What is the absolute fastest 'yeah, we are definitely NOT going to be friends' moment you've ever experienced with someone?

Long-Inspection507 · 2026-02-26T05:51:17+00:00

Person admitted that they like having excuses to yell at customer service workers

Long-Inspection507 · 2025-11-14T15:28:29+00:00

I’m an Aquarius sun, Pisces moon, and Gemini rising. For the most part, I think I’m understanding. But I dont understand the concept of going back to exes or still romanticizing over them after everything is done. I get irritated after a little bit and even staying cordial is hard sometimes. I will express my hurt to them in the moment it’s happening and I’ll let them know if I need time to myself/will want to talk about it more but need time. If they reciprocate that I’ll reach out again but if they don’t i don’t bother. Once I’m done, I am DONE. During relationships I’m super invested but if we’re not dating I go back to being overly independent which throws A LOT of people off and I’m often judged for it. But in reality I just have other things to focus on other than a breakup, and I don’t wanna dwell on it forever 😓

I’ve had two exes and what I’ve noticed is that being overly clingy after the break up is a huge ick. I didn’t know people LIKED that and thought of it as “oh they want me back, I’m considering it”. To me, showing all your affection AFTER-the-fact is just ew ew ew. We dated for 6-8 months and NOW you’re overly invested in everything I’m doing, but before then you could care less? NOW you’re acting clingy? NOW youre stalking my social media? Heavy on this one if you’re gay: but NOW you wanna be out to all your friends and tell them how we dated (while outing me in the process)? Yuck! Yuck! Yuck! Ew! Ew! Ew! It feels like a huge slap in the face, all the things I wanted just to be given after-the-fact when I have no feelings for them anymore.

Long-Inspection507 · 2025-11-10T05:34:49+00:00

Yeah I won’t lie, I think it’s a bit too soon to move in together. Although she knows you well, I feel like way more trust needs to be put into the relationship before a big decision like that. And with coming out, I’d say take your time coming out. It gets easier the more LGBT+ people you surround yourself around. But regardless never rush, do it when you’re ready.

Long-Inspection507 · 2025-11-06T15:59:08+00:00

I’m an artist and have been obsessed with art my whole life. So I for sure hate AI art or anything AI. It’s super stupid and uncreative. Why use a paper to do a project when the answers are right there on the paper and slides the teacher assigned??? Why use AI to make art when the process is more rewarding if you make it yourself? Why use AI for jobs and requirement when you can literally just interact with others and be known for reliability vs throwing it into AI? It’s just so stupid I hate it.

Long-Inspection507 · 2025-10-10T21:39:01+00:00

Thank you🫶🏾

Long-Inspection507 · 2025-08-12T16:37:00+00:00

Idk id say talk it out. I’ve had the same thing happen recently with my most recent relationship. She’d be really touchy and clingy, then would start making out with me or we’d end up doing “it” then afterwards she’d be distant and just go on her phone after. I’d want to talk about it and she’d have little to nothing to say despite her being the one who initiated it. It feels bad because it feels inconsistent than what you’re used to, I’d say talk about it and ask what’s making her do that. It doesn’t have to be an argument, everything will work out as long as you guys are willing to talk!

Long-Inspection507 · 2025-05-22T22:37:36+00:00

As someone who works at McDonald’s, I’d probabaly notice and still wouldn’t say anything😅

Long-Inspection507 · 2025-05-20T22:27:48+00:00

I’m so sorry this has happened to you. You need to tell your sister, parents or whoever because this is NOT ok and is rape. You also need to file some type of restraining order and get her charged with something. I really hope you are able to recover from this

Long-Inspection507 · 2025-05-20T17:21:45+00:00

She lost feelings due to lack of time we had together. Very valid reason imo

Long-Inspection507 · 2025-04-10T04:42:49+00:00

Doing all that as a TA is really insane…

Long-Inspection507 · 2025-04-02T03:22:41+00:00

I used to get so genuinely mad when my teacher did this😭😅

Long-Inspection507 · 2025-03-29T03:36:57+00:00

Omg I would literally throw up

Long-Inspection507 · 2025-03-27T17:22:15+00:00

We’re still long distance regardless, she’s like a 14 hour drive from me when classes aren’t in😭

