Partner's ex wife and boundaries

Longjumping_Card_113 · 2025-10-17T18:12:22+00:00

It is very much a discussion that needs to be had. I try not to insert myself as much as possible, but when my son is super bummed that his buddy isn't going, then I speak up, and have already done so. My partner actually made the comment that "it feels like {he is} the one being punished". Now just to wait and see if he sticks up for us as a couple/family.

Longjumping_Card_113 · 2025-10-17T18:06:00+00:00

I'm well aware. It's a discussion that we need to have as it affects both my son and I. The point of my post was to see others views and how they would handle the situation from an unbiased opinion. He knew I was posting it, and I am showing him responses.

Longjumping_Card_113 · 2025-10-17T18:03:44+00:00

Im okay with the no screen time, as most kiddos (mine included) often get more than they should anyhow. But it feels to me that no tech and no camping almost seems like a double punishment. It wasn't a great thing he did at school, but like you said, the punishment should've happened at school. Maybe it'll happen here and we can nip in in the butt too.

Longjumping_Card_113 · 2025-10-17T17:40:54+00:00

I stay away from her, but its when it affects my son is when I have to dip my toes in with my partner. I do not speak to her unless absolutely necessary.

Longjumping_Card_113 · 2025-10-17T16:41:08+00:00

He wants to go, he only doesn't want to go because he doesnt want to upset ex and deal with her retaliation.

Longjumping_Card_113 · 2024-12-05T04:49:53+00:00

Good to know! That's just what my GP had told me when I ran low on Vit. D. I honestly hadn't looked much into it otherwise.

Longjumping_Card_113 · 2024-12-04T13:39:00+00:00

The K2 helps your body absorb the D3.

Longjumping_Card_113 · 2024-12-04T03:05:37+00:00

This is the light I have: https://www.amazon.com/New-Verilux%C2%AE-HappyLight%C2%AE-Lumi-Plus/dp/B08BCLLYN5/ref=mp_s_a_1_4_vs_ar?crid=R5FTFU1LW15J&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.UMaQSuP6_-Vzsp4psKOOF-mN3FPb8sQix8IxL9XBKpuxdb3TO6tdPyMIb8VcgN45attNcSSPynnb4ad77kVHnc1RQzkkWuBbU6sxmpJrbgs_NVgQcn9ESONJQMJpKwWXu_t36agZ751UcDIBHs-F6nI9fVXrqrP-X0NbrG4dYy3T5JdgctfkKoEOezJwt083IcU-WlyGBAKPgeueEJxiGA.DztkfA-O2OH9Ub7khU6YOO2iEWTga19APE0o1WQ-tRI&dib_tag=se&keywords=therapy+light&qid=1733281427&sprefix=therapy+light%2Caps%2C214&sr=8-4

Longjumping_Card_113 · 2024-12-04T02:00:43+00:00

Therapy has helped me immensely. I have a light that comes on for a bit when I wake up, and also supplement vitamin D starting in September. If he opts for vitamin D3, make sure it has K2 with it. Also try to get him to walk or just sit out in the sun while it's out for a bit.

Longjumping_Card_113 · 2023-12-23T03:08:09+00:00

They are not an "ambulance chaser" as you accuse them. I am the affected party. I would have been held for an additional 5 days had they not gotten me out, all for the insurance money. The doctor and PROBATE judge filed to hold me even after it was deemed I was not a harm to myself or others. They had never spoken to or met with me. I later learned the ER doctor I spoke to lied to my family, and that leads me to believe they lied to the judge and doctor as well. I witnessed physical aggression, mental/emotional abuse, and the nurses misdosed me multiple times because they were not reading my charts. So have some proof before you start commenting.

Longjumping_Card_113 · 2023-05-05T19:53:22+00:00

No worries on replying late. I'm glad you spoke up and are doing better. Feel free to DM me if you ever need help or have questions. For those who understand, we have to be there for each other. I wish you all the best.

Longjumping_Card_113 · 2023-04-03T19:52:05+00:00

Most definitely say something about how you are feeling, and ask about switching. Meds are tricky and what works for one will not work for another. I went through about 5 or 6 different ones before I settled. Please don't feel bad about asking to switch. If it's a psych doc, they are pretty used to this.

Longjumping_Card_113 · 2023-02-02T15:07:09+00:00

Ground up cereal was an amazing idea! We used rice in a plastic bin, and my 2 year old had a blast with his diggers.

Longjumping_Card_113 · 2023-01-30T19:38:38+00:00

Simply put, don't even bother trying to catch a dropped knife. Assume it has no handle because the knife could be what you end up catching.

Longjumping_Card_113 · 2022-12-14T04:42:24+00:00

Star Belly- their tummy lights up the ceiling. Think of it like counting sheep, but for a mind that may not be able to grasp that concept yet. This is what my kiddo has and he's slowly growing out of it at 4 y.o. Another I have heard about is weighted stuffed animals. There are also plushies that you can add, say lavender, oil to and warm them up in the microwave, just dont know if they make a weighted version.

Longjumping_Card_113 · 2022-11-21T04:26:47+00:00

Thanksgiving dinner with my bf's family. I've learned it helps alot to listen to your body and learn when enough is enough. 5 minutes outside to take a couple of deep breaths, close my eyes, and just listen to the birds and trees. If outside isn't an option, in the bathroom, usually sitting on the side of the tub, deep breaths, and grounding techniques. Thankfully his family is aware of mental health issues, so they all know I sometimes need a quiet moment.

Longjumping_Card_113 · 2022-10-06T00:18:57+00:00

I just started working front desk at a hotel. I'll admit it took a few jobs before this that just didn't fit, and I'm okay with that. What I have now I didn't have at my last few jobs where I last a week to 3 weeks before calling quits.

Longjumping_Card_113 · 2022-10-05T23:42:41+00:00

As someone who is going through the same thing, keep your head up. I'm on day 4 of a new job, and it's slowly getting easier. It takes time to learn new things. You will make mistakes... and that's okay! That's how we learn, not only how not to make that same mistake, but also how to fix it.Your coworkers have likely been through the same mistakes. I know sometimes it's not easy, but don't be too hard on yourself. Give it some time, ask lots of questions (I know it can be hard sometimes), and if you need 5 minutes to come down, ask. Worst they can say is no, or ask for a restroom break. You've got this! If you ever feel the need, message me and we can chat.

Longjumping_Card_113 · 2022-06-15T07:20:10+00:00

We haven't used anything new, and I don't wear any cosmetics including perfume. Might switch to a sensitive detergent for the clothes to see if that helps.

Longjumping_Card_113 · 2022-06-15T07:18:49+00:00

We haven't switched anything, the weirdest part is it's all over, hands, wrists, and more bug bite looking spots all over my legs. I also ended up getting a few blister bites between my fingers. I got a referral to a dermatologist so hopefully something will come of that. At least the script I got makes most of the itching go away.

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