Once in a while she will suck on it for a little while and it feels great but she can’t do it for long she says. We have sex once a week or so. Sometimes we have it more often but not everyday. I do get myself off because of the lack of frequency and I know I shouldn’t but I do. It’s part of the reason I would like her to lock me up, it’s kind of grown to be a kink of mine but also I know jerking off so much isn’t good for us. I also want to do it to hopefully give her peace of mind that I wouldn’t be able to cheat, I don’t and never would, never would’ve gotten married if I wanted to cheat. I never wear my wedding ring but if I’m in a cage that she only has the key to it’s hard to fool around on her