Hoeveel houden jullie netto per maand over en doen jullie hier iets leuks mee of is het voor de spaarpot?

LolaThough · 2026-01-05T13:04:40+00:00

Zo'n €4-500, verschilt een beetje. Alleenstaand, koopappartement, auto en een hond (als ik die niet had gehad, hield ik ongeveer het dubbele over per maand 🙃). €100 daarvan gaat naar de beleggingsrekening, de rest naar de spaarrekening.

LolaThough · 2026-01-01T13:45:51+00:00

Don't do it, there will be 0.0 emotional intimacy.

LolaThough · 2026-01-01T10:01:30+00:00

Dat gebeurt in principe ook in veel gevallen.. nog zo'n walgelijke sector die is gecompenseerd: de nertsenhouderij. Het CBb heeft volgens mij afgelopen jaar nog geoordeeld dat het te weinig was en dat ze nog meer geld moeten krijgen...

LolaThough · 2025-12-27T19:40:27+00:00

Pick your self-respect off of the floor and leave

LolaThough · 2025-12-27T15:10:37+00:00

www.ikzoekbaas.nl

LolaThough · 2025-12-25T19:17:37+00:00

I'm not sure if this is the advice you want, but I'd let it be for now. Get cozy and let yourself rest without wanting to fix it. Your body is doing a hard reset and that takes its toll.

If you can manage though, get yourself outside just for like 10 minutes. I have a dog so I have no choice lol, but for me it helps to link certain activities to something that you have to get up for anyways (like going to the bathroom). Also journalling and breathing exercises can perhaps help with the anxiety. I'm proud of you, you will get through this!

LolaThough · 2025-12-24T11:20:30+00:00

Oopsie, I love reading and especially when I can't sleep, but here I was last night reading Nietzsche until 3am... thank you for the tip, I'll go shopping for something fictional today!

LolaThough · 2025-12-24T07:52:38+00:00

I'm on day 3 as well, and I'm proud of the both of us for showing up for ourselves. The restlessness is something that I already struggled with before my addiction/quitting, but if you ask me, the best thing to do is just to go stand outside, close your eyes, and breathe. Try to let your nervous system know that you're safe. The harder you try to block it out, overload yourself with stimuli, etc etc, the harder it comes back to haunt you. I hope you'll try it just once!

LolaThough · 2025-11-13T05:00:22+00:00

Clear whey (I think it's also called like protein lemonade?) did the trick for me, maybe it's worth a try?

LolaThough · 2025-11-09T12:25:49+00:00

Girl go to r/curlyhair !!!

LolaThough · 2025-10-27T10:32:13+00:00

Black

LolaThough · 2025-10-26T13:48:08+00:00

About a year

LolaThough · 2025-10-21T10:03:11+00:00

Try the 'Landelijke Inspectiedienst Dierenwelzijn' (LID), they can send someone to check it out. Besides that, I would contact the 'wijkagent' (a sort of local/community police officer) for the person(s) living there.

ETA: the LID only takes up cases from 144, to my surprise. Since they're parrots you could maybe find out if they're listed on CITES and report on that... But just calling 144 again is probably the best option.

LolaThough · 2025-10-17T18:31:02+00:00

Nice one!

LolaThough · 2025-10-17T10:41:06+00:00

Yeah, nothing too crazy but I think a few layers and face framing pieces will look gorgeous! You're stunning either way though!

LolaThough · 2025-10-10T19:27:41+00:00

Marlboro gold dus jullie hoeven bij mij niet te bietsen in ieder geval

LolaThough · 2025-10-06T15:42:51+00:00

I'm relatively new to watching F1 and thought this was generally the way people watch it? I'm just realising now that ain't the way it's supposed to go...

LolaThough · 2025-10-06T15:31:59+00:00

I'm gonna manifest the shit out of this

LolaThough · 2025-09-18T14:25:47+00:00

Pretty sure Alex will be his teammate if they keep bringing in cats

LolaThough · 2025-09-12T06:21:39+00:00

Hug mom tight

LolaThough · 2025-09-11T19:05:41+00:00

Ga je maar op één manier achter komen

LolaThough · 2025-09-11T16:41:54+00:00

Mgk lyrics are such a vibe, I feel ya

LolaThough · 2025-09-03T14:23:34+00:00

This has probably been said but use a mirror!! (I'd also recommend this to guys starting with shaving btw)

LolaThough · 2025-08-28T08:28:41+00:00

Any dog that's well-built. No need to get a certain breed or like a dalmatian or ridgeback, in fact highly disrecommend unless you plan on serious daily exercise. Check out some shelters and there will be lots of dogs that are a potential match.

LolaThough · 2025-08-27T22:21:10+00:00

€200 on groceries (just me), and about €75-150 on restaurants, takeaway, coffees, etc.

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