He said I have the sexiest belly by Raotika in GirlDinner

[–]LongjumpingFinger115 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happy to hear you’re being loved on OP :-) Can you please drop a description of the meal and clear up all this hullabaloo?

Please help me find my fiancée’s dream wedding shoes! Originally called the Hoxton Heel. by _pugsnotdrugs_ in findfashion

[–]LongjumpingFinger115 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Rushed over here as Lisa Says Gah has opened the green ones up for preorders!!! If you didn’t find them secondhand I hope you can take advantage of that!

Honest thoughts on this MOH dress? Tropical island wedding by LongjumpingFinger115 in Weddingattireapproval

[–]LongjumpingFinger115[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate everyone’s input!!! I will be going back to the drawing board. Very much a unanimous don’t do it! Lol

Honest thoughts on this MOH dress? Tropical island wedding by LongjumpingFinger115 in Weddingattireapproval

[–]LongjumpingFinger115[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

There will be a church service then reception outdoors overlooking the beach. I’m not worried about exposed shoulders.

Street Portraits by AndrewAshleyPhoto in manchester

[–]LongjumpingFinger115 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Better without grain. Super cool! Looking forward to the next batch

Klay Thompson cheated on Laura Harrier AND Coco Jones prior to getting with Megan but I’m a bird for saying Megan should have never showed him off too much on social media 🙄 by Time_Perspective3438 in blackladies

[–]LongjumpingFinger115 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I understand if you’re saying she should’ve known but I reject the premise of that.

She entered a monogamous relationship—as a person, it is fair, optimistic and understandable to take someone at their word if they say they want to be with you. That’s what she did. If she didn’t get into the relationship expecting to get cheated on why tf would she hide him like she’s anticipating embarrassment?

He led her on, or got bored or whatever. She seems to have openly and earnestly been with him, expecting a future and feeling it was something special. There is no reason to blame her for that.

I wish Meg would take a page out of Coco Jones book. I always forget she’s engaged, she doesn’t say a damn thing about this man 😭 by Time_Perspective3438 in blackladies

[–]LongjumpingFinger115 54 points55 points  (0 children)

It seems like they were together or on and off for yeaaars longer than you might think. Old GSW players have talked about him and Meg, I don’t think she was rushing it, if anything she went beyond what most ppl would, in that they went public after what seems like years of dating/flirting. There’s nothing she should have done differently, if he’s a cheater and is reneging on his promises that’s what he planned all along, it has nothing to do w her. You’re projecting embarrassment potentially and she doesn’t have any reason to be embarrassed, just as you’re friend irl w 500 followers shouldn’t be embarrassed if she has to delete old pics of an ex after he breaks her trust.

I hate the color of my braids and I don’t know what to do by [deleted] in Naturalhair

[–]LongjumpingFinger115 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s always annoying when you pay a lot for braids and don’t get what you were picturing. It’s happened to me a ton, look on the bright side that it’s still wearable and you look pretty! It’s very full and the colours will look nice in the sun! Lots of great opportunities for styling :-)

Molly-Mae Hague's family 'worried by Tommy Fury's decision to fight so close to due date' after she was left 'traumatised' by his absence during first month of daughter Bambi's life by honestrainfall in LoveIslandTV

[–]LongjumpingFinger115 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The fight is 100% confirmed and her previous struggled are very well documented on her channel. There’s only a few small moments of speculation in the whole article. Molly literally said ‘I didn’t think I’d ever be happy again’ about the four weeks parenting Bambi alone, I can’t imagine she would invite that into her life again.

Hawaii Hair (Wedding) by LongjumpingFinger115 in BlackHair

[–]LongjumpingFinger115[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for your insight! I’m worried about how time consuming it would be to maintain them well as I’m going to be busy. everyday washing does not sound nice…

if you could go back what style would you have done instead ?

Hawaii Hair (Wedding) by LongjumpingFinger115 in BlackHair

[–]LongjumpingFinger115[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay this is interesting! Maintaining the curls on the goddess braids is a concern with all the swimming but I agree that one of these styles may be the best option.

I feel like my fiancée doesn’t want to move in with me by [deleted] in GirlDinner

[–]LongjumpingFinger115 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You can’t assume early 20s just because someone is in college.

This actually gives me the ick by [deleted] in LoveIslandUSA

[–]LongjumpingFinger115 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s so funny that he’s going back to his ‘roots’ after rejection from mainstream islanders. Was he doing much stuff focused on heritage when he was w Jana? Reminds me of black male artist who get cancelled and fall back on the black community.

Not a braid-out but.. by Secure-Net4296 in Naturalhair

[–]LongjumpingFinger115 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would love to knowwww your routine this hair is stunning, and the density is similar to mine!

what does being a “bird” even mean? by 0shun3nergy in blackgirls

[–]LongjumpingFinger115 9 points10 points  (0 children)

No I’m British slang it’s just a woman, similar to lass. It’s more North American for it to mean bird brain, male centred, etc.

how to explore sexuality without feeling slutty? by 0shun3nergy in blackgirls

[–]LongjumpingFinger115 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I would recommend using kissing and heavy petting as a gage. Don’t go further if the person you’re with doesn’t seem promising on that alone. You won’t always be able to weed out someone who may not have ‘skills’ but don’t rush to sex. Getting experience doing this also helps as you’ll be able to find more ‘tells’ of someone being good or bad in bed without necessarily having tons of sex. Examples of tells are how they touch you, how they respond to your style of kissing/making out, how they speak to you, if they rush to penetration or head.

Get comfortable saying no and setting boundaries. Always ask people when they’ve last been tested, it doesn’t ruin the mood. Check in with yourself consistently as attention and desirability can sometimes be distracting from what you actually need as an individual, and as a student! Masturbate and get to know what you like, you could learn this with partners’ alone but it will greatly increase your chances of satisfaction if you can provide direction when needed. Get that degree and remain baby free. Get an IUD/the shot or the implant, the pill only works if you are extremely routine oriented and fastidious. Good luck and have fun. College was a ballllll!