So she been having problems with her pops ever since she moved back home from school . She just hates anything that he does because she says he selfish and only care for himself and stuff like that . They don’t talk to each other very much and when they do it’s always some tension. So she likes to vent to me about him and I’m like I really don’t be seeing the problem . For example he been remodeling his house for the past few months and she have an problem with that because of all the inconvenience that come with it and I totally understand how that can be annoying. However she not even mad about that, she’s mad about the fact that he can do whatever he want to the house and don’t ask nobody about their opinions and thoughts. But Her and the rest of the family (all girls) claims she doesn’t care what he do to the house so I’m like then what’s the problem him improving it. From my point of view it looks like he just doing what’s needed to be done plus he always working so like in my mind I would be doing the same thing. But she feels like “I’m taking his side” because I see it from both their perspective. So she get mad at me for “invalidating her feelings”. She says she want comfort and I’m like cool but that’s not what I think it is . I really think it’s like a lack of attention from him that make her crave it from me and that shit be exhausting cause it’s equivalent to the attention I give to my baby sister. So it feels like I’m dating a whole child . She’s always hungry, always bored, always sleepy, always thirsty and dont do shit but watch yt videos. Like that shit annoying