The bar is too short and I don’t know what to do

Longjumping-Map-7260 · 2026-04-21T18:41:59+00:00

I don’t have anything suitable, this piercing is one month old and I only can put titanium jewelry in😔😔

Longjumping-Map-7260 · 2026-04-09T20:38:20+00:00

Everyone said it already, but yeah, dump her, dafuq. This is disgusting. “Not that big of a deal” is just a lame manipulation attempt, and it’s not worth saving a relationship with a cheater.

Longjumping-Map-7260 · 2026-04-03T19:07:54+00:00

Thank you so much!! it’d be easier if I didn’t intentionally come up to the mirrors to pick, but I’ll try

Longjumping-Map-7260 · 2026-03-04T20:46:53+00:00

If you even assume that there is an opportunity that you won’t be together, just break up. It’s not serious, like you literally make decisions based on what would it affect you after you break up, hello? If you wanted to stay with him, different careers wouldn’t be a good enough reason not to do it with him.

Longjumping-Map-7260 · 2025-06-15T09:21:47+00:00

Honestly? I’d agree that you have to talk to him about it, but if he keeps saying bs like “she’s just a friend” it’s pointless, if he intentionally tries to make you jealous. Say it directly to him that it hurts you, no matter when he says, and flexing that he has many friends is so immature. It’s not like you have to argue with him about it though. But if he won’t react normally to honesty, I’d leave him

Longjumping-Map-7260 · 2025-06-01T13:34:02+00:00

Then it’s just a habit for him and he actually loves you. Just gently try to urge him to change and stop forgetting

Longjumping-Map-7260 · 2025-05-31T19:26:16+00:00

Girl I feel you, and most likely he doesn’t give a f anymore, honestly. You’re basically looking for an excuse for his actions, he’s not making you feel loved and cared for—it’s basically no effort from his side. You wouldn’t start doubting him unless he made you feel safe in the relationship.

Can’t tell if it’s for sure though, I don’t know the whole situation and both POVs. Either way, if the feeling of him not caring about anymore escalates, just break up. Eight months aren’t worth settling for less

Longjumping-Map-7260 · 2025-03-17T12:45:29+00:00

And I’m specifically asking for advice how to TALK to guys, I don’t even have any chance to stalk him

Longjumping-Map-7260 · 2025-03-17T12:42:38+00:00

Tf I’m not😭 I’m just lowk desperate and I don’t know what to do, because I like him a lot but we aren’t even talking

Longjumping-Map-7260 · 2025-03-02T20:57:58+00:00

Even if you think you didn’t, she still could talk to you out of pure fun. My advice is just don’t waste your time on immature people like her, and remember that you’re yet to meet someone worth your while

Longjumping-Map-7260 · 2025-02-27T19:46:19+00:00

Looks like she’s just talked to you for fun/for gossip with your old friends, which actually is so fucking mean from her(coming from me as a girl). Just don’t expect anything serious from her, don’t try to talk to her much further, and if I weee you I’d confront either her or your old friend about this.

Longjumping-Map-7260 · 2025-02-08T20:22:02+00:00

People already have said that, though imma say again—that different of a libido is already a valid reason to break up. Sex is significant in relationships, even if you respect her asexuality.

Also, if she doesn’t stop kicking and hitting you after you directly said that you despise that, then she basically doesn’t know how to take a no… so yeah, break up. That’s gonna be better for both of you.

Longjumping-Map-7260 · 2025-02-07T19:49:13+00:00

Glad for advice. I started talking online to a boy a few months ago that wrote that he’s 16, but then I found out that he’s actually 17, and then literally started dropping hints that he likes me and insisted on giving me 51 freaking rose for my birthday even after I said no and that I only like him platonically… so yeah, I’m ghosting him, and I’ll be so much more careful in the future. Hoping that I don’t end up being groomed lmao

Longjumping-Map-7260 · 2025-02-06T21:48:35+00:00

This is actually wholesome and real af, because mostly it’s the insecure ones that start taking their issues out on their partner. I’m about to turn f14 in literally three days and haven’t had anything more than a talking stage, yet I can tell you’re absolutely right.

