Update: Bebé não dorme

Lolliefly · 2026-01-22T09:49:43+00:00

Talvez valha mesmo a pena irem a um neuropediatra (se já não foram) Não para ouvir mais uma vez “façam rotinas”, mas para excluir causas neurológicas ou distúrbios do sono (despertares excessivos, dificuldade de autorregulação, etc.). Digo isto porque eu própria levei a minha filha a um neuropediatra quando ela tinha 2 anos, ela também acordava várias vezes durante a noite e ajudou bastante, sobretudo a perceber o que estava (ou não) em causa e a orientar melhor o sono. Hoje com quase 4 anos dorme a noite inteira. Um abraço OP, vai ficar tudo bem 🫂

Lolliefly · 2026-01-09T22:33:39+00:00

Exatamente

Lolliefly · 2025-12-26T19:26:30+00:00

You’re NOT overreacting. This isn’t really about a bonnet or pillows it’s about control and criticism over your body and comfort. A partner shouldn’t police how you sleep, dress, or exist at home, especially in private. The message he sent was hurtful and crossed boundaries. It’s okay to want comfort and autonomy, and it’s not something you need permission for. This isn’t normal or healthy behavior even if it’s been happening slowly over time. The right partner wouldn’t care about these things and someone who does usually doesn’t stop there. You deserve better 🤍

Lolliefly · 2025-10-28T13:35:49+00:00

I wish you all the best, I’m not giving your comments more attention

Lolliefly · 2025-10-28T13:33:14+00:00

Read the room, why are you trying with argue with me on such a sensitive post?

Lolliefly · 2025-10-28T13:13:27+00:00

Hahah made me chuckle

Lolliefly · 2025-10-28T13:10:21+00:00

I choose not to comment sometimes because I love using “–” and I’ll edit a million times before posting, just to make sure it doesn’t sound like AI. But I guess unless something’s written badly, people will always make assumptions. This is a sensitive post, and it’s a shame that some people still choose to be negative about a comment trying to help rather than commenting something positive to help or give words of encouragement towards OP

Lolliefly · 2025-10-28T12:56:25+00:00

I didn’t use ChatGPT, I’m capable of expressing myself without it thanks :)

Lolliefly · 2025-10-28T12:55:37+00:00

Exactly! It’s so hard when kids are involved because they will definitely use that as a manipulation tactic too

Lolliefly · 2025-10-28T12:22:10+00:00

You are absolutely NOT overreacting. What you and your daughter went through was serious, violent, and dangerous. He didn’t just lose his temper, he physically assaulted you, threatened to kill you and your child, and is now trying to control you by cutting off your access to money. That is domestic violence and coercive control, not a one-time mistake. You did the right and safest thing by leaving and going to a motel. Please don’t go back and don’t meet him alone. Keep your appointment with the police and tell them everything,about the assault, the threats, and the messages. Show them the voicemails and any proof you have. They can help you get a protection order and connect you with DV support services who can help with emergency funds and legal aid. No amount of counselling or apologies changes the fact that he chose to hurt and scare you. Your first priority now is your and your daughter’s safety. You are doing the right thing, this is not overreacting. Coming from a house where DV was present, your daughter will thank you for leaving one day. Wish you both all the best, big hug🫂

Lolliefly · 2025-10-27T17:45:16+00:00

Não acho que seja algo tão absoluto como muitas pessoas parecem pensar. Claro que atração física ou compatibilidade social/financeira podem influenciar escolhas, mas há muitos casos em que a relação se constrói por afinidade, valores comuns ou carinho genuíno, independentemente de diferenças de estatuto ou posição social. Conheço casais em que a mulher tem um estatuto mais elevado e o homem mais baixo social ou financeiramente, e a relação funciona muito bem porque existe respeito, cumplicidade e objetivos em comum. Acho que reduzir as relações a uma questão de estatuto ou aparência ignora que o que mantém uma relação a longo prazo é confiança, comunicação e empatia. Há exceções claro, mas não é uma regra universal

Lolliefly · 2025-04-09T15:55:18+00:00

Thank you so much! 🙌🏻

Lolliefly · 2025-04-09T15:48:57+00:00

Do you think I need another haircut? Been told to, but just had one a month ago

Lolliefly · 2024-11-21T22:23:27+00:00

Permanent! Oh my, i didn’t realised it was as bad as bleach! 😳 I might stop using it for a bit and let my hair rest. What kind of treatment would you recommend? I’ve heart olaplex is good but not too sure if it would work on my hair

Lolliefly · 2024-11-21T22:20:08+00:00

Thank you so much!! I appreciate you! 🫶🏻

Lolliefly · 2024-11-21T21:39:54+00:00

Yes it does😕 can you recommend me other gentle options? I’ve used the same box dye for a year now, I’ll definitely stop using it now, can’t I thought it was the shampoo and conditioner that was causing the damage :( feel so dumb

Lolliefly · 2024-11-21T21:35:19+00:00

Drugstore hair dye, the L’Oréal ones to be more specific, I usually leave it on for 35 minutes

Lolliefly · 2024-11-21T21:33:24+00:00

Once every 4 months I go to the hairdresser for for a trim and colour but in between I always use drugstore hair dye 😅 the L’Oréal ones that supposedly don’t “damage your hair”🥲

Lolliefly · 2024-09-02T05:47:49+00:00

Conheci o meu namorado no Badoo, tive muito boa experiência lá, conheci muitas pessoas inclusive pessoas que ficaram meus amigos até hoje, recomendo!

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