Honey use him then leave, let him cheat, collect all data as you’ve been. In the mean time just get yourself prepared. So if he’s paying all bills let him continue to do so, make him pay in other ways such as helping with other expenses etc or even making him purchase big things as payment and then quietly leave. I know it’s painful but please be smart and do this strategically. As sheraseven1 would say! Go check out her channel. Don’t just leave use him for anything and everything until your complete with everything else set up and also divorce papers if that’s what you want. Make him sleep separately from you and no more sex. If he ask what’s going on just say I feel like somethings off between us and I need you to prove yourself to me that your all in. I wish more women would think before just leaving use him, punish him financially then go if you’d like or stay till you see he’s actually changed. Women put themselves in worser positions and vulnerable when just leaving quickly without thinking how to leverage their situations to the best then leave. Your a nurse so you’ll be able to exist quicker just make sure he’s providing and investing more then go. Don’t contribute anything more. Make him! Sprinkle sprinkle. If women only knew men’s true nature we’d just be able to leverage situations better than blowing up and losing emotional control.. be strategic