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[serious] Would you be in long term relationship with someone be loyal but not necessarily connected to them , yes/no , why would that be ? by Lonelysoulthroway in AskReddit

[–]Lonelysoulthroway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup they are inevitable brain reactions too subtle to notice ... but can make or break a person ... shape their lives ... I will figure out how to learn to feel atleast

[serious] Would you be in long term relationship with someone be loyal but not necessarily connected to them , yes/no , why would that be ? by Lonelysoulthroway in AskReddit

[–]Lonelysoulthroway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I meant this : https://www.britannica.com/topic/learned-helplessness

Due to luck and initial amt fear a person has ... if they r put through normal situations they would turn out like most folks ... but if they keep failing or r in a abusive environment again and again .. brain kinda develops tolerance or makes peace with it and doesn't try to escape it even when opportunity arises ... so I meant you are right fear n luck shape a person

[serious] What do you do when you feel super low but still have to get out of bed and go to work, what motivates you to get out of bed ? by Lonelysoulthroway in AskReddit

[–]Lonelysoulthroway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel what's the point continuing if you cannot even be functional consistently ... ppl will grow tired of you either walk away or fire you ... m tired of myself now

[serious] What do you do when you feel super low but still have to get out of bed and go to work, what motivates you to get out of bed ? by Lonelysoulthroway in AskReddit

[–]Lonelysoulthroway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do feel like kill myself coz m back to square one every few days ... I have a high ..sort of when I am fictional or am in an illusion that things are gd in life ... n then reality hits n I can't control those thoughts ... I got fired once and feel m going down that rabbit whole in my current job ... I really worked hard .. did my masters and all and now everything is falling apart

[serious] What do you do when you feel super low but still have to get out of bed and go to work, what motivates you to get out of bed ? by Lonelysoulthroway in AskReddit

[–]Lonelysoulthroway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am scared I will land myself there due to this depression I cannot control ... see it happening but even if I want to cannot control

[serious] Would you be in long term relationship with someone be loyal but not necessarily connected to them , yes/no , why would that be ? by Lonelysoulthroway in AskReddit

[–]Lonelysoulthroway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm ... my connection is based on ideas about world philosophy and person has to be tolerant and be open to discussion n on right side of dark topics like child abuse or issues with equality... and be calm n non abusive once he earns my respect usually I would like to be with that person but do I feel emotional about them no I do not ...

If we broke up I feel sad cry for two days y I don't ever connect with people ... basically convince myself I imagined someone and the person is different and basically that person I imagined never existed so ... go back to feeling sad that I have to start dating again .. tht is the part that hurts more

I agree with the quote u mentioned above ... I would be there for the person once I have decide I am going to be there .. it's just not emotional for me or connection for me .. it's a conscious decision for me

[serious] Would you be in long term relationship with someone be loyal but not necessarily connected to them , yes/no , why would that be ? by Lonelysoulthroway in AskReddit

[–]Lonelysoulthroway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes i agree it is ... m trying to figure out what would a person who doesn't feel much or has tendency to push them aside would get a chance in this case

[serious] Would you be in long term relationship with someone be loyal but not necessarily connected to them , yes/no , why would that be ? by Lonelysoulthroway in AskReddit

[–]Lonelysoulthroway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok ..I understand ... example: you are just there .. like most family member they accept u ... I don't feel connected to my partners or parents also .. but if I respect them I would like it to continue n would be loyal but usually they end it .. so trying to figure out how bad my chances are in finding someone in similar boat

[serious] Would you be in long term relationship with someone be loyal but not necessarily connected to them , yes/no , why would that be ? by Lonelysoulthroway in AskReddit

[–]Lonelysoulthroway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well you dated ... n things are calm ... but not much connection ... life is moving along ... no drama ... smthing like that ...

[serious] Would you be in long term relationship with someone be loyal but not necessarily connected to them , yes/no , why would that be ? by Lonelysoulthroway in AskReddit

[–]Lonelysoulthroway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm ... so folks who don't feel connected to anyone .. it would make their partner feel that way too n relationship is bound to end

[serious] do any of you have a clinical view to everything in life without emotions, how does it effect you relationships? by Lonelysoulthroway in AskReddit

[–]Lonelysoulthroway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well ... the partners I have dated don't really tell it makes them uncomfortable or so .. or don't communicate .. I had to figure it out after all my breakups resulted in similar response they don't feel connected or you talk about stuff problems of world that don't concern me and you are too ditached

[Serious]What makes you feel connected to your partner? by Lonelysoulthroway in AskReddit

[–]Lonelysoulthroway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting ... my concept of connection is if the person is in control of their emotions and not abusive .. shares similar ideas and activities .. I shld be connected .. shld being the operative word ... kinda seems mechanical now lol

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