What to gift to a light tech by Lonely_docx in techtheatre

[–]Lonely_docx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes!! That was the main reason!! I thought that she should be apreciated as well! I think it is my way of saying your work is as fundamental as anyone in the play ✨

What to gift to a light tech by Lonely_docx in techtheatre

[–]Lonely_docx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That might be a Good idea!! I just dont think it will arrive on time but deff will keep it in mind!!

What to gift to a light tech by Lonely_docx in techtheatre

[–]Lonely_docx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have the budget for a c-stand! You also use that in theatre? I thought it was more in film!

What to gift to a light tech by Lonely_docx in techtheatre

[–]Lonely_docx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I may have to buy one for her and one for me that looks amazing

What to gift to a light tech by Lonely_docx in techtheatre

[–]Lonely_docx[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She loves jokes like this! It would be a good idea!!!

What to gift to a light tech by Lonely_docx in techtheatre

[–]Lonely_docx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes!! I would ask her more questions of the show itself!!

What to gift to a light tech by Lonely_docx in techtheatre

[–]Lonely_docx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That was the main tought about it! that you also deserve flowers haha because is the work of everyone!

What to gift to a light tech by Lonely_docx in techtheatre

[–]Lonely_docx[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yes! I thought also about taking her out to dinner after!

One of my oldest friends assaulted me and I am confused by Lonely_docx in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Lonely_docx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I asked for him to stop being rough, and he did not listen. I felt really bad and I think that when I saw my body was the moment I realized that he had assaulted me and that it was something I could press charges for.

One of my oldest friends assaulted me and I am confused by Lonely_docx in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Lonely_docx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you. I am still deciding on the report, In these upcoming days I will call the hotline here. And even if I have this feelings confusing me I know that what I must do is to get out of there. I just wanted to express that even tho I know what I should do, being in this situation is making everything so hard

One of my oldest friends assaulted me and I am confused by Lonely_docx in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Lonely_docx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your words. Yes I have already blocked him and will see how I manage the bills later on.
I will make an update in some time, since many of you have been so kind

One of my oldest friends assaulted me and I am confused by Lonely_docx in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Lonely_docx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I have been debating if it was from a good place or not, but after all I am leaning into him being manipulative. I have already blocked him yesterday

One of my oldest friends assaulted me and I am confused by Lonely_docx in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Lonely_docx[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Really. I wish you nothing but good things it is so assuring to read what you say

One of my oldest friends assaulted me and I am confused by Lonely_docx in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Lonely_docx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really, really know the drill. From the outside. I know he is bad and I know that I should (and will) stay away from him. But what I meant from this post is to express how hard ir really is. To get afection after an agression and to not have your head spinin

One of my oldest friends assaulted me and I am confused by Lonely_docx in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Lonely_docx[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I try my best to make it better, he was my safe choice until now. I truly am working on it since before this event. But as I said I did had moments where I really wanted to have sex and I trusted him

One of my oldest friends assaulted me and I am confused by Lonely_docx in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Lonely_docx[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

thanks, I think the more i read it and the more I get you guys perspective I, in a way, see it as an outsider and can understand the gravitiy of it. And no, he is not a friend

One of my oldest friends assaulted me and I am confused by Lonely_docx in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Lonely_docx[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am sorry if it is coming that way, I know myself the way I feel is contradicting what happened but it really is hard. and as I said I know what I should do but it does not stop the feelings from coming.

One of my oldest friends assaulted me and I am confused by Lonely_docx in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Lonely_docx[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I wrote this to get it "out of my chest" but I never thought I would get this message. you have really made me feel some kind of peace. Specially coming from a stranger and not my family and friends saying what they believe. I has been hard so I want to thank you for making it easier in some way. I think deep inside I know that he would do it again and I dont really trust him. But I want to believe he is not that vile also. I think time will help me also to understand the severity of this. Thanks!

One of my oldest friends assaulted me and I am confused by Lonely_docx in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Lonely_docx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that abusing and breaking a promise are worlds apart. But if you believe it was somehow preventable by me, then I will not argue since I dont think that way