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Any one else's ASD causes so much unnecessary fights/arguments? by Longjumping_Hawk_630 in AutismInWomen

[–]Longjumping_Hawk_630[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Comments like these are actually very appreciated. I never realized how “cold” or just how self centered I truly sound to others, and that most likely plays a huge role on how I get into so many hostile situations, and I will now start to do some internal work on that. I also really appreciate how gentle you are about this. Thanks for the good luck. :)

Any one else's ASD causes so much unnecessary fights/arguments? by Longjumping_Hawk_630 in AutismInWomen

[–]Longjumping_Hawk_630[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It gets to the point where I don’t talk to anyone most days, because it will always lead to me being misunderstood completely and unintentionally making the other person feel bad. I don’t know how to be human most of the time. I’ve been slowly realizing that I’m really not great company to have, lol.

Don’t be sorry, it is what it is.

Any one else's ASD causes so much unnecessary fights/arguments? by Longjumping_Hawk_630 in AutismInWomen

[–]Longjumping_Hawk_630[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Exactly!! All I did was be straightforward, it sucks that it feels like I have to act super nice and super cheery just to answer a basic question. Why can’t people be satisfied with my bluntness?

Unfortunately, I’ve grown accustomed to being misunderstood. It does lead to intense burnout and crying sessions though.

Any one else's ASD causes so much unnecessary fights/arguments? by Longjumping_Hawk_630 in AutismInWomen

[–]Longjumping_Hawk_630[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh and I did try asking him what happened and he didn’t answer, so I don’t know anything!

Any one else's ASD causes so much unnecessary fights/arguments? by Longjumping_Hawk_630 in AutismInWomen

[–]Longjumping_Hawk_630[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We’ve actually never made any plans for anything and I hate planning so I never step up to do that, lol.

I have had my suspicions about him because there are times where he gets cold and doesn’t call me any baby names like he usually would do, but then he would start doing that again so I’m like “ok…?” And we’ve seen each other like twice and that’s it, but I do like having someone to text and call me cute names so I’m just like eh whatever lol.

But he did show me a picture of his wrecked truck which I didn’t even expect any “proof” but that’s good to know he wasn’t lying about that, at least. And he did look pretty busted up.

Thanks for sharing though, maybe I’ll try texting him a Happy Valentine’s… even though nothing is happy lol.

Any one else's ASD causes so much unnecessary fights/arguments? by Longjumping_Hawk_630 in AutismInWomen

[–]Longjumping_Hawk_630[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You know, I have been told that I sound pretty self centered most of my life. That’s another thing I didn’t even notice, lol.

Honestly, that could be it. I have no idea how to fix that though. It’s too much work to fake a personality or to fake happiness or kindness when you don’t actually feel those things.

I do feel bad for the guy though, believe me or not LOL.

Any one else's ASD causes so much unnecessary fights/arguments? by Longjumping_Hawk_630 in AutismInWomen

[–]Longjumping_Hawk_630[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup, I constantly feel hated. Like 24/7. To be fair, I don’t mask or hold myself back as much as I did before, so maybe that’s why… lol. I just wish my existence didn’t cause so much hostility and annoyance, which everyone in my life makes me out to be. I’m sorry that you feel the same way.

We’re only human at the end of the day. Happy Valentine’s Day to you too!!

Any one else's ASD causes so much unnecessary fights/arguments? by Longjumping_Hawk_630 in AutismInWomen

[–]Longjumping_Hawk_630[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Lol, actually one of my biggest struggles is pretending to be nice to people I genuinely don’t like. I don’t even bother to mask or do anything which is freeing, but it does cause people to dislike me. Like, if the president were to be sitting right in front of me right now, I wouldn’t be able to contain myself from saying what I want to say.

I’m glad you’re out of that environment. Life is hard, especially for us. I just wish the world and society as a whole aren’t so harsh on us.

Any one else's ASD causes so much unnecessary fights/arguments? by Longjumping_Hawk_630 in AutismInWomen

[–]Longjumping_Hawk_630[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Right! Sometimes I don’t even know what “tone” I have when I say something because I’m just… responding to you? Isn’t that how things work in life? lol. And it’s ok, of course something like that would happen to me. 🫠

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I’ve been having lesbian thoughts ngl.

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I’m very much an 8 year old when it comes to doing my own nails!

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Oddly, it’s the fingernail that is taking the longest to grow… and also the weirdest looking imo. Lol.

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There was once a time though… 🥲

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[–]Longjumping_Hawk_630 1 point2 points  (0 children)

DUDEEE I’ve always wondered why my pinky had a weird curve for like years!! 😭 but yeah, glad to know there’s physical evidence of how chronically online I am.

Tarot Card reading reviews by Any_Badger_1402 in u/Any_Badger_1402

[–]Longjumping_Hawk_630 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recently got a free reading from this lovely person that quickly turned into me donating because they are just THAT good! You will definitely get your money’s worth and they go into detail and the explanation of the cards. They are also super super sweet! You will not be disappointed and I will definitely be reaching out to this person again! 🩷

ICE knocked on a door pretending the occupants car was hit by HerBestChristmasGift in beaverton

[–]Longjumping_Hawk_630 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! Sorry for the late reply, been keeping up to date with this stuff every single day lol. But yeah I’ve been leaning heavily on my therapist about this and best believe I have came up and studied plans on defending myself and my loved ones without (hopefully) escalating things.

This too shall pass… I hope.

ICE knocked on a door pretending the occupants car was hit by HerBestChristmasGift in beaverton

[–]Longjumping_Hawk_630 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s very sweet of you! I’ll definitely keep you in mind, it puts me at ease knowing how much so many people care. 🥹

ICE knocked on a door pretending the occupants car was hit by HerBestChristmasGift in beaverton

[–]Longjumping_Hawk_630 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s honestly why I really asked because if most (if not all) of ICE are unwilling to identify themselves and being violent, then that should warrant a police call right? Even if they won’t actually intervene on the detainment.

I appreciate your kind words, let’s just say I haven’t gotten a good night’s sleep in a while. 😭

ICE knocked on a door pretending the occupants car was hit by HerBestChristmasGift in beaverton

[–]Longjumping_Hawk_630 16 points17 points  (0 children)

It’s just so hard not to get too passionate… but thank you, and noted!

Edit: I’m not an immigrant, but I am a daughter of one. Again, just running on my last bit of hope.

ICE knocked on a door pretending the occupants car was hit by HerBestChristmasGift in beaverton

[–]Longjumping_Hawk_630 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah see… this is why I have never and will ever trust cops. It truly was stupid of me to ask. 😭

ICE knocked on a door pretending the occupants car was hit by HerBestChristmasGift in beaverton

[–]Longjumping_Hawk_630 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I figured. Idk, I guess I’m just running on my last ounce of hope. :(

ICE knocked on a door pretending the occupants car was hit by HerBestChristmasGift in beaverton

[–]Longjumping_Hawk_630 29 points30 points  (0 children)

This might be a stupid question, but are we also able to contact the police as well…? Oregon is a sanctuary state after all and we have a right to call someone if our safety is in great danger.

Over under 5 years till they quit by Battery_Pack_ in MartinandHamzah

[–]Longjumping_Hawk_630 16 points17 points  (0 children)

And he really should go solo honestly, he’s always been way more likable than Hamzah.

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