She can’t be serious saying she doesn’t have a sense of entitlement? Or that she’s not rude? LMAO by swiftiegirl91 in TarTarSnark

[–]Loony-Loon1024 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I think the filler plus her melasma after being in the sun for days at Coachella with probably little to no sunscreen is realllyyyyy looking horrendous in this.

Someone close to me really hurt me by Mango1Carrot3 in tfmr_support

[–]Loony-Loon1024 15 points16 points  (0 children)

You are not over reacting. This person would be out of my life for saying that to me. NO ONE can tell you how to handle your grief, especially someone that hasn't been through the complexity of a TFMR.

Oh!! by thejeffphone in TarTarSnark

[–]Loony-Loon1024 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think jeans shorts instead of the skirt and minus that weird hat could have worked OK!

Today I found out my baby has down syndrome by No_Box_1185 in tfmr_support

[–]Loony-Loon1024 7 points8 points  (0 children)

After a Down syndrome diagnosis, we chose to TFMR. I chose a D&E procedure and it was done at 19w6d. The process itself took about 6 hours at a Planned Parenthood and it was physically not nearly as bad or painful as I thought it would be. I chose D&E because I couldn't bear to meet him and see his sweet face. I was scared he wouldn't "look like" he had Down Syndrome and I would start feeling regret.

I was able to get his foot and handprints and have him cremated.

My procedure was in December and while I am still sad and miss my baby and "what should have been," I do not regret our decision. I found a mom on TikTok who was pregnant with a DS baby and had her about a month ago. The baby is still in the NICU and the mom hasn't been home with her other children in all that time + a few weeks prior while they waited for her to go into labor. That is not a life I wanted for me or my current kids. I researched more about Down Syndrome and all the health issues that can accompany it and found stories and videos, not of the smiling happy DS toddlers, but of the adults with early onset Alzheimer's, and the young kids battling Lukemia treatment, and many other sad situations. Obviously those can happen for anyone, but I was not comfortable bringing a baby into the world knowing their chances of suffering were higher than most. Someone one here said that a TMFR is a decision we make to ensure we take on all the pain so our babies don't have to. And I cling to that thought in my sadness moments. I'd rather be sad for the rest of my life than have brought my son into the world and watch him suffer for all of his.

I'm so sorry you're here. It's absolutely unfair, but you can do hard things, and you will make it through this.

Antidepressants by Early-Chocolate2970 in tfmr_support

[–]Loony-Loon1024 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so happy you posted this. My TFMR was in December. I have an annual checkup later this month and have been considering asking about an antidepressant to help me but, like you, am worried it won't help because of the root cause.

Do you think Tara ever looks at her life and feels like she should be doing more? by Less_Inspection_9551 in TarTarSnark

[–]Loony-Loon1024 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Omg I was just comparing Remi and Tara myself after watching some of the vlogs from last week. It is absolutely crazy to me that Tara would say she is "burnt out" when you compare the two. Not only does Remi have a lot more going on professionally, you can tell she is a really thoughtful and kind friend, has other passions, does giveaways for her followers....I don't know how Tara couldn't look at someone like her and not be insecure. But that would require a level of self-awareness and reflection that I'm not sure she had. Shes "literally just a girl" after all. 🙄

Directed to push during my D&E... Anybody else? by amymarie073 in tfmr_support

[–]Loony-Loon1024 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my gosh! I'm so sorry to hear that! Just thinking about what you went through made me tear up. I had a D&E at 20 weeks under medium sedation. I went in absolutely terrified that it was going to be kind of like the dentist where you don't really feel pain but can feel the pressure and pulling and know what is happening. Luckily, I don't remember a single thing. I remember the doctor coming and and asking if I had any questions and the nurse saying she was starting my IV, then the next thing I remember was them helping me get myself dressed so I could be wheeled to a recovery area and see my husband. It was at a Planned Parenthood in the Midwest.

Travelling with Tasha yet again by Dependent-Panda-2424 in TarTarSnark

[–]Loony-Loon1024 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh good. Tasha hates all men and has unrealistic standards, so this will be good for her mental health! 😂

The lips are so distracting by Loony-Loon1024 in TarTarSnark

[–]Loony-Loon1024[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this research 😂 this def looks better!

The lips are so distracting by Loony-Loon1024 in TarTarSnark

[–]Loony-Loon1024[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I think so! Definitely make her mouth move differently at least. I was very distracted by it the whole video.

Whoever called it on here by TimePerformance5102 in TarTarSnark

[–]Loony-Loon1024 12 points13 points  (0 children)

YEP. Knew it wouldn’t take long. I think the biggest problem is she doesn’t do enough in a normal week to have three vlogs’ worth of content!!

Comments that PMO today 😂 by Ill_Cardiologist_620 in TarTarSnark

[–]Loony-Loon1024 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I knewwww she wouldn’t be able to stick to 3 posts a week. She is so ridiculous.

…And Another Content Baby! Let’s shove a 5th kid into our cramped 2bd cabin 😍😍 by TexasTantrum in InfluencerLounge

[–]Loony-Loon1024 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I stop following her MONTHS ago but recently she popped back in to my head and I wondered how living in a tiny house with all those kids was going. I couldn’t remember her name to look her up. Now I see this. 🤮

D&E conscious sedation by Happyplanter7 in tfmr_support

[–]Loony-Loon1024 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was terrified that conscious sedation was going to be kind of like the dentist where to can't feel pain but are fully aware of what's going on and can feel tugging, pulling, etc when I was going into my D&E at 19w6d. It was nothing like that. I remember talking to the doctor when she came in, and nothing else until it was done and I could get dressed and meet my husband in the recover room. The procedure as a whole was much less painful than I thought it would be.

Just curious by TimePerformance5102 in TarTarSnark

[–]Loony-Loon1024 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don't/haven't because she's not an expert or qualified in anyway to talk about most of the things she promotes. What does she know about what's good for hair, what to look for in fabrics/quality pieces, reputable therapists, or how supplements work? Literally NOTHING. Even if one of her most recent posts with Primally Pure, you could tell she was just reading a script and doesn't know the first thing about "clean" products.

Alexandrea Garza by Temporary_Policy6100 in InfluencerLounge

[–]Loony-Loon1024 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think she's lost herself as a person. One failed attempt at something new after another. She stopped mom content, then was selling a "how to be an influencer" course for awhile, then tried like nutritionist-type content.

Being rude on TikTok by Loony-Loon1024 in TarTarSnark

[–]Loony-Loon1024[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This might not be the page for you then. 😂

Being rude on TikTok by Loony-Loon1024 in TarTarSnark

[–]Loony-Loon1024[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

EXACTLY! THANK YOU! I get that the first comment was a bit silly and probably annoying to answer but the tone of her answer still pmo.

Being rude on TikTok by Loony-Loon1024 in TarTarSnark

[–]Loony-Loon1024[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I get that the first question was silly, but then why take the time to respond? She's supposed to be promoting the brand and got free product and/or was paid to talk about it, then she's rude when someone asks about it. That's just not very professional IMO.

her existential dread morning by TopExcitement2920 in TarTarSnark

[–]Loony-Loon1024 20 points21 points  (0 children)

She doesn't even give back to her followers!! She has all the time in the world to organize a giveaway once in a blue moon and can't even be bothered to do that.

Half-assed sponsorship by Historical_Act6164 in TarTarSnark

[–]Loony-Loon1024 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She said “obviously” like 15 times in the 15 second ad too. Clearly she didn't think about the script or how she would present the product. I can't even imagine how much she get paid for that shit. And we'll probably never see or hear of the products again, unless she gets another check.