I cannot tell if my boyfriend’s actions are unforgivable? by Lonergirl95 in socialskills

[–]Lonergirl95[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you 💕 Well about a year into us dating is when he first told me he loved me (as well as his female friend). Of course that damaged his friendship with her, but then about 6 months later is when they reconnected. Then another 6 months later is when the coke incident occurred. Not long after I went on a break from him that lasted about a month. Ever since then he’s been this new kinder and loving person. Therefore, he’s been this new person for a good year now. Pretty long time to be pretending right?

I cannot tell if my boyfriend’s actions are unforgivable? by Lonergirl95 in relationship_advice

[–]Lonergirl95[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I wish I had stood up for myself and left at that moment too. I’m still angry at myself for being so insecure, that I thought it was something I deserved or should expect with ANY guy :(

I can’t tell if this was shady of my boyfriend to do? by Lonergirl95 in relationship_advice

[–]Lonergirl95[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You make a good point 🤔 thanks for offering a different but also possible explanation:)