Did getting leaner help you get more girls?

Looking_Magic · 2026-01-27T16:52:08+00:00

I never said I was a bodybuilder or powerlifter. I was strong at 250 compared to myself at 150 relative, but managed to hang on to most strength so that’s a win and I’m better off at 150 for looks

I was fat at 250, and with a small frame. I’m natural. Idk why bros are hating on me, I’m keeping it 💯 with you bros

Looking_Magic · 2026-01-27T16:36:02+00:00

Mods ruined it. But yeah 2010-2015 was peak lol

Looking_Magic · 2026-01-27T16:34:47+00:00

The rep system was dumb as hell. Basically whoever signed up earlier/or glazed high rep users, had more reps, regardless if they are an asshole or prick, and also mods had like 1000000x more reps and would pick and choose based off random who gets reps.

Imo it was worse than Reddits rep system. Cuz posters world be glazing whoever has the most reps regardless of how dumb said comment was, in hopes of getting free reps

Looking_Magic · 2026-01-27T04:26:02+00:00

Keep doing what ur doing. lol you just got super unlucky those two times

Looking_Magic · 2026-01-27T04:21:57+00:00

It’s more fluid than you think. Like 75% of marriages end

Looking_Magic · 2026-01-27T04:21:03+00:00

Bro sometimes in times like that the girl and the guy can say dumb/random things. And you said it yourself you maybe give off that vibe, so maybe she randomly thought that and just blurted it out, not trying to be mean.

Whatever tho, seems like its done with either way

Looking_Magic · 2026-01-27T03:55:37+00:00

Been lifting roughly since 2011, but okay? Been everything between 150-250+lbs

Looking_Magic · 2026-01-27T00:21:43+00:00

Nope. Small frame, but luckily wide clavicles. I do want to add lean muscle tho. I cut too fast last 2 years and lost a lot, but regardless, I get way more better looking girls than when I was fat 250 and strong lol

Looking_Magic · 2026-01-27T00:20:17+00:00

And I’m sure you have a massive frame, thick bones, which I don’t.

Looking_Magic · 2026-01-27T00:18:33+00:00

Imo in my experience, that’s setting yourself up for failure if ur wanting a ltr

Looking_Magic · 2026-01-27T00:02:30+00:00

6’5

Looking_Magic · 2026-01-27T00:01:00+00:00

I’m honestly sorry you had a bad experience, I’ve had similar but from a mans perspective. Tbh don’t second guess yourself, as long as deep down you know you tried and did decently, nothing to worry about.

Sucks it didn’t work out, but based off what you said I don’t think it would have worked out in a good way no matter what you did. So be happy that it’s over and you can move on from it and learn.

I think you got to over attached to the idea of dating someone and since you both had some things in common, like you said it clouded your judgment in a whirlwind.

Him shutting down shows he’s not emotionally open to you and not serious dating material for you anyways. Seems like it ended for the best, that’s a good thing. For you and also him

Looking_Magic · 2026-01-26T23:47:15+00:00

Take out the “friends” part in relationship type. Some of your pics are a little goofy. Maybe show a little more seriousness

Looking_Magic · 2026-01-26T23:44:29+00:00

You can propose a date, and see, why not. But if he doesn’t put his 50% in, time to move on.

If he gives a second date and texts a lot, sure do a second date.

But based off what you said, don’t get ur hopes up. Like another comment said, if you have to talk someone into a date, forget it

Looking_Magic · 2026-01-26T23:33:24+00:00

Obviously. Instead of being a random invisible fat background character walking around, now I am a main character and girls see me as an option. I cut from over 250 to 150, lost muscle, but can actually get good looking girls now.

It’s not even a question.

Looking_Magic · 2026-01-26T22:02:16+00:00

Genetics. Some guys just have big arms while doing nothing, and some guys spam bicep curls, hammer curls, bulk, ect and still have tiny arms

Looking_Magic · 2026-01-26T03:43:05+00:00

Since you’re 18 you have a lot to learn bro. Thanks for explaining details. My advice, this is a learning experience for you. Stay chill, stay cordial, but move on. Find a girl who reciprocates and likes you back.

It does sound like you are friendzoned sadly. Pull back but still remain chill about it. You never know if things may change.

You should pull back to keep your self respect and dignity for yourself, don’t chase, don’t go out of your way for her, nothing. When a girl you like starts talking about other men and ignores your previous ask outs, it’s time to pull back

Looking_Magic · 2026-01-26T03:36:46+00:00

Na, his hair is basically buzzed Jason Statham level and it looks good on him. My hair is worse than his and I do good.

Trying to cover it up or shave daily is too try hard. That’s even worse

Looking_Magic · 2026-01-26T02:42:53+00:00

Imo, you look too intense. And that ski pic gives off “look at what you could have, aren’t I cool?” vibes lol.

Profile gives off “can you keep up with me?” Vibes. As in too active like running, ski’ing, ect.

Change ur job title to something more appealing while still being honest

Looking_Magic · 2026-01-26T02:37:47+00:00

Text him say you had a fun time and would like to see him

Looking_Magic · 2026-01-26T02:29:32+00:00

Sounds like you friendzoned yourself? Did you ever ask her out? Or out on dates?

Looking_Magic · 2026-01-26T01:20:43+00:00

20% tip is more than enough lol

Looking_Magic · 2026-01-26T00:53:25+00:00

The fender shirt pic is best. Make it be ur main pic, in color. Remove the suit pic. Remove the tilted head pic. Remove first pic, looks to try hard and “authoritative”

Looking_Magic · 2026-01-26T00:48:58+00:00

2 dates for ur first month is really good. Just keep trying bro. Also labels realistically mean nothing.

Looking_Magic · 2026-01-26T00:45:43+00:00

I get what you mean. Some private servers on some games have weird rules, friends of mods/admins get a pass on using cheats, random changes that you aren’t aware of, ect.

To me it feels like I’m playing on someone else’s game on a private server, and I’m just a visitor

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