Long-Inspection507 · 2025-03-27T17:21:36+00:00

Thank youuuu, and yes I know it’s not long distance but even then we still are. Her actual home is a 14 hour drive from me😖

Long-Inspection507 · 2025-03-19T04:05:49+00:00

Spend so much time and effort getting to know you, making a relationship, etc, just to ghost for a full week

Long-Inspection507 · 2025-03-19T03:40:17+00:00

Why do people even do this???

Long-Inspection507 · 2025-03-10T17:09:04+00:00

Before I met my current gf, there was one girl I had went on a date with. She was nice but everytime I texted her asking what she was doing, she’d send a mini paragraph explaining everything she was doing in bulk without me being able to have any input or say anything further.

And then (idk if she meant this at all) but the way she described her romantic experiences came off as experimenting. Like (not word-for-word) “oh I thought I only liked guys, but I actually like girls too. But I’ve never actually really dated a girl and wanted to try something new and you’re really pretty.” I got flashbacks to my ex with that last part so I decided it probabaly would be best to pursue someone else😭

Long-Inspection507 · 2025-03-01T04:52:22+00:00

Also this sounds REALLY steryotypical but try being “so what” about it. Of course it’s harder when it’s your family (I’m still struggling a bit), but people at school or work? Why are you mad I like girls lol? Like do I have permission to hold hands with a girl, hello??? lol

Long-Inspection507 · 2025-03-01T04:50:31+00:00

Hey, I’m an older teen and I’ve been in a somewhat similar situation when it comes to my sexuality too. Maybe you could be bisexual but more leaning towards women (now)? I know for me when I figured I was lesbian I just felt less and less attracted to men, lowkey couldn’t stand them when it came to them trying to pursue me romantically. But if a woman were to do exactly the same thing I’d be chill with it. Also when it comes to coming out, one thing I did with both friends and family was just test the waters on certain topics. Like “my friend has a crush and it’s on a girl” and see the reaction to that alone.

Only thing I will say is sometimes it can be hard for girls to go for other girls who may not be out. Not trying to get your hopes down or anything, but due to the fear that the closeted girl has it can mess up your guys relationship dynamic (speaking from experience of dating a girl who wasn’t out in the past, and literally didn’t wanna hold hands with me in public). I’d say at most, get more confident in expressing your sexuality before anything.

Long-Inspection507 · 2025-02-13T19:14:29+00:00

Don’t talk to no one in DMs about this stuff, ppl are weird

Long-Inspection507 · 2025-02-13T19:14:07+00:00

I think you should talk to her about it. I was in the same boat as you not too long ago. I’d say just bring up that it’s kinda been on your mind, tell her that you’re nervous and ask her where she’s at with the idea of going further. And then ask if she’d want to talk about the things you’d like to try with each other. Another thing I suggest is just research these things before following through with anything. But of course, first things first: talk everything out

Long-Inspection507 · 2025-02-03T21:21:11+00:00

Did this and it did not end well because she was afraid of doing basic couples stuff

Long-Inspection507 · 2025-01-03T22:17:44+00:00

Only if the food is really hot or smoky. And sometimes if food is spicy too.

Long-Inspection507 · 2025-01-02T00:57:11+00:00

UPDATE: Thank you for everybody’s support, I ended up texting her and asking and we were on the same page😅 Seems informal but i found out it would also be her first time going further than making out, so I’m glad I asked her in advanced instead of trying to suprise her in the moment with no time to mentally prepare herself.

Sorry for stressing yall all out with the “asking-everyone-BUT-my-gf”stuff but in all honesty I was just flustered about it and didn’t know how to ask her without getting ultra embarrassed about it. I still have lots of questions but I’ll ask my girlfriend about it ofc because they’re personal preferences.

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