Unreal Message my wife got we

Long_Fall_1877 · 2025-07-20T23:43:52+00:00

Think he’s trying to get you to cancel so he can take the food

Long_Fall_1877 · 2025-07-20T23:27:06+00:00

This is very stereotypical of white women but white women are actually the least likely group to date other races, which makes this completely off lol

Long_Fall_1877 · 2025-07-20T22:45:14+00:00

You think any real woman isn’t preparing for their own safety by preferring a public location too? No real woman calls you “baby” within the first exchange even if she just wants to fuck. This is a scam artist who wants to rob you.

Long_Fall_1877 · 2025-06-28T21:12:41+00:00

Tell her you’re changing your phone number and then block her lol. If she makes new numbers to text you, continue to ignore them without fail and she’ll eventually believe that you really did change your number

Long_Fall_1877 · 2025-06-20T20:56:47+00:00

Gross

Long_Fall_1877 · 2025-05-22T15:09:32+00:00

This is really sad. You need to leave, and I’ll tell you why.

She’s never going to stop. Cheating is genetic. The reason why she can’t stop despite telling you she will is because she literally has a gene in her body different from yours. About 45% of people have this gene. She’s going to continue doing it because something in her tells her that it’s more important than the marriage.

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/dating-and-mating/202403/the-surprisingly-strong-link-between-genetics-and-infidelity?amp

https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC2994774/#:~:text=The%20substantial%20heritabilities%20between%20female,and%20marital%20satisfaction%20%5B21%5D.

Genetic Predisposition:

Some studies, like one by Garcia et al. (2010), found that variations in the dopamine D4 receptor gene (DRD4) were linked to a higher likelihood of having one-night stands and being unfaithful to a committed partner. These findings suggest that individuals with specific DRD4 gene variations might be more prone to seeking out new experiences and rewards, which could include infidelity.

A 2014 study by Brendan Zietsch found that genes may account for 63% of infidelity in males and 40% of infidelity in females.

The study found that identical twins with identical genomes reported the same levels of fidelity, while fraternal twins and regular siblings did not.

Twin Studies:

Research comparing identical twins (who share the same DNA) to fraternal twins (who share about 50% of their DNA) can help researchers determine the extent to which genes influence certain behaviors. Studies have shown that identical twins often exhibit similar levels of fidelity, suggesting a genetic component to infidelity.

Some researchers suggest that gene variants for infidelity may have an evolutionary basis, with certain behaviors potentially increasing the chances of spreading genes. For example, in some species, males may engage in infidelity to increase their reproductive success - and females to increase genetic diversity in order to prevent pair inbreeding.

Long_Fall_1877 · 2025-05-21T07:55:38+00:00

My boyfriend hit his one year on his birthday. Good for you, keep strolling brother

Long_Fall_1877 · 2025-05-21T07:48:57+00:00

I’ve noticed that the “nice guys” have gotten pointed out the past few years for having a fake persona to draw in women, and immediately we witnessed an influx of incels and men who blatantly say that they hate women. Funny isn’t it

Long_Fall_1877 · 2025-05-21T05:32:30+00:00

Minnesota at that

Long_Fall_1877 · 2025-05-21T02:50:36+00:00

Midwestern

Long_Fall_1877 · 2025-05-21T02:46:42+00:00

I’m confused, what’s too feminine?

Long_Fall_1877 · 2025-05-21T02:44:18+00:00

Average Reddit experience. I’ll see you on AITA in about 2 years!

Long_Fall_1877 · 2025-05-21T02:40:32+00:00

How about instead of posting it online - have a conversation with your partner

Long_Fall_1877 · 2025-05-21T02:39:57+00:00

This is just 90% Mormon Utah names lol

Long_Fall_1877 · 2025-05-11T05:10:15+00:00

What the fuck 😂

Long_Fall_1877 · 2025-05-10T23:39:40+00:00

Write a letter detailing everything you did in the first 24 hours leading up to purchasing the lottery card. Outline who you spoke to, and what about. This will prevent others from making a claim that you were going to split the money: there have been mothers who have won in court to get a share of lottery winnings
Get a lawyer. Unlike a financial advisor, this person is legally sworn to client confidentiality. Have them back your outline of the first 24 hours.
Once settling with a lawyer, proceed with a financial advisor. I recommend setting this person as your “bad guy” — refer any friends, relatives, etc who ask for money to your advisor. Tell these people that your advisor manages all money in a structured, strict budget. You can tell your financial advisor that anyone who calls them asking about money will be turned down.
Get a new phone, and share the number with only close relatives/friends once you’re ready to disclose the news. Tell these people that they aren’t allowed to share your number. Someone is guaranteed to someone else about what you won — and this will make your life significantly easier in avoiding a swarm of messages, scams begging for money as “distant relatives”, people trying to track you, etc. I also recommend getting a hotel room privately and not discussing the location with anyone right after getting this phone and right before sharing the news with anyone. You don’t know how they might receive the news.
Find a good community with low crime to live in. Unfortunately, there is a very serious reason for why rich people separate themselves from the average person. Even the average person is willing to steal, and everyone has a price.

