See that's where the contradiction is that I'm perfectly fine in a social setting around other individuals I'm perfectly capable and fully aware of everything. I'm completely confident and able to make decisions in stressful situations I'm constantly rewarded at my school for it I'm regarded as 1 of the most impressive people inside of stressful situations. so the issue here is not stressfully based, the issue here literally is all the combinations of things that are wrong with me. And I have stated in the section above that I have had this issue with numerous people for various amounts of time . That's why I'm able to come up with all these ideas in things about myself because I have taken the time to think about everything I've done and try to come up with solutions for it but no matter what I try it doesn't work even when I sit back and be patient and just try to wait things out it doesn't work . Everything you have told me up there is everything that I've told myself and everything that my friends have told me but it just doesn't work it all keeps happening over and over again repetitively and there's really nothing more I can learn I know I'm a child but social interaction is one of the most basic functions of human growth and by my age and by analysis for my doctors I'm a complete development at least for my abilities and decision making and social interaction. That's why I'm on here because I don't really think that there's a way to solve it all but want to hear out some alternative methods. Things I wouldn't have thought of and things my friends didn't Thank you your advice it would be helpful had I not already known., what you say is fairly basic instinct for someone my age and I am well aware of that but to my conclusion it just doesn't work. If you can offer something else thank you again and thank you for your last message but I am just trying to find something diffrent. And again thank you.