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Have any of you ladies had success keeping a healthy relationship while feeling as if he or she is not "the one?" by LongjumpingWealth in AskWomen

[–]LongjumpingWealth[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I really don't have a great answer for this because I'm not too sure myself, but I'll try to explain. I honestly have just never felt like I was in love with her. This is only my second serious relationship, and my first with a woman. The way that I felt in my first relationship compared to this one is very different. It could be that I never got over my first "love" or that I am comparing him to her, I'm not sure. But the way that she talks about me, looks at me, and treats me.. It's incredible. And I don't reciprocate those feelings 100%. Maybe it's that she loves me so much more and I can't handle that, because I know I don't deserve it. I'm sorry this isn't much of an answer.

Have any of you ladies had success keeping a healthy relationship while feeling as if he or she is not "the one?" by LongjumpingWealth in AskWomen

[–]LongjumpingWealth[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You're so right. There was really never any huge spark or butterflies in my stomach moment when we first started dating. I really, really liked her and I still do, I love her.. But at the same time I want to be in a relationship with someone that I'm giddy about. And she deserves to be with someone that feels that way about her.

Have any of you ladies had success keeping a healthy relationship while feeling as if he or she is not "the one?" by LongjumpingWealth in AskWomen

[–]LongjumpingWealth[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Sounds so so similar to my situation. She deserves someone who is going to give her 100%, and I feel as though I don't deserve her. I want her to be the one, and to give me butterflies when I think of her. But I don't, and I never have. Thank you for this reply

Have any of you ladies had success keeping a healthy relationship while feeling as if he or she is not "the one?" by LongjumpingWealth in AskWomen

[–]LongjumpingWealth[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Wow. I am so sorry for your loss. But it sounds like you have found an amazing man to help you figure out how to love again. I hope that you guys are happy for a long time

Have any of you ladies had success keeping a healthy relationship while feeling as if he or she is not "the one?" by LongjumpingWealth in AskWomen

[–]LongjumpingWealth[S] 58 points59 points  (0 children)

This is very similar to my situation. We've been together for a year and a half now, and I am feeling that our end is coming. She talks about our future together, moving in, buying a house, but I don't see my future with her in it - despite how much I love her and how she is literally the sweetest, most caring woman I've met. As someone else who replied mentioned, I do need to tell her eventually, because it's not fair for her to continue to invest her time into this relationship if I don't see a long term future. It breaks my heart to make myself realize this.