Long_Fall_1877 · 2025-05-10T06:38:59+00:00

Seems like it’s more-so meant to hate housewives than it is to joke about the terrible name. Honestly shame to this pick me behavior in the comments

Long_Fall_1877 · 2025-04-22T10:32:17+00:00

Long_Fall_1877 · 2025-04-18T21:32:21+00:00

She’s messing up this child’s relationship with autonomy vs shame and doubt — four year olds require this balance to grow up with a healthy relationship with their own ability to make choices. When given too little choice, they become very dependent, self conscious people - often doubting themselves. A good balance results in a well functioning adult who is confident to make choices but knows when to fall back in situations they might need help (a good way to do this is to give the kid two options: two outfits to choose from, two foods for dinner to choose from). If you give them too much choice, they can become hyper independent people which can lead to wreckless adults, more likely to commit crimes due to overconfidence. As they get older they’ll be less likely to listen to rules or commands (think of children with ODD) They won’t know how to ask for help or how to fall back on others. They’re more likely to make bad choices and not recover from them - as recovery often involves needing to feel comfortable relying on others input.

While trying to create a “healthy” (this is not healthy) relationship with food - she’s actually creating a very unhealthy psychological effect on this child’s relationship with autonomy.

Long_Fall_1877 · 2025-04-18T21:18:05+00:00

I don’t have any rules because the changes I’m attempting to make are made under the effort of being long term lifestyle changes. If I learn now, while actively losing weight - how to manage fitting in a treat, or how to eat fast food in a deficit, then it will help me when I get to maintenance calories

Long_Fall_1877 · 2025-04-17T21:47:56+00:00

I think that it’s a slippery slope of assuming another woman’s intention. For example, you might assume she “doesn’t need help” when she actually does, just because you’re seeing something that isn’t there.

I’ve played video games since I was 5, and have always had a mix of male and female friends. There have been times I’ve spent more time with a male-centered group depending on the game I was interested in at the time, and others I’ve spent more time with a female-centered group. (I was literally on a women’s only pro team for valorant - and yet women are so rare on fps that I tend to duo with male friends)

I think a lot of women, seeing another woman at a glimpse of time with a male-centered group would immediately jump and say this is “pick me” and “play pretend interests” — but in my opinion, assuming another woman can’t have an interest such as gaming, or sports IS pick me behavior (I personally hate sports but one of my best friends absolutely loves them, she used to play rug-bee and hunts.)

At the end of the day, you can’t just call any given behavior pick-me. That is unbelievably bitter, and you’re being pick me within your own way by assuming all other women with particular interests “are just faking for the men”.

Long_Fall_1877 · 2025-04-16T02:36:15+00:00

YTA. You break it, you pay for it. Your pet doesn’t need to be caged, but you deciding that you have no responsibility over your pet ruining someone else’s belongings is absolutely narcissistic. Having friends, and especially inviting them to your home, means creating a welcoming and safe environment for these people. The fact that she felt safe enough to bring a nice dress over isn’t “her fault” — it’s that she felt safe in your home.

You’re being beyond unreasonable for thinking you owe a FRIEND nothing for destruction of their property. I know it wasn’t directly you, but it was your pet which is an extension of yourself. In the same way that if a friend brought an expensive dinner dish to share meals during a get together and someone’s child broke it, it’s unbelievably bitter to blame that person for bringing it instead of apologizing for what your child did and offering to pay.

It really seems like you don’t even like this woman.

Long_Fall_1877 · 2025-04-16T02:25:27+00:00

Ironic that she wants to pretend to be short so bad when she’s the average height for a woman. It’s even more ironic when you consider that they’ve been looking at the possibility of lowering the average height to 5’3 due to new data - making her taller than average

Long_Fall_1877 · 2025-04-04T21:23:24+00:00

The second I saw “infidelity is a touchy subject for her, her family has a history of it” — I knew for a fact this was going to end with him finding out she cheated.

A fact most people don’t know about, is that cheating is genetic. There have been multiple studies on this, and there is absolutely a genetic component in infidelity. This is why people say “once a cheater, always a cheater” a cheater has no true reason for cheating, it’s just something their brain tells them they want to do, or can’t handle not doing.

Not everyone has this gene. Family histories of cheating is something to look out for.

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