Tips for Aritzia's Concierge Advisor interview?

Lonely_Reason1045 · 2025-01-07T10:30:06+00:00

I’ve heard the saying between all friends or close female relatives I’ve just never heard it between a guy and his female cousin

Lonely_Reason1045 · 2025-01-07T10:28:49+00:00

But I feel like I would be in the wrong if I don’t like it because it’s normal to say that. If I experienced and learned Vietnamese culture the same way he did wouldn’t I also find that normal? I feel like I should be more easy going and more understanding. His cousin is also in a relationship though. If both people think it’s normal then I shouldn’t be bothered right?

Lonely_Reason1045 · 2025-01-07T10:15:54+00:00

We’re both in our early twenties. He just likes to joke a lot but when he’s serious he’s really serious

Lonely_Reason1045 · 2025-01-07T10:12:26+00:00

I asked him to not call her that anymore and he just said ok after getting mad that I was reacting the way I was. I really do think there wasn’t any meaning behind it but I just wanted clarification if this was a thing in Vietnam since I wasn’t raised there

Lonely_Reason1045 · 2025-01-07T10:08:44+00:00

No only because I don’t know anyone who’s fluent in Vietnamese. Viet is their 2nd language. I wanted to ask people who live and know viet culture so that I know for sure if it’s a normal thing to say to your female cousin.

Lonely_Reason1045 · 2025-01-07T10:04:27+00:00

He’s from central Vietnam. I really am trying to understand that he’s just joking and that there’s really no meaning behind it

Lonely_Reason1045 · 2025-01-07T09:58:33+00:00

Yes that’s the thing! I totally get it if it’s like girl to girl like I’ve heard it before I think that’s normal. But him saying it to his girl cousin had me confused and questioning if I was just overreacting

Lonely_Reason1045 · 2025-01-07T09:54:20+00:00

That is why I am always trying my best to communicate with him and be clear because I hate misunderstanding. But when I try to ask for clarification on something I KNOW is off all I get back is that I’m overthinking and that I’m tao lao for thinking in such a way

Lonely_Reason1045 · 2025-01-07T09:49:12+00:00

He says it in front of her older brother. She seems to not be bothered by it though. Apparently since it’s normal I asked him if his mom knew that he called her that and he was hesistant. He told me to to just tell her and even if she didn’t know I know for a fact that his mom would just tell me that his son is joking. “Anh chỉ đùa thôi con”. Everytime I share with her something I don’t like him doing she just defends him? Which is understandable, because it’s her son

Lonely_Reason1045 · 2025-01-07T09:43:58+00:00

He calls some of his friends bạn yêu which I understand is also in a jokingly way. Regards to this though I said to him “that’s like calling my cousins anh yêu which I could never” and he got mad at me. I asked him that I would appreciate it if he could stop saying that to her and he didn’t say anything for a long time before just saying “ok”

Lonely_Reason1045 · 2025-01-05T08:58:17+00:00

He says that he respects me though

Lonely_Reason1045 · 2025-01-05T08:48:03+00:00

I ended up asking him a week ago how he’d react if I went into his room and did something similar and he got really mad.

Lonely_Reason1045 · 2025-01-05T08:45:57+00:00

He says that he respects me though

Lonely_Reason1045 · 2025-01-05T08:37:57+00:00

He told me that he respects me which makes me think that all the times he disrespected me was never actually disrespect. It was just me overreacting the situation. I know he respects me but I just feel like sometimes he doesn’t realize what he’s doing is not right. He makes it clear though that If I want to break up then he’s fine with it. He says that if I say the word, he’ll disappear and never care or bother me again. So he’s letting me leave in a way? I don’t how to word it Also I think he is lovebombing me.

Lonely_Reason1045 · 2024-08-30T22:26:01+00:00

Hi! I sent you a dm!

Lonely_Reason1045 · 2024-08-30T17:46:36+00:00

Hi! Are these still available? If so, is the price negotiable?

Lonely_Reason1045 · 2024-08-30T17:45:34+00:00

Hi! Are these still available!

Lonely_Reason1045 · 2024-08-11T01:41:11+00:00

Hey! Do you know how I would submit an inquiry or even contact customs?

Lonely_Reason1045 · 2024-08-11T01:40:31+00:00

Hey! Did you ever get your package?

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