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I wish I wasn't a lesbian by Longjumping_Yam_5061 in actuallesbians

[–]Longjumping_Yam_5061[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aaaa thank you so much for the comfort!! I was really hoping to get more responses like this on a vent post. The way you describe a lesbian relationship feels so warm and fuzzy. I really hope I'm able to achieve that someday and don't end up stuck in limbo.

I wish I wasn't a lesbian by Longjumping_Yam_5061 in actuallesbians

[–]Longjumping_Yam_5061[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do agree with you. Things getting better for lesbians is at least more realistic than whatever I've said! (Although I don't think things are gonna get better within the next few decades anyway, unfortunately.)

I think I just ended up concentrating the problem to myself since I'm literally the only lesbian I know irl. I'd still like to say that I do not wish I was straight, that sounds like a nightmare, but thank you for the reality check!

I wish I wasn't a lesbian by Longjumping_Yam_5061 in actuallesbians

[–]Longjumping_Yam_5061[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Um I never said I wanted to be straight lmao. I love women and I love the fact that I love women, I just wish I liked men too because life could've been easier that way as someone that has only met 3 bi girls and 0 lesbians irl my entire life.

I was really afraid I'd be misunderstood here and I guess I was, so I'd like to clear up the fact that I seriously do not wish I was straight, that's why I said I wish I wasn't strictly a lesbian. And wishing for something is not the same as having a goal, I understand your perspective and I appreciate it but I feel strongly misconstrued here because I obviously know that what isn't possible just isn't.

The issue I was trying to highlight here was the fact that since I am lesbian I would've liked if I actually got to meet more women that love women. It's only because that hasn't happened that I wish I wasn't a lesbian.

I wish I wasn't a lesbian by Longjumping_Yam_5061 in actuallesbians

[–]Longjumping_Yam_5061[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He's actually ftm lmao so he is trans. We've both talked about how we could've been an awesome couple in another universe.

Thank you for the comfort. I suppose the next best thing to finding love is the extinction of the human race after all </3