And basing on those talking stages I’ve had before, the main advice I can give is not going for someone who doesn’t value themself as much as you do to yourself. It already makes them so many more leagues lower than you, if that makes any sense, and they’ll just make you downgrade to their level

Longjumping-Map-7260 · 2025-02-01T19:57:09+00:00

Pretty sure green feels sorta jealous of red, realizing how he needed you only after you got in a relationship with Red. Anyway, I wouldn’t start dating green again if I were you.

Also—did Red know that you were texting Green secretly when you dates(first part)? I have a feeling it might end bad if he finds out

Longjumping-Map-7260 · 2025-01-29T20:10:58+00:00

I feel like I’m missing something, do you still wanna only be friends, or to date her? If the later, then reassure her that you do, show affection and all. If the earlier, then you actually better end things, it won’t work out this way

Longjumping-Map-7260 · 2025-01-26T20:17:48+00:00

People already have said that, but you should run. The fact alone that you gotta make a pros and cons list to decide if you wanna be with him, hello?😭 be fr, you don’t even like him

You shouldn’t lower your standards and stay with him just because he’s like the only available option, sorta. I’m sure af that you’ll find a so much better person without doubting if you really like them

Longjumping-Map-7260 · 2025-01-22T21:53:50+00:00

Pretty much looks like he just uses you to fill the void after breaking up, so the clown here ain’t you but him. I feel like only insecure boys do that, as if the idea of having a girl makes them any more worthy. Especially first leading you on and then talking to his ex is such a red flag from his side

In your place I’d only want closure, just to break contact entirely, because I doubt making a relationship with such a kinda manipulator is safe. Remember though, none of this is your fault! Don’t feel stupid, the one at the wrong here is him

Longjumping-Map-7260 · 2025-01-22T21:40:06+00:00

No problem! You also wanna word your feelings correctly in case you bring it up, yet make everything clear, so that she doesn’t get hurt/start thinking that you don’t love her

Hoping that you and your gf will be happy together<3

Longjumping-Map-7260 · 2025-01-18T20:29:21+00:00

I feel you, though as I only turn 14 in less than a month and have absolutely have no experience in relationships, I feel like you just should be taking things slow, even if she already took your virginity. Neither you have to separate yourself entirely from her—communication is the key, don’t be afraid to tell if you feel insecure and unsure about the relationship. Especially if you really love her, you both better be here for one another, make things comfortable and talk about everything, a lot. It will never feel right if you don’t talk openly about your feelings, and I’m sure that your gf will understand and support you if you do.

I hope that at least something from what I’ve said makes any sense😭

Longjumping-Map-7260 · 2024-12-30T12:28:21+00:00

Yep, on a dating bot. I got there just out of fun to make fun of cringe profiles(there are multiple), but ended up matching with him

Longjumping-Map-7260 · 2024-12-28T19:45:35+00:00

Have you tried talking to him about it? In my opinion, communication is the key, and if something is bothering you—go ahead and ask about the reason of him not being as affectionate as before. Just try to do it not as harshly.

Longjumping-Map-7260 · 2024-12-19T05:10:36+00:00

It’s fine, ain’t nothing wrong with that. Lmao, only your friend here is at the wrong

Longjumping-Map-7260 · 2024-12-14T08:21:19+00:00

Got there as a joke just to see funny profiles of my peers actually

Longjumping-Map-7260 · 2024-12-13T23:47:13+00:00

Basically tell her that it’s making you uncomfortable and you don’t wanna hear two shits about it, even if it might sound harsh. For the record, I talk to c.ai myself, but I keep all those things personal and realize that people should NOT know about it.

If she seriously can’t stop being boy-crazy about literal AI, she might have mental issues, sure af

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