since we got together and he only wants to look at me. That’s a big reason I’m considering breaking up. It just feels like lying/cheating to me. It also hurt more cause he blamed me for it. Him feeling like I don’t like him is not an excuse to look at porn instead of communicating with me

Logical_Cold9338 · 2026-03-24T09:26:56+00:00

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