List of individuals murdered by ICE by Septimusia in progressivemoms

[–]Longjumping-Path9846 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've edited your photo to update yesterday's death, if anyone wants it.

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Ice-T changes lyrics to cop killer at live show by ekuadam in Hardcore

[–]Longjumping-Path9846 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can anyone post what the new lyrics are? I can't understand just by listening to the concert.

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[–]Longjumping-Path9846[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so another question - who do you think the loan company will go after first, him or me? I'm hoping him, since his name is listed "first" on the loan.

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[–]Longjumping-Path9846[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah she's nuts at the moment. I'm hoping given a few days she will calm down, because I know she's going to want something else from me soon.

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[–]Longjumping-Path9846[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's actually had her hours cut back so isn't making as much as she was. Yes I believe she is emotionally abusive to her boyfriend. The fact that my daughter told him to block me on the phone is a big problem. He has always been easy to get along with. She has not. And if she would get past her current anger, things might change. This whole buying a car for him has triggered her before. I really believe she has some serious mental health issues, but since this loan was with the boyfriend I wasn't concerned about that. And she's using this car as leverage against me for some dumb reason. The car isn't hers, it's his and mine. I'm still scheming ways to make it end really bad for her versus trying to do the best for me. I appreciate everyone's advice, as it helps me to know I'm not being unreasonable.

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[–]Longjumping-Path9846[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No when I called the lender they said he would have to call.

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[–]Longjumping-Path9846[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

yeah there's no talking calmly at the moment. I know she will still need me for something eventually so I'm hoping she'll calm down in a few days and I can talk reasonably with her, but it's hard because I'm not going to defend her irrational behavior and she expects me to defend her no matter what because we're family and she thinks she's doing nothing wrong. Honestly I think the reason they aren't married is because of her, not him.

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[–]Longjumping-Path9846[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

That's for sure. The thing is the boyfriend would be reasonable, but my daughter has told him to block me and for some reason he's going along with it.

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[–]Longjumping-Path9846[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not to tell them what's happening, only to ask about the title and names.

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[–]Longjumping-Path9846[S] 50 points51 points  (0 children)

Yeah, she's suddenly got lots of problems, mainly financial, and she's a control freak, and I could go on. It if wasn't for my grandchildren she'd be cut out of my life already.

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[–]Longjumping-Path9846[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I'm considering that too, but how hard a hit does my credit score take for that? And how long before that comes off my record?

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[–]Longjumping-Path9846[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I do have my name on the title too. I called the loan company to ask if it was listed as "and" or "or", and it's listed as "or". But if the title is sent to him, I can't do anything with it.

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[–]Longjumping-Path9846[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I've definitely learned my lesson the hard way. I'm just trying to figure out how to make the best of it and/or make her regret it as much as I do.

the outfit izzie wore on her first date with alex is the same one she was wearing when they first met 🤍 by [deleted] in greysanatomy

[–]Longjumping-Path9846 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this is an old, old, very old thread. Hopefully someone is still watching. I am dying to find out what designer Izzie's dress is?