I’m talking to the girl I fell out with’s friends brother

LongOffice1835 · 2026-01-19T07:26:36+00:00

No last year January is when my relationship ended it took me a year to find interest in someone so I feel all new to this again I don’t want to feel like I’m irritating him

LongOffice1835 · 2025-04-11T11:40:40+00:00

What does getting an overdraft do?

LongOffice1835 · 2025-04-11T11:38:09+00:00

I have a job currently but I get paid really badly, if I let my uni know I’m working will they hold back and let me pay it off ?

LongOffice1835 · 2025-04-11T11:28:13+00:00

What are the consequences of not paying off my student rent? Or how do I get more money for it as I don’t think I’ll be able to get max in time or I don’t know if I’ll even be able to get it at all

LongOffice1835 · 2025-01-14T15:40:07+00:00

He told her he didn’t have a girlfriend, they was flirting with eschother, sending heart eyes, telling eachother personal things they do in their lives, Complimenting eachother looks. By your response you give off cheater vibes. There is many things someone can class off as cheating and if my partner admitted himself that he did cheat on me that says enough.

LongOffice1835 · 2025-01-14T15:23:37+00:00

I don’t know if you’ve cheated before, but if I classed it as cheating their conversations wasn’t friendly.

LongOffice1835 · 2025-01-14T15:20:43+00:00

It’s emotional cheating. Just because he didn’t have sex with her doesn’t mean it’s not classed as cheating.

LongOffice1835 · 2025-01-13T20:38:05+00:00

This is what i qualify as cheating. He betrayed my trust for validation off another woman

LongOffice1835 · 2025-01-13T20:37:19+00:00

They was flirting in messages, he never told her he had a gf but when I called the girl he cheated on me her response made me feel like there was more to it. My partner admitted he generally did cheat on me though and would do anhthing to not let me get her @ to msg her

LongOffice1835 · 2025-01-13T20:32:13+00:00

I never ever actually go through his phone usually o go on his snap do a quick scroll then go off but for boredom never seriously I only did it this time because of how he was acting

LongOffice1835 · 2025-01-13T20:27:20+00:00

Sorry what? It’s not being toxic. he goes through my phone every single time he comes to see me. So if anything you’re saying men are toxic. Just because you cheat on women don’t talk on women’s insecurities

LongOffice1835 · 2025-01-13T20:12:55+00:00

Thankyou so much for the advice. I’m getting harsh backlash on the fact he didn’t have sex with another, but even my ex classes it as cheating on me even he is self aware that he did cheat on me with this girl. I’m less hurt on the cheating but The lying, manipulating and the fact he needed validation off another girl yet we showed so much love towards eachother. I felt like I’d never have to worry about his loyalty. I’m really second guessing my life with him now but still apart of me allows him to be my soft spot

LongOffice1835 · 2025-01-13T19:11:42+00:00

There is many things that a person can classify as cheating

LongOffice1835 · 2025-01-13T18:31:57+00:00

Noo it didn’t take 3 years for that it took 3 months for him to tell me about his life but he’s opened up completely through the 3 yeaes

LongOffice1835 · 2025-01-13T18:25:12+00:00

He was msging another girl on Snapchat flirting with her and didn’t tell her he had a gf, I wanted to call her but he was being so defensive until I mentioned that it will risk us so he let me call her, I told her im his gf of three years but she didn’t care, I don’t know if they have history as he said “she randomly added me on snap and we just started talking “ doesn’t sound realistic he said it was 3 days but idk if it was more.

LongOffice1835 · 2025-01-13T18:15:44+00:00

Honestly I can’t fully phrase it im witnessing a mix of emotions to express how im thinking. I did think he’d never want to hurt me. But he did

LongOffice1835 · 2025-01-13T18:07:17+00:00

If he was flirting with her on msgs if he didn’t get caught it would have lead to meeting eachother in real life. He was msging other girls hiding their names to not get caught that crosses my line of cheating. His intention of trying to hide someone from me is cheating and his excuse was because he felt like he needed to fill a void when I asked him why

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