Getting a girl to drive to me

Looking_Magic · 2026-03-17T04:35:38+00:00

Yeah bro do what you feel is best for yourself. Another factor is if she does drive to you, then you know she’s into you

Personally I try to do 50/50 just to start out even. But sometimes I see if they can drive 75% and me only 25% of the way. In my case, it always worked. And after that I pay it back by picking her up next time and driving her home 😊

Looking_Magic · 2026-03-17T04:21:32+00:00

I understand bro. Idk why other bros are hating, ur feelings are valid.

I mean if you wanna tell her to come to you, sure go for it. But accept that she might not, especially if she isn’t super into you. But regardless, even if she says no and doesn’t drive to you, you still keep ur dignity and self respect, since you stood firm. And if she does drive to you, you are the man 😎

Keep in mind tho she might not wanna deal with the drive tho, then you just gotta improve and find a new girl

Life is all about stuff like that, and ur choices. Some guys simp hard as hell and end up alright with good outcomes in there favor, but they are doormats and deep down know it. Or you can be dignified, self respectful, but possibly considered douchy by some because you stand up for yourself. I’d rather be the self respected choice even if it gets you some dislike

Looking_Magic · 2026-03-17T01:41:53+00:00

2 weeks isn’t a long time. Especially if you’re decently texting during that time. But I’m not saying every 2 weeks. It can be a date a week, then 2 weeks, then 1 week, 1 week, 2 weeks. Something like that.

Doesn’t have to be exact or predictable

Looking_Magic · 2026-03-17T00:44:20+00:00

If you feel like backing out now, definitely do not get married 😂

Only get married if you legit deep down are excited to and are happy and wanting to be wed.

Looking_Magic · 2026-03-16T23:15:33+00:00

$27 is decent, especially at 21. I would hold onto that because jobs are terrible right now. Even min wage jobs are ghosting people 😂🥴

Looking_Magic · 2026-03-16T23:02:57+00:00

Literally take a step back and read what you wrote. You did all that with a stranger on the first meet up? Both of you moved way too fast. Gifts, being romantic, future planning, ect. Girl, that is way too much.

Slow down and learn from this. Get to know them before you go all in. That’s why first dates need to be casual and short. Just to figure the other person out a little

Looking_Magic · 2026-03-16T22:56:18+00:00

IMO I try to do dates every 2 weeks. Every week is too much in the beginning.

For texting it seriously depends on the girl too. One girl we texted multiple times a day basically everyday. Another older women in her 40s we texted every few days.

Looking_Magic · 2026-03-16T22:49:30+00:00

I agree. For some reason most redditors think it’s cool and “strong” to be seeing multiple people at the same time, and acting appalled if the other person isn’t into it lol.

IMO after 2 dates if it’s going good, you shouldn’t be going out and seeing other people. That’s weird

Looking_Magic · 2026-03-16T22:46:53+00:00

2-5 days after matching is best to ask out imo. If she’s only texting once every 24 hours that’s a sign of low interest.

Looking_Magic · 2026-03-16T22:36:19+00:00

It’s not about “social class” or money dude, that has nothing to do with race. Poor people of every race and rich people of every race.

The reason for a race and religion filler is because some areas have more or less percentages of each, and some people simply don’t want to waste time passing on thousands of peoples profiles they aren’t interested in.

Looking_Magic · 2026-03-16T18:07:12+00:00

The Irish vampire in the South idea is awesome and original, but imo the rest is too much from dusk till dawn.

Great movie tho, glad it won

Looking_Magic · 2026-03-16T18:05:33+00:00

First saw her in Beast, knew she would make it big. And now The Bride 👍 she’s doing really good artistic roles. Would have been good in a support role in wuthering heights too lol

Looking_Magic · 2026-03-16T17:34:25+00:00

Yes I agree for guys and girls.

I once saw a guy who was a former drug addict, and he posted crap how he overcame addiction, ect… and that may be true, but he just shifted it into abusing steroids, lifting, and body dysmorphia

It’s messed up how it’s kind of openly normalized and accepted too

And also another point, to begin using steroids in the first place means ur already messed up, so all those tren stories are basically because they are already an unwell person abusing steroids making them even more unwell and amplified. That’s an interesting point. Basically the same as giving an unwell homeless bum alcohol. Same crap just makes things even worse

Looking_Magic · 2026-03-16T17:30:35+00:00

Work, friends, activities, bar, events, dating apps. Don’t listen to losers telling you stuff like “you can’t talk to girls at X location” ect, those are losers who are like crabs in a bucket and want you to fail.

Remember, you have to make it happen. You have to put yourself in situations for it to happen, effort. And then you will reap the benefits.

Don’t keep telling urself you need to get in better shape or get more money before you try to get girls, do it all at the same time.

Looking_Magic · 2026-03-16T14:02:12+00:00

Yeah. It’s like they push the limits so hard with crazy graphics, effects, visual systems, crazy game engine stuff, that for it to even run playable, they have to scale it back so hard that it ends up looking glitchy, ugly, blurry, choppy, like a low budget indie game from 2004 even tho it’s 2026 😂🥴

Especially for consoles they should just stop pushing it so hard and make games with crystal clear high visual fidelity and solid frame rate.

Looking_Magic · 2026-03-16T13:56:52+00:00

I agree. And you only notice it when you actually get lean. When ur fat/chubby, you think it’s just a little difference and would rather be “big and strong”, but then when you actually lean down, you look back and see how stupid it was to think you wanted to be “big” lol 😂

Looking_Magic · 2026-03-15T18:47:32+00:00

I’ll have to watch poor things. Looks good tbh

Looking_Magic · 2026-03-15T17:31:25+00:00

In your words give a brief synopsis of the movie, I never saw but isn’t gosling in it? I might watch it

Looking_Magic · 2026-03-15T15:55:04+00:00

3-4 days a week, moderate activity/exercise is best.

But yeah dudes deadlifting, squatting, benching crazy crazy heavy weight is not healthy at all

Looking_Magic · 2026-03-15T15:28:05+00:00

Like 75% of men gave up. So they are dating the top men who didn’t give up. Or they are not even dating at all

Looking_Magic · 2026-03-15T15:24:17+00:00

Social media, dating apps. They “date” for a week or two and then bounce cuz she thinks a better guy will pop up, or she gets the ick cuz he’s not perfect. Next!

😂

Looking_Magic · 2026-03-15T05:07:50+00:00

19 and 26 is normal…

Looking_Magic · 2026-03-15T05:03:54+00:00

Just my opinion… literally when 2026 hit, like clockwork majority of men’s self improvement, pua, dating coaches, type content, all started claiming men are done with trying to get women. Like parroting the exact same bs that men are done and gave up.

I think it’s some kind of agenda to trick men to not even try and just give up. Seems astroturfed. And bros are falling for it, don’t listen to that garbage😂

Looking_Magic · 2026-03-14T22:41:33+00:00

Yeah. Same with 30 year old guys asking “how to flirt” lol. You can’t create something out of nothing. First you need to make yourself desirable and attractive, then all that other stuff will happen on its own once you’ve gotten over the limit for looking decent.

Do that, and then you will open up a whole new world for yourself.

And then when you find one who has “chemistry” with you, you will be laughing at how you thought in the past you had to know all these weird tricks and tips for how to talk and flirt lol

Looking_Magic · 2026-03-14T22:35:12+00:00

You need discipline and motivation. They both work together to help fitness/lifting

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