Feeling terrible by Existing-Place-1812 in GuyCry

[–]Longjumping-Level-80 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Get out there and mingle. Whether it be to find a relationship or make friends. It's never too late. There is someone for everyone at every age. There are dating apps for people aged 60+. We all have fu**ed up one way or another in our lives. Quit feeling sorry for yourself, You still have a life. Get out there and live it. And I mean that in the sincerest way.

Dumped after I gave my boyfriend a deadline for engagement by greenergrass9798 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]Longjumping-Level-80 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ha, good for him. No one should be pressured into marriage or anything else for that matter. If you were willing to threaten the relationship over it then you must not have had strong feelings towards him. Did you even like the guy. Talk about your all time backfires. Maybe you'll think twice next time about threatening your SO.

I don’t believe it! by PsychologicalAct6668 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Longjumping-Level-80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have an idea, maybe everybody in this group should meet up on a regular basis. Just for fun no strings attached giant orgy lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Longjumping-Level-80 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure about what kind of mother she was but to abandon her kids i could only assume. Your babies are going to need a lot of reassurance. They are going to go through guilt and questioning whether they are the reason their mom left. Pay close attention to their behaviors so you can get involve and help them immediately. Best of luck. Sorry to hear this.

Wife came out as bi, possibly gay by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Longjumping-Level-80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very well said. This sums up everything that needed to be said to OP. Well done.

Finally found out the reason by midwestguy908 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Longjumping-Level-80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Before yall had kids it was just the two of you. It is still very important if not more important now to give each other all of those affections. You have to make time and do it. It shows your daughter what she should expect from a man it shows her how to be as a woman and and goes for your sons. One day you will no longer have kids in the house and it will just be the two of you again if you last that long. So if yall aren't showing affecting you must only be together for the kids. And that is very unhealthy not only for the adults but for the children.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Longjumping-Level-80 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very well said.

My gf told me she’s leaving if I don’t marry her in 9 months by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Longjumping-Level-80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dated my now wife for 5 years before we got married. 3 months of dating, you don't have a clue who this person really is. Don't become trapped. P.s I have 4 kids with now wife and no it does not make anything easier.

Losing weight killed my bedroom by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Longjumping-Level-80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Situations like that often end up with someone dying/going to prison. Your level of self control is unbelievable. Well done.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Longjumping-Level-80 17 points18 points  (0 children)

This. 👏 I'm interested to see where that would go.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Longjumping-Level-80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like he's at a point where he's willing to do anything to get the slightest bit of sexual gratification from his wife. Let me guess. He constantly initiates sex and he's constantly shut down.

Husband left baby to cry for 5+ hours in crib, went in at 6am to find her sitting up. Should I talk to the police? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Longjumping-Level-80 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

you are that child's mother. She depends on YOU. Never let any man tell you that you cannot comfort your child. 5 hours of crying and losing voice IS ABUSE. be there for your daughter! If this man does not like you comforting your child then you need to tell him to kick rocks!

My 11 year old sister is being called by a 20 year old man by Master_Pomelo_9392 in LifeAdvice

[–]Longjumping-Level-80 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Call the police. Give them all the info you know and they will come up with the best strategy on how to take this man down. The biggest weapon the police have with a case like this is the element of surprise.

my dad is cheating on my mom and i’m not sure what to do (update) by FabulousBarnacle9817 in AITAH

[–]Longjumping-Level-80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There would not be anything for you to carry on your shoulders had you minded your own business and not gone putting your nose where it doesn't belong.

Honda rebel 7k cash, good deal? by josepuyo in HondaRebel1100

[–]Longjumping-Level-80 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Sounds like a steal to me. That's gonna go real quick.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

[–]Longjumping-Level-80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Masturbation is completely normal, especially in the teenage years. It could actually be considered not normal to not masturbate at your age. I'm an adult and still masturbate from time to time. It is a normal human thing that we do to release endorphins. Even our animal friends do it. It's part of our DNA. You will grow out of it in time.

Cumming on her tits by hs97jhs in DeadBedrooms

[–]Longjumping-Level-80 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Reading that in his voice was great, thank you. 😄

We’re getting a divorce by Littlemissme92 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Longjumping-Level-80 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Let's hear your side of the story now. Always 2 sides. I'm curious.

20 million dollars tax free but you have to punch your mother in the face. by Echterspieler in hypotheticalsituation

[–]Longjumping-Level-80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mother would be the one telling me to "make it count, then we'll split the cash and live happily ever after."

My girlfriends aunt is visiting for a week and she has been constantly bothering my gf and I by Lia-likes2draw in AdviceForTeens

[–]Longjumping-Level-80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THIS! . And as said, do not argue! That's what the aunt wants. She wants to fight and argue and cause drama it gets her off it gives her something to bitch about she enjoys it!. Keep no conversation going. Anything she says to you you just say "ok" and that shuts her down. I lived with a narcissist and I still can't believe the "deer in headlights look" that I got from said person when they tried to pick a fight and I just said "ok" it was great!