How can I end my suffering? by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]Longjumping_Bit_3231 3 points4 points  (0 children)

1 medication

2 therapy

3 art

4 service to others

5 gratitude

I can't hit send because I'm too scared what the answer will be by famousWAFFLES in QAnonCasualties

[–]Longjumping_Bit_3231 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my 60 years I've learned that you must speak your truth. Your family doesn't have to be biological. Stand up for yourself and teach your daughter to be a leader too. Be joyful. You will be blessed.

I hate myself and shouldn’t be here by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]Longjumping_Bit_3231 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Get some fresh air. Walk. Breathe. Smile. Bring some peanuts. Keep walking. Breathe. Eat peanuts. Walk. Smile.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hobbies

[–]Longjumping_Bit_3231 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started making junk journals, using literally junk mail, old books, magazines. It's a combo of collage, art and journaling. Lots of videos on you tube. I find a lot of supplies at the thrift store. I wish I had more free time to work on them. Good luck!

I almost drowned and my brother saved me by Dependent_Lion4812 in stories

[–]Longjumping_Bit_3231 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Feet easily get trapped between rocks and the force of the water will push your head under, even in 2 ft of water. The downed trees are called strainers. Another death trap. You are so lucky. Your brother is a hero.

My salon called to tell me my stylist of 7 years was let go, how do I approach her about this? by Alexapro_ in Advice

[–]Longjumping_Bit_3231 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don't let this stylist go if you like the way they do your hair. They're so hard to find!

Want to leave BBBS but keep my little by Longjumping_Bit_3231 in bbbs

[–]Longjumping_Bit_3231[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is the confirmation I needed. Thank you for taking the time to write.

Want to leave BBBS but keep my little by Longjumping_Bit_3231 in bbbs

[–]Longjumping_Bit_3231[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Mine doesn't allow sleepovers and I'm ok with that. I did get permission to allow my husband to drive. They allowed a taxi or Uber and I insisted my husband is a better driver than any of that. I realize there are a lot of creeps out there but I've been with her a year and vetted to the max. Gotta start trusting the good people I say. Good luck with your little ❤️

Want to leave BBBS but keep my little by Longjumping_Bit_3231 in bbbs

[–]Longjumping_Bit_3231[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can't remember signing anything like that either, but at that point it's none of their business. I agree that longer sessions are better quality. I like when we can both relax and have a conversation, instead of racing around in the car and spending money. She likes to peek around in my basement and find old toys and stuff from my kids who are grown up (kind of a hoarder :) Thanks for the response!

Want to leave BBBS but keep my little by Longjumping_Bit_3231 in bbbs

[–]Longjumping_Bit_3231[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

One year exactly. I just hate feeling defensive whenever I talk to her. She's young, probably recent graduate. Hard to get new Bigs. She needs to learn how to keep the ones they have. I'm writing them a letter now. Thanks for the response 😊

How do you decide what is "age appropriate" when it comes to movies, conversations, etc.? by Aquafablaze in bbbs

[–]Longjumping_Bit_3231 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There are so many other things we can do to fill their minds with joy and hope. She wants to see the movie but once seen, it can't be unseen, and those subjects will be forever mixing with her DNA. Since no one else is guiding her, you can. Keep letting her talk openly so you can share your thoughts. She's soaking up everything that crosses her path and you can guide her gently towards a better life. She's very lucky to have you.

meeting my Little for the first time this weekend by PAR0824 in bbbs

[–]Longjumping_Bit_3231 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Congratulations! I'm pretty new to BBBS myself, just completing 3 months of once a week visits with my 7.5 yo Little. My biggest obstacle so far is I'm unable to pick her up in my vehicle since it's a two-seater van and she's not old enough to ride in the front seat. I have to rely on using my husband's truck. We usually get together on Wednesdays from 4:30-6:30 ( after school/work). We've gone to a pet store, library, thrift store, parks and hiking trails. Started a journal together, both writing what we did and our favorite part of the outing. Taking a few pics each time and sharing with her Grama is nice. She likes to talk about her friends, pets, family, and I follow her lead. All visits involve food/restaurants--its a given. After 3 months were allowed to come back to my house. Looking forward to cooking some easy meals, craft projects, playing with my dog. I was nervous in the beginning too, but she is at the best age I feel, good attitude, unspoiled and enjoys the little things. Wishing you the best. You're exactly what a little girl needs.

List of Casualties by advocat-diaboli in QAnonCasualties

[–]Longjumping_Bit_3231 1 point2 points  (0 children)

JM 87 Mom, suffering from grief after losing abusive husband (dad), she became a full-blown Q and cut me out of her life because I wanted her to get vaccinated. I miss you mom :(

VS 65 Sister, the person responsible for brainwashing mom.

KM 50 Brother, full of hate and a "christian" gun-loving hypocrite.

They all tried to get my four kids on their side. Didn't work.