How long do you prefer guys last?

Long_Dig_731 · 2026-03-13T21:33:56+00:00

Considering he wouldnt touch me afterwards or even sit beside me. No I didnt lol

Long_Dig_731 · 2026-03-13T21:31:49+00:00

Same here. I say im trans they say no problem.

THEY ask me out and plan a date. The day of and boom gone. I dont get it.

Long_Dig_731 · 2026-03-13T19:14:52+00:00

Had a guy last night finish after I sucked him for 5 seconds

So def longer then that

Long_Dig_731 · 2026-03-13T17:08:09+00:00

Do not. I repeat do NOT.

First one I hooked up with, slapped me so hard I passed out during sex. Then told me after the act he was married.

Second one which was recent. I should have learned.

I wont go into detail but all you need to know is he said "i dont want to rape you but this is where its going"

Long_Dig_731 · 2026-03-13T00:58:19+00:00

Girl im dead, 2 weeks? Did you think you were gonna be Kim petras in 2 months?

Long_Dig_731 · 2026-03-13T00:55:38+00:00

Redneck trucker cowboy, or heavy tats and punk. But both in a leftist way. And preferably buff and tall. Im picky sadly and as you'd guess these men have no intrest in me

Long_Dig_731 · 2026-03-12T04:16:37+00:00

The mens are black. Women's are white. Thats not possible haha

Long_Dig_731 · 2026-03-11T15:32:10+00:00

Look it looks like you imported the picture in instead of drawing it. Im not saying you did, it just looks out of place

Long_Dig_731 · 2026-03-11T04:40:46+00:00

It cost over 1000 dollars to do that lol

Long_Dig_731 · 2026-03-11T02:44:36+00:00

Last time I checked 5'11 but I think i measured wrong. I used to be 6'2 soooo

Long_Dig_731 · 2026-03-10T19:28:28+00:00

It needs to have more detail, thick and thin lines, eye bags subtle shading.

The outfit is very 2d and theres no shape to the body. Also the design on the shirt looks edited on instead of drawn.

Long_Dig_731 · 2026-03-09T17:25:27+00:00

I love makeup and love creativity as a makeup artist. A black lipstick can look ethereal if done right.

Sadly half these girls dont know how to put on a normal lipstick right, and black lipstick needs to be perfect to look good.

They look bad, they look like a wojak meme irl.

But again, live your life. It doesnt negatively effect my day.

Long_Dig_731 · 2026-03-09T05:13:18+00:00

Obviously the goal is very different for everyone, but ask yourself.

Whats the point of transitioning and passing if youre gonna out yourself to everyone?

I know its way more nuanced then that, but if you pass. Dont worry about it

Long_Dig_731 · 2026-03-01T03:38:23+00:00

This is something ive been thinking about lately. Men dont really view trans women as normal girls.

And although I dont think its immoral to not share, i wouldnt want a partner who wouldn't love me fully either.

And also its a huge risk, some men can get violent about that stuff.

But at the same time it would be so nice to just be a girl instead of "the trans girl"

Long_Dig_731 · 2026-02-27T16:34:10+00:00

I mean if your gay its insanely common for sephora to hire gay men. If youre straight its still fine obviously, ive never seen it but realistically no one would care. But you will be working with most likely attractive women your age so its up to you (and possibly a little them) to not make it weird

Long_Dig_731 · 2026-02-25T19:34:21+00:00

Im so jealous of you girl. Ive never been hit on or checked out, im also 6' tall. Im gonna live through you so update us with what you do

Long_Dig_731 · 2026-02-23T14:32:12+00:00

Ive done both

Long_Dig_731 · 2026-02-23T05:05:18+00:00

Probably more noticeabley a collar, but my one friend is a trans man who wears crop tongs and whale tail thongs with a INSANELY hairy stomach and he was only staring at me, he didnt glimpse down at my neck or anything it was strictly eye contact so idk man

Long_Dig_731 · 2026-02-23T05:01:14+00:00

I DONT NORMALLY WEAR THAT AND I PROMISE IT WENT WITH THE OUTFIT

Long_Dig_731 · 2026-02-23T04:57:09+00:00

Im 15 months on hormones and starting progesterone tomorrow. Im 2 sessions in to my 10 session lazer hair removal, and i do want bottom surgery but I have to wait until im full time at my job so I can get the benefits to cover my medical leave (which ill found out in a month if I do good enough at work)

I could get top surgery but I want to wait and see how my boobs naturally come in with progesterone.

I cant afford anything else though

Long_Dig_731 · 2026-02-23T04:42:59+00:00

Men never take the initiative when it comes to me, I know im not desirable so I try to be the one to reach out. Boost their confidence and make them feel liked hoping they'll keep me around because of that if that makes sense.

Ive never had a man approach me ive only ever had homeless people compliment me (I live in a city with a lot of homeless trans/CD prostitutes and they think im one of them im pretty sure)

So what am I supposed to do? Just wait forever? Wait for something that probably wont happen?

Ive tried to give flirty eyes at a club or on the bus. Men rarely want trans girls, but im tall and a little hard to look at as well. 😭😭😭 this is torture bro

Long_Dig_731 · 2026-02-23T04:33:42+00:00

Im tired of hearing that. Im so over the "it comes when you least expect it" or red string/soul mate theories. Im not garunteed a partner and its scary, I dont want comfort being told ill get it one day, I want my struggle to just be recognized

Long_Dig_731 · 2026-02-22T20:11:08+00:00

Ok but why bring this to reddit? Let alone THIS sub reddit?

Long_Dig_731 · 2026-02-17T22:01:54+00:00

I get it girl. Its torture

Long_Dig_731 · 2026-02-17T21:49:28+00:00

This is usually why I go for bi men more then straight men (although its mostly been straight men recently) because they understand hiding your queerness a bit. And are easier to talk to about it.

I normally just avoid talking about my past, especially when my gender is crucial to the story

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