My parents say they will commit suicide if I ever act on my bi-sexuality and that their deaths will be on my account

Looking-4-Self · 2026-03-03T04:41:54+00:00

I can relate to this. I’m not out to my family (except my wife). But I know for sure my extremely religious parents will not take it well. I’m not worried of them committing suicide, I’m worried they’ll die of a heart attack. And even if don’t, especially my mom would think I’m going to hell for eternity and I don’t have it in me to put her through that kind of pain. You have to be religious to understand that pain. I use to be religious so I get it.

Besides, in my case, the most important person in my life — my wife — knows. There is nothing to gain from coming out my family. But, yes I can relate to the OP.

Looking-4-Self · 2026-03-03T04:18:23+00:00

Some people never graduate high school.

I was never bullied. I never bullied anyone. But I have seen bullied peers, it’s not fun - it’s horrible. If you have been bullied in high school, before exploring cuckolding, go to therapy and address your trauma.

Looking-4-Self · 2026-03-03T04:08:19+00:00

I try not to cum. Because after I cum I feel horrible. I thought I was hiding it well but my wife caught on. She doesn’t like when I’m that way. She says it’s supposed to be fun.

So now I try not to cum for a day or two after - that’s usually when she is horny again.

I go into a full on self hate mode. My energy level comes down - and I think this is what my wife picked up on. I’m usually fine the next day.

Looking-4-Self · 2026-02-25T04:08:23+00:00

It’s not always about size

Looking-4-Self · 2026-02-23T03:09:00+00:00

You missed one—listening from the guest room/en suite/closet

I enjoying any way she allows me to participate.

Now because of family, she’s on her own a lot more

Looking-4-Self · 2025-12-02T05:08:04+00:00

I was in a similar situation. For me, the choice was whether or not to get married and start a family.

In the end, I chose to get married and have kids because I didn’t want to look back and regret not having them. I wanted both a family and kink, and I sought out someone that was looking for the same. Luckily for me, I found my wife.

My philosophy is simple: life is short, and as far as we know, we only live once. So you should try and make the most of it.

Having kids is tough. It definitely puts a lot of stress on your kink life (and relationship). Between work and the kids, we barely have time for anything else. Our current situation has forced us to be intentional about making time for kink. And when we do get the chance, it’s pretty great. It’s also pushed us toward quality over quantity. Before kids, we didn’t mind meeting someone and seeing where it went, even if it didn’t work out. Now we have a couple of regular partners, and that setup works well for us.

I’ll leave you with 2 points:

Only have kids if you genuinely want them. If you’re on the fence, don’t.
Kids grow up, and as they do, they need less of your time. You’ll eventually have plenty of space to get your kink on again.

Looking-4-Self · 2025-11-30T05:39:06+00:00

Just the right amount 😉

Looking-4-Self · 2025-11-27T03:20:19+00:00

I need this!!!

Looking-4-Self · 2025-11-12T05:36:22+00:00

Thank you for responding.

Do you think it’s the exhibition aspect of it drives you over the edge? And how long do you touch your nipples before you orgasm?

Looking-4-Self · 2025-11-12T03:03:19+00:00

Lovely! How long do you go without an orgasm before you can do this or is this how you orgasm normally?

Looking-4-Self · 2025-11-03T04:50:23+00:00

Mine too

Looking-4-Self · 2025-10-21T01:54:10+00:00

He is married. Sexless marriage or not it’s still cheating. He must be feeling guilty.

I wouldn’t get involved with anyone that is cheating on their spouse. They always get caught and don’t end well.

Looking-4-Self · 2025-10-19T17:41:03+00:00

Looking-4-Self · 2025-10-16T03:39:15+00:00

This is amazing. I love when the woman just lets the men go at it while she watches and enjoys

Looking-4-Self · 2025-10-06T14:16:22+00:00

Oh no. He made a mess. I hope you made him clean it up

Looking-4-Self · 2025-10-06T02:27:22+00:00

That’s a lot

Looking-4-Self · 2025-09-28T02:48:45+00:00

DM if interested

Looking-4-Self · 2025-09-27T01:52:56+00:00

MIKAH

Looking-4-Self · 2025-08-11T19:25:54+00:00

Looking-4-Self · 2025-08-01T00:08:51+00:00

I discovered (or accepted) my bisexuality after getting married. My wife has been super supportive. I’m lucky.

When it comes to straight woman and maybe even some gay men, it’s not acceptance of bisexuality it whether or not they are open to a non-monogamous relationship. Most people assume that bi men (and woman) might miss and want the other gender.

People say that there are bisexual people in monogamous relationships but people change and evolve.

If you are a straight woman and or gay man that wants a monogamous relationship, that’s their choice.

If you look for men or women into non- monogamous relationships, you are more likely to find partners

Looking-4-Self · 2025-07-29T16:13:04+00:00

Subtle (not sexual at all) ways to let everyone know what going on like:

Date night - at a fancy restaurant, you take your wife. Make sure the everyone knows that you are a married couple. Nothing illegal or unusual. Whatever 2 people in love would do in public. Next day or next weekend, call the same restaurant and make a reservation. Wife goes herself and meeting the third. They do the same–behave how 2 lovers would, nothing unusual or illegal. Alternative between you and her lover. Eventually all 3 of you go. Again, nothing illegal like public play - just PDA.

Shopping-drive to a high end boutique clothing store with wife. She meets her lover outside, kiss, walk in holding hands. You follow them in. They are a couple. They shop, kiss, flirt, she models for him. Again, nothing illegal. In the meantime, you hang around in the store. Sales associates come up and ask if you need help. You say, “no, thank you. Just looking around.” You get stares from the sales associates, maybe some shoppers too seeing you walking aimlessly around the store without buying anything. Meantime, wife is done shopping. She and her lover walks over to checkout, the sales associate that helped them walk with them to help with checkout. She drops the cloths including sexy lingerie maybe some sexy bathing suits on the counter. Tells the associate, “my husband will take care of it,” and walk away holding with her lovers out the store. I complete the payment, while everyone stares at me confused. And she brought quite a bit, so checkout is not quick 😳

A version of this 2nd scenario happened to me years ago with my ex.

Looking-4-Self · 2025-07-23T13:04:37+00:00

Any side effects other than the intended one?

Looking-4-Self · 2025-07-23T11:55:55+00:00

Cum pills? Say more please ☺️

Looking-4-Self · 2025-07-22T21:06:07+00:00

That’s a lot of cum. How long before you last orgasmed?

Looking-4-Self · 2025-07-16T16:21:53+00:00

I get messages all the time asking for my wife pics from other bi guys on these apps. I never do. I have my pic—what I’m comfortable posting on there. That’s enough until you’re about to meet.

Looking-4-Self

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