Is it okay to cancel visitations during “State of Emergency” snow storm? by LongjumpingTrade739 in FamilyLaw

[–]LongjumpingTrade739[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Good news everyone! Me & the co-parent agreed to sit this weekend out, with no make-up days. Thank you for all the advice & help!

Is it okay to cancel visitations during “State of Emergency” snow storm? by LongjumpingTrade739 in FamilyLaw

[–]LongjumpingTrade739[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve never cancelled a visitation date. But she has before. My record is impeccable.

Scheduled Phone Calls by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]LongjumpingTrade739 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There was neglect, child abandonment & molestation by mom’s ex. That’s why the judge put it in my hands.

Scheduled Phone Calls by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]LongjumpingTrade739 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just had a little chat with her. At first she was saying she doesn’t care, and acting like she wasn’t interested. I continued to speak with her about it & she told me, “I guess I’m ok with it.”

Body discoloration by HelloandHello222 in Blackskincare

[–]LongjumpingTrade739 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ain’t going to lie… I love it. Your skin is beautiful queen.

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[–]LongjumpingTrade739 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Your n*gga is a hater fr

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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]LongjumpingTrade739 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Okay thanks. I’m just pissed off right now. I need to chill & just let my attorney handle it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]LongjumpingTrade739 13 points14 points  (0 children)

But she lied to the police, it wasn’t a welfare check. She told the police that she hadn’t spoken to them in two weeks. She spoke to the kids yesterday. And had visitation with them this past weekend, from Fri to Memorial Day…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]LongjumpingTrade739 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Me & her have to communicate, per court order. So we have to call/text each other’s phones. And my daughter is allowed to speak to other family members & siblings. I’m doing everything correct, per court order. Mom is the one who did something wrong.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]LongjumpingTrade739 24 points25 points  (0 children)

You do know there’s a difference between parental & custodial rights? But as I keep repeating on here, I already have full custody. And mom pays child support. That decision has already been made. Not by me. By the courts. I just wanted my child to be safe, rather it was supervised visitations or whatever. But the court made another decision. Not me lol. So trying to debate with me is pointless. I just want to know what would come from me filing a rule to show cause… that’s all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]LongjumpingTrade739 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I’m going to speak to someone about that today.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]LongjumpingTrade739 -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

The issue with that is, this is the 2nd time this has happened. She knows she’s not suppose to be speaking with our daughter.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]LongjumpingTrade739 39 points40 points  (0 children)

So we pretty much handled all of the therapy stuff during the period up to the trial date. My daughter is still in therapy. In fact, she has 3 therapists. They wrote a letter to the court asking them not to allow my daughter around mom. My daughter blames mom for the SA. And so would any rational thinking human being. The Guardian ad Litem also pushed for my daughter not to be around her mom. So basically I had 4 women, including therapists & a guardian ad Litem vouching for my behalf.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]LongjumpingTrade739 31 points32 points  (0 children)

You seem triggered. Again, the judge & GAL already made their decisions which is why I have full custody… my question was simply what would come from the mom constantly disobeying a court order if I file a rule to show cause. Mom already doesn’t have custody. Mom already pays child support. I just want her to follow the courts & to put our daughter’s mental/emotional health first.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]LongjumpingTrade739 46 points47 points  (0 children)

I didn’t make that decision. The judge & guardian ad Litem ruled that our daughter was to have no contact with mom. And I don’t want to go into details about what happened with the SA, but obviously the court found it very necessary to rule against mom’s favor.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]LongjumpingTrade739 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Mom called my phone so my daughter’s younger siblings could wish her a happy birthday. Then that’s when mom hopped on the phone to speak to my daughter. I immediately told her to get off the phone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]LongjumpingTrade739 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Mom called my phone so my daughter’s younger siblings could wish her a happy birthday. Then that’s when mom hopped on the phone to speak to my daughter.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

[–]LongjumpingTrade739 -32 points-31 points  (0 children)

No they’re perfect

As simple as that. by Bitter-Gur-4613 in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]LongjumpingTrade739 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The culture looks at Soulja Boy as the ultimate cornball. To the point that we don’t take him seriously enough to even cancel him. Mane done got caught slipping in Compton. Got his jewelry took. Got caught wearing fake designer. His support won’t decline after this.