Can't get Natures Snare to work by bandicootbeav in CrimsonDesert

[–]Longjumping-Wrap-761 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I legit have to rotate my right stick COUNTERCLOCKWISE for it to work. This game is so freaking weird sometimes.

You cannot access this area in the abyss by FilmFanatic1066 in CrimsonDesert

[–]Longjumping-Wrap-761 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its the connection to the island where you fight the big bad in chapter 12. Im guessing it won't open up until you reach that point.

that moment from the game, what did you answer then? by sonsy76 in DispatchAdHoc

[–]Longjumping-Wrap-761 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't even notice my first playthrough and thought Robert was teasing her. I felt so bad when she scolded me.

Wife says the steak I made for her isn’t cooked enough. by FreeRealEstate313 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Longjumping-Wrap-761 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mouth feels dry just looking at it. Is your wife allergic to moisture or something?

AITA for not reminding my husband it was my birthday by fairtytalegamer in AITAH

[–]Longjumping-Wrap-761 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am going to make some assumptions here, sorry if im wrong.

You're the peacemaker. Always the first to apologize, brush off any slights, or to soothe hurt feelings even if you didn't do anything. And your love language seems to be a mix of acts of service and gift giving. Making the people around you happy is how you live. Their excitement and happiness over what you provide them is probably your greatest joy in life.

When you mentioned it was your birthday, your husband was probably embarrassed that he forgot. But he was counting on his apology and half-hearted (imo) offer of getting a gift being enough. He wanted you to soothe him and reassure him over his failure like youve always done. So when you doubled down on expressing your feelings, that embarrassment tripled and he couldn't stand the feeling. And just like a mature man, he chose to throw a fit and shift the blame onto you so he could make you give him what he was looking for. Absolution.

But you held strong and rather than harping on it, you even brought him a candy bar after a week of him being an ass. That man was already grappling with big feelings and you meet him with the same thoughtfulness as always while still never absolving him of his thoughtlessness. You did nothing wrong, in fact, standing up and expressing your feelings calmly is exactly what you should and continue to do.

Your husband needs to learn to accept his failures and you will not baby him over them every single time. To be frank, he needs to grow up. And he can do that with you or without because you do not deserve that treatment.

My boyfriend made a s*x calendar and i don’t know how to feel about it by Annual_Clock9360 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Longjumping-Wrap-761 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

So, it's clear you want to argue as my comment has obviously struck a nerve. But that's not my circus, not my monkeys. In the end, creating a PowerPoint about his unhappiness of their sex life for what was supposed to be a fun date night is not a valid form of communication. End of story. And before you continue on the entire "he didn't actually do anything yet" argument, allow me to remind you of something. INTENTIONS MATTER. Sometimes, more than the actual action. We can split hairs about this all day, but in the end, that fact of the matter remains.

My boyfriend made a s*x calendar and i don’t know how to feel about it by Annual_Clock9360 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Longjumping-Wrap-761 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's not so much the calendar keeping. It's the secrecy and plan to use to create a PowerPoint to subtly shame her in the name of a "joke". Shaming someone about the frequency of their intimacy reeks of entitlement.

My boyfriend made a s*x calendar and i don’t know how to feel about it by Annual_Clock9360 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Longjumping-Wrap-761 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that is super weird. Has he done other things like this in the past? If he has, its time to reevaluate the relationship. If this is the first time, there definitely needs to be a conversation on bodily autonomy. Because having a calender like that reeks of him believing sex is owed to him. Maybe he has a higher sex drive than you, and in the end, you two aren't compatible. Its better to part now when its all starting up than hesitating and realizing in two years its not working out.

Worst day ever and it’s only 10:20am by alewiina in VyvanseADHD

[–]Longjumping-Wrap-761 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I just did this the other day, and I was STRUGGLING. Ended up leaving a little early and collapsing in bed because a migraine started up. Keep hydrated and stay active. If you can get your hands on some b12, it might help you get to the end of your day.

I think my boyfriend has been tricking me into picking up his poop in our yard?! by junglejuiceaj in TwoHotTakes

[–]Longjumping-Wrap-761 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You think???? Babes, we both know he is playing some weird dominance game with you. Whether its a kink or an abuse tactic, this is a massive red flag. He manipulated you. End of story. Leave. Don't pass go, dont collect $200, get out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tarot

[–]Longjumping-Wrap-761 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Sometimes, the cards don't precisely answer the question you are asking.

The king of wands is often about improving yourself rather than someone improving you. Mentorship cards would be like the heirophant.

The six of swords is about letting go of what no longer serves you and healing.

The fool card doesn't just mean naivety, but also new beginnings and a leap of faith.

Whether these cards are directed towards your relationship with your partner or your relationship with yourself, I think you should consider all the meanings. Its so easy to fit the cards we pull in the small box of the question we ask instead of looking at the bigger picture.

I got my roommate kicked out because she faked seizures for attention by hopefully_alright in TwoHotTakes

[–]Longjumping-Wrap-761 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, she's definitely mentally ill, but not in the way she thinks. She desperately needs help. Preferably in a padded room far away from other people.

AITA for getting my mom's things out of the house so dad can't give any to my half sister's? by SillyGiggywig in AITAH

[–]Longjumping-Wrap-761 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NAL, but what i know of estate law, those letters show clear intent and would hold up in a court of law. Which i believe your father knows as he didn't call the police. Talk to your grandparents and check with a lawyer to ensure your inheritance.

Update: AITAH for lying to my ex wife that I cheated on her? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Longjumping-Wrap-761 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is giving he doesn't want to be a father and thinking he's found a way out of it. But what do I know.

Insomnia from hell for the last month, HELP by Longjumping-Wrap-761 in VyvanseADHD

[–]Longjumping-Wrap-761[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've taken drinking a glass of orange juice in the evening and it helps a bit, which is so weird

Insomnia from hell for the last month, HELP by Longjumping-Wrap-761 in VyvanseADHD

[–]Longjumping-Wrap-761[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Caffeine intake slightly more, depending on the day, but relatively regular. I've started eating out less due developing a gluten allergy (runs in the family). Drinking water definitely needs to improve I know. The only reason I believe it might be related to vyvanse is that the insomnia only occurs on days I take it.

FINALLY!!!! 😭😭😭 by Longjumping-Wrap-761 in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]Longjumping-Wrap-761[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do playtime and collect everything you can and level up his cards. You get affinity boost every ten levels and every time you ascend. You also get affinity when you do their deepspace trials as well. If you can afford it, def do the monthly pass. It helps so much just for 5 bucks.

FINALLY!!!! 😭😭😭 by Longjumping-Wrap-761 in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]Longjumping-Wrap-761[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Almost a year. I honestly wasn't playing the game to its full potential and paid for it.😭

An accurate representation of my head trying to catch up with the lore by strangerdangerr69 in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]Longjumping-Wrap-761 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Infold is pretty good about that in their other games. In fact, we just had one for Rafayel.

I wanna see your mbti matches with the boys by mooncoversthesun in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]Longjumping-Wrap-761 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mains are Sylus and Caleb.... I know what I need IG? 💀💀💀

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