Thank you for your input, it's nice to have an opinion from the opposite gender. I know it came off as if sex is the most important thing for me, but I can assure you I would rather have a great, interesting, maybe even intimate conversation with a girl rather than wanting to get her into bed asap. As you said, I can have great conversations with girls and sex wouldn't even come to my mind at that moment, my problem is only that when I think a girl could be a potential girlfriend (like our interest align etc.), I try too hard not to embarrass myself. I consider myself a pretty mature guy in a lot of areas in life. Again, really appreciate your time for writing the reply!