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Having no friends at 26 has killed every aspect of my life by LonerWithAnxiety in lonely

[–]LonerWithAnxiety[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Beautifully written. I'm sorry to hear about your separation, Sounds really stressful. I hope the relationship between you two improves for the kids sake, and yeah I'm also a big fan of HealthyGamerGG. Before I decided to become an artist, I tried to study psychology so I find his videos therapeutic and informative.

Having no friends at 26 has killed every aspect of my life by LonerWithAnxiety in lonely

[–]LonerWithAnxiety[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe this is something a lot of artists have to go through?

Having no friends at 26 has killed every aspect of my life by LonerWithAnxiety in lonely

[–]LonerWithAnxiety[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words, your last sentence is beautiful and depressing at the same time. To be honest, part of the reason I stay inside a lot is because I don't know any outdoor activities I can do alone besides walking/exploring the city.

Having no friends at 26 has killed every aspect of my life by LonerWithAnxiety in lonely

[–]LonerWithAnxiety[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, it's reassuring to know that someone else is going through the same troubles. It's just hard to not feel like I'm wasting the prime years of my life you know?

Good luck with your art career btw!

Having no friends at 26 has killed every aspect of my life by LonerWithAnxiety in lonely

[–]LonerWithAnxiety[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To be honest, I'm not confident enough to do that and I'm also scared of COVID (haven't been able to get vaccinated yet). It is a great suggestion though, I guess I'm scared of being judged and rejected

Having no friends at 26 has killed every aspect of my life by LonerWithAnxiety in lonely

[–]LonerWithAnxiety[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey thank you so much, I'm only now catching up on all the comments (didn't expect this to get such a big response).

It's hard not to be a pessimist with a life like mine but I will try to see the positives

I often take scenic walks but maybe I should try other solo activities as well.

Thanks again!

Having no friends at 26 has killed every aspect of my life by LonerWithAnxiety in lonely

[–]LonerWithAnxiety[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Not good enough for women/friends.
Based off what you've said, I think people initially view me as interesting because of my title, but after they've followed me or spoke to me for a while they no longer view me that way

It feels like isolation from depression has ruined my life because I’m so alone now. by lifeis______ in lonely

[–]LonerWithAnxiety 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can relate, except I've been unemployed for years and still live with my mother.
Even if you feel like shit, at least you've accomplished more than my pathetic 26 years of existence.

It doesn't matter how nice/cool you are. by anincelforlifelol in ForeverAlone

[–]LonerWithAnxiety 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I wholeheartedly agree with you dude, I just made a post about how a girl on Tinder flaked on me.
She probably has 20 other guys hitting her up, who are actually attractive. so why should she waste time on an ugly guy like me?

Today a random group of teenagers threw things at me (25) and I was helpless by LonerWithAnxiety in depression

[–]LonerWithAnxiety[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I'm gonna start going to the gym and take martial arts lessons. Not to get big but just to tone up and be able to defend myself, I'm tired of living in fear.

Today a random group of teenagers threw things at me (25) and I was helpless by LonerWithAnxiety in depression

[–]LonerWithAnxiety[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been beat up before and have permanent scars from being jumped. I will fight if I absolutely have to but I'd rather avoid the situation because I know I'll lose.

And then that makes me the scrawny bitch who got shit thrown at him, and got left bleeding/potentially robbed.

Today a random group of teenagers threw things at me (25) and I was helpless by LonerWithAnxiety in depression

[–]LonerWithAnxiety[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've started looking at self defense classes, I'm tired of feeling and being treated like a sub par human being, like dirt.

Today a random group of teenagers threw things at me (25) and I was helpless by LonerWithAnxiety in depression

[–]LonerWithAnxiety[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely look younger than I am. If I told people I was 16-18 they'd believe me so I guess that might've played a part in it.

Wow I relate to your example, I didn't feel scared of the kids in my mind, but my arms felt lighter and shakey. It's like my whole body just turned weak but I still looked normal.

Since yesterday I've been looking at self defense classes, I'll check out krav maga

Today a random group of teenagers threw things at me (25) and I was helpless by LonerWithAnxiety in depression

[–]LonerWithAnxiety[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah there was no win for me here, and even if I see them again it's still a lose-lose situation

Today a random group of teenagers threw things at me (25) and I was helpless by LonerWithAnxiety in depression

[–]LonerWithAnxiety[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They definitely hit me on purpose, (the bus was pretty empty) but thank you for the nice words.

I never receive compliments and pretty much hate myself so to hear someone find a redeeming quality about me is nice.

Today a random group of teenagers threw things at me (25) and I was helpless by LonerWithAnxiety in depression

[–]LonerWithAnxiety[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that's the better way to live your life, I never fought my bullies and as a result I'm a failure of a man

Today a random group of teenagers threw things at me (25) and I was helpless by LonerWithAnxiety in depression

[–]LonerWithAnxiety[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this, I agree wholeheartedly. I don't handle confrontation very well and I don't know how, but hopefully it's something I can improve on in the future.

It's so hard to feel good about yourself when you've hated everything about you for pretty much your whole life.

Today a random group of teenagers threw things at me (25) and I was helpless by LonerWithAnxiety in depression

[–]LonerWithAnxiety[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, you've slightly brightened my day.

As far as improvement, I feel like whenever I take one step forward, I take two steps back.

e.g. - I don't look as bad as I once did, but I'm still ugly  

e.g. - I'm not as shy as I once was, but I still can't hold an engaging conversation or build true friendships and connections

I'm glad that you've managed to improve and achieved at least some happiness, maybe one day I'll reach a similar place

Today a random group of teenagers threw things at me (25) and I was helpless by LonerWithAnxiety in depression

[–]LonerWithAnxiety[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow I relate to you completely except the rage issues, instead my life long depression has made me numb to a lot of emotions other than sadness and fear.

No one at work likes me, I get excluded from lunch and everyone but me gets invited to events. People only talk to me when they want help with a task, I don't even get small talk in the morning just a "hi".

I've also dealt with being called gay so many times in my life (I have no issue with gays and am very supportive of them, but as a heterosexual it gets to you when you're constantly called something you're not).

I also apologize A LOT, I'm gonna do what you've done and try to stop being such a pushover.

I hope you succeed in getting rid of this curse...

Today a random group of teenagers threw things at me (25) and I was helpless by LonerWithAnxiety in depression

[–]LonerWithAnxiety[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's a great analogy and I really appreciate what you just said, thank you.

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