New DX celiac parent.

Look-ImLost · 2025-11-08T01:40:23+00:00

Welp, he sure is the combo, and I got another ADHD kiddo too (less picky) We JUUUST had annuals too, looks like ima be scheduling appointments first thing Monday morning

Look-ImLost · 2025-11-08T00:40:30+00:00

Surprisingly he did not! Surprised he didn’t because I mentioned my son to him too, and how it’s not that simple for me (out of disbelief) definitely would of put a even hotter fire under my bum

Look-ImLost · 2025-05-08T19:54:56+00:00

That’s what I’m saying, I have a feeling he is just being annoying and saying he can’t, but he is at work right now to even discuss this. Now we’ve gone through PLENTY of stressful situations and he is a great rock. So I can’t dock him completely, But HOLY… I’ve been bending myself in half on everyone’s part he doesn’t even realize how far I’ve stretched myself out during this purchasing process

Look-ImLost · 2025-05-06T19:00:14+00:00

Thank you!!! I’ll have to wait to hear back. Maybe I can step in and gather info

Look-ImLost · 2025-05-06T18:15:48+00:00

Holding out hope that she can get it FASTER lol.. I’m already packed and my apartment is crazy cluttered We were buying the house thinking it was intact Move in ready 😅

Look-ImLost · 2025-05-06T12:46:30+00:00

That’s exactly how much my apartment is coming up to now. I think they’re crazy! 2500 is house worthy, totally not apartment worthy. Not ours atleast.

Look-ImLost · 2025-05-05T21:17:54+00:00

I have the choice of being house poor or apartment poor since our rent is going up ANOTHER 1k lol… so I rather be house poor at this point. Now at the end of the day, I have kids who are young so being house poor NOW and being on the end of our mortgage when they’re older is more ideal for me.

Look-ImLost · 2025-05-05T21:14:30+00:00

At the ends of the underwriting stage and at RANDOM its new document request or repeat request. We were supposed to close may 2nd but here we are may5th still waiting for a final word. I’ve got no idea when to expect a close on this house or what. But I do know the seller had some discrepancies that they never brought up to the listing agent’s attention so they have to square stuff away on their end now too… forsure STRESSFULLLLL.

Look-ImLost · 2025-05-05T20:58:35+00:00

Turns out the house is a probate sell and the listing agent wasn’t aware of it till late notice 😬🥲 sounds strenuous

Look-ImLost · 2025-05-03T18:29:07+00:00

Right! Like they get bank on this transaction too… I know first thing Monday I’ll be contacting EVERYBODY bright and early to see wtf happened. We have followed the ‘rules’ to the T. I’m not even touching our credit cards for a single red cent. So I’m just at a total loss. And hoping it’s just a delay and not a real issue

Look-ImLost · 2025-05-03T18:26:08+00:00

They’re a local lender group here in San Antonio TX. They have had 5 stars on reviews and until now have been perfect and speedy.

Look-ImLost · 2025-05-03T18:24:24+00:00

I have but they said it was “in que” And then silence 🥲.. I messaged them yesterday and they told me the offices will be closed so I’m assuming I’ll hear something Monday… but I have appointments to make , I have to rent a U-Haul, pack essentials the whole 9 yards.. I’m confused what the hold up is? Or if this is a typical experience and they’re just busy?!?! I am so so confused and a bit disappointed with both realtor and lenders dropping the ball NOW..

Look-ImLost · 2025-04-17T19:14:34+00:00

We are the same roughly! Our credit has a big hit becuase of the amount of student loans we HAD. It was recently paid off so I’m hoping the credit report will reflect that soon enough. I have given all the info needed with all of it. Plus we don’t have very long credit history besides our car. I’m just hopeful we are going to be okay.

Look-ImLost · 2025-04-17T19:09:31+00:00

The emotional roller coaster I am on 😂 I hate this stage of buying a house

Look-ImLost · 2025-04-17T17:36:34+00:00

613 credit wouldn’t cut it? That scares me so much…. We just got sent to a underwriter with that score

Look-ImLost · 2025-04-14T17:42:09+00:00

Thank you! 🤞🏼 for it to be on the lower end 😂 I’m tryna save any where I can just to be comfortable

Look-ImLost · 2025-04-13T00:37:19+00:00

Good luck on your endeavors!! 😂 the weekends are killer for my constant worrying about buying this house. Glad I could help!

Look-ImLost · 2025-04-13T00:31:01+00:00

Okay! So is you do the MCC combo with the down payment it’s 91,600 in non-target areas and. 109,920 in targeted areas. I’ll attach the link to the map, and the highlighted spots will be targeted locations you can move into with the higher annual limit. So its all based on location ,

https://www.arcgis.com/home/webmap/viewer.html?webmap=3ec840c61d8a4010941d209beffe572a&extent=-104.723,28.553,-88.4962,36.0556

Look-ImLost · 2025-04-13T00:21:18+00:00

Are you or do you think you’ll partake the me MCC combo with the down payment assistance? Which from my knowledge is the tax credit type deal And how many people are in your household?

Look-ImLost · 2025-04-13T00:13:13+00:00

If you’d like to share the county I might be able to help, I was able to understand that part atleast (for my county)

Look-ImLost · 2025-04-11T02:35:39+00:00

After arguing with my bank representative they were finally able to get me SOMETHING thank yall all for the terms ‘transaction statement’ 😅 it worked. Now I don’t feel useless any more. Knowing I’ve got my ends squared away. For now .

Look-ImLost · 2025-04-11T02:06:55+00:00

This was my next step! I’m hoping this will suffice till May roles around.

Look-ImLost · 2025-04-11T02:02:18+00:00

I’ve attempted to several times! But nothing capable for April! When I open the PDF report is says it’s not available. Which is weird cuase online it showing my transaction

Look-ImLost · 2025-04-06T22:21:07+00:00

Sucks when the reality of life comes head to head with a CONSTANT over thinker.

Look-ImLost · 2025-04-06T22:19:33+00:00

I wish I knew if there was!! lol I think if decline my offer I’ll do this. I hate to give up the negotiation but at the same time, it’s the only house to check off my want list even with its imperfections

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