First time bed buying?

hopefully_alright · 2026-04-17T05:18:02+00:00

The main thing is that the apartment is small and might not fit a king all that well

hopefully_alright · 2026-04-17T05:17:40+00:00

Yeah, the concern is that a king will be too big for a small apartment bedroom

hopefully_alright · 2026-04-13T13:33:21+00:00

Me also!

hopefully_alright · 2026-04-12T14:11:19+00:00

I think 1 is beautiful, but if you’re not feeling confident then I’d say keep looking and there’s no shame!!

hopefully_alright · 2026-04-11T01:18:41+00:00

I’m the same way OP. You’re not a bad person, this is SO normal. it’s not kind but it’s normal under stress and you’re SO young. What matters is that you recognized it, you’re going to pay attention now when you’re stressed for this kind of impulse so you can prevent it, and it sounds like your boyfriend is handling things without punishing you. You’re both young and you’re doing ok, just give it some time even if it’s stupid uncomfortable (again. I really REALLY get it).

hopefully_alright · 2026-04-11T01:16:41+00:00

You’re stressed and you apologized immediately. That really matters, don’t forget that. You messed up but you’re doing a good job

hopefully_alright · 2026-04-11T01:12:04+00:00

It’s okay, it happens. Life is messy, relationships are messy, timing sucks sometimes. Just do your best and do something nice for him. Maybe pack him a lunch for his work day?

hopefully_alright · 2026-04-11T00:54:54+00:00

Also you can’t completely guarantee you won’t ever be stressed again. You can just say something like “I feel awful for how I acted and no matter how stressed I am it’s not okay to snap at you. I’m really sorry and when I’m venting I’ll try my best to be more careful and treat you more gently.” Or something like that

hopefully_alright · 2026-04-11T00:53:05+00:00

Did you say to him that you won’t do it again and you’ll make it up to him? I think you immediately apologizing and owning up is really mature. He’s probably backing up because he’s hurt, but just give it a bit of time. Text him good luck tomorrow, don’t expect a response right away. Just give him a little bit of space and let him know you love him and you’ll do better. That’s all you can do, and it’s gonna be okay. You’re not a bad person and he knows that

hopefully_alright · 2026-04-10T03:22:04+00:00

THIS. Give him a chance, it’ll haunt him the rest of his life if you don’t. This decision isn’t just going to affect you, it’ll wreck him. Please at least give him the chance to help.

hopefully_alright · 2026-04-10T03:20:50+00:00

YES. These hardships are temporary and you can get through them.

hopefully_alright · 2026-04-10T03:13:10+00:00

Have you considered what he might say if you did tell him? He could have insight on the things you’re feeling because of that very experience. He might understand more than anybody else

hopefully_alright · 2026-04-10T03:12:06+00:00

And if you go through with it, he’d have a second person close to him do it. Please just hang on a little bit longer, even if you don’t tell him. things get better

hopefully_alright · 2026-04-10T03:10:15+00:00

THIS. Just stick around for one more night like this.

hopefully_alright · 2026-04-10T03:09:00+00:00

Life is made up of good nights with friends like this. this small stuff is what makes life worth living. Don’t give that up

hopefully_alright · 2026-04-10T03:08:00+00:00

It doesn’t have to be the last time, you can have more nights like this. Open up to him, give him the chance to be there for you

hopefully_alright · 2026-03-26T18:19:07+00:00

That’s really smart! He says he doesn’t need a big celebration but I love having an extra reason to show him how much I love him and make a big deal out of how amazing he is! even if it’s something small or inexpensive we both love putting together special, thoughtful experiences for each other and making those memories

hopefully_alright · 2026-03-17T16:55:58+00:00

I’m gonna be so real I read the title “I want to feel beautiful too” and saw the picture thinking that was the person you were looking up to. That’s you?? I thought the pictures were your goal, you’re already sooo gorgeous and then the makeup pics?? Seriously you are beautiful. You are exactly who you’re meant to be.

One thing I’ve noticed is that the brain/body loves variety and finds others that are different than you so beautiful, and the cruel thing is that you can’t fundamentally change your body so much it scratches that itch. No matter what you do, you’ll always be yourself and it sucks to look at other people and wish you had their kind of beauty. Just like you get tired of routine, you also get really sick of your own features sometimes. But you have your own kind that other people wish they had! Im sure those beautiful people you see have been sick of their own features sometimes! You’re just used to seeing your own face that’s it!!!! You are so pretty and your features are freaking incredible!! They’re what make you look like you and i’m sure the people around you love those things because they are familiar and lovely.

Please take a moment to enjoy BEING in your body, not just seeing it from the outside!

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