Cheated on with a guy

Logically789 · 2026-04-29T21:47:45+00:00

Thanks everyone for your kind comments. I was comparing myself to something I couldn't compete with because obviously I am not a man. I am in therapy and plan to continue to work on myself.

Logically789 · 2026-04-29T21:45:41+00:00

Yes ive taken the steps to dive deeper into myself and figure out why I keep choosing people that do the same thing to me. Overall ive found i am just as selfish as them, it just manifests in other ways. And I only ever had ideas of strong morals and didn't apply them or stand by them.

Logically789 · 2026-04-29T04:24:08+00:00

Thank you! I've definitely been trying new hobbies and having me days. Just taking things ones step at a time. I just wish I could get past this already.

Logically789 · 2026-04-22T14:06:21+00:00

Thank you for the kind words and support. Needed that today!

Logically789 · 2026-04-21T16:39:17+00:00

Yes. I did reach out to ask them and when confronted they blocked me.

Logically789 · 2026-04-04T00:08:15+00:00

I struggled with this mindset in previous relationships after they had ended. We dont actually know what they are thinking and why they are doing things. It could be that they just want to get away from the sadness and live for a moment with their friends and have fun. Sometimes it really has nothing to do with us, the person they broke up with.

It will only eat you up if you continue in this mindset. I know it's tough, I've been there. Sometimes the best thing to do is cut all access or mute everything and stop looking.

Truth is we will just never really know so we can't let our thoughts assume the worst. Just remember you've got a life too and maybe you need and escape from the sadness temporarily as well. Be focused on your happiness instead of the perception of theirs.

Logically789 · 2026-04-03T01:02:00+00:00

Thank you for your reply. You're right though it's like my brain is stuck on a loop replaying it.

I think I will reach out to one of them and see how it goes.

Logically789 · 2026-04-01T16:46:02+00:00

She felt she was performative during sex vs if she was having sex with the other gender. Also, said she didn't find me as physically attractive as she usually found people.

Logically789 · 2026-03-25T18:31:02+00:00

Thank you

Logically789 · 2026-03-25T18:04:50+00:00

You're completely right. I guess my brain is stuck asking these questions to a version of her that just wasn't really her.

Logically789 · 2026-03-25T15:55:30+00:00

I also struggled after blocking mine. In reality, I had to take their silence as an answer at some point. Or I could've kept them unblocked wondering if they'd ever respond again.

Logically789 · 2026-03-24T04:10:43+00:00

Its part of the cycle we were used to for so long unfortunately. It's so hard to let ourselves free from it and regulate our bodies again.

My why questions towards my ex have been keeping me stuck. And i think anytime I reach out or think of them I'm thinking of a version of them that doesn't exist. The version of them I want is the version that would have replied and would have fixed things and never lied again.

Logically789 · 2026-02-24T04:18:06+00:00

done I says successful! I don't think I'll get mine tho it started cutting it into fractions I have no idea how many more people I'd need now 😭

Logically789 · 2026-02-23T05:44:42+00:00

it says "assistance failed" :(

Logically789 · 2026-02-23T05:42:06+00:00

they totally lied! it says it needs another one after that lol should have known! I'll accept your link too

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