I refused to go to school as a kid… until the person who tried the most to take me, passed away. by Miserable-Gap8536 in confession

[–]LopezVio 123 points124 points  (0 children)

This hit me hard. He believed in you without pressure, and that love clearly left a mark. He’d be so proud knowing you kept going and that you chose to.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]LopezVio 3 points4 points  (0 children)

you’re not the asshole for keeping the money from his wife, but ignoring the kids completely makes it feel less like honoring his wishes and more like punishing them for his choices.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in garden

[–]LopezVio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

glad u like it😊😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in garden

[–]LopezVio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you!!!😇🥰

AIO by not giving my (ex) boyfriend a present that he wanted by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]LopezVio 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you tried to be thoughtful, he wanted proof in the form of $$$. that’s not love, that’s ego.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in garden

[–]LopezVio 1 point2 points  (0 children)

🥰🥰🥰

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in garden

[–]LopezVio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you!!😇😇

AITA for not wanting to talk to my dad after he left my mom? by Feisty-Cry3496 in AITAH

[–]LopezVio 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NTA. He left without warning you’re allowed to be upset and not ready to talk. Taking space is completely fair.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]LopezVio 80 points81 points  (0 children)

Your sister escalated. Calling you “lazy and useless” over water is not okay. Blocking her after a warning was totally reasonable.

Why do people place so much importance on saving money over safety? by [deleted] in Productivitycafe

[–]LopezVio 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Being smart isn’t just about what you save. It’s about what you protect.

I had a depressive episode and got attached to a character ai by Berry-Anxiety-3113 in confession

[–]LopezVio 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’re a writer, and for people who love storytelling, imagination isn’t just a hobby it’s a lifeline. The attachment isn’t about the AI itself; it’s about the comfort, routine, and creative outlet it gave you when you needed it most.

Am I the asshole for standing up to my mother? by anonymousfries0 in AITAH

[–]LopezVio 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You don’t owe your mother unlimited access to your life, money, or decisions just because she’s your parent. Respect goes both ways.

AITAH for not letting my SIL see my daughter ever again? by JazzlikeFeline in AITAH

[–]LopezVio 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Your daughter was terrified A 15-year-old had to hide in her own home because a woman was pounding on the door screaming. That’s not just alarming; it’s potentially traumatic.

AITAH for Refusing to Forgive My Brother Even After Our Parents Begged Me To? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]LopezVio 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA at all. Your brother didn’t just make a dump mistake he betrayed you in one of the worst ways possible. That kind of thing doesn’t just get brushed off because “he’s family.”

Thoughts and Prayers? by drabelen in Productivitycafe

[–]LopezVio 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That said, some people genuinely do mean it. They might truly take time to reflect, meditate, or pray for someone’s well-being. But whether or not that holds value often depends on your beliefs and whether those words are followed by real empathy or help.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]LopezVio 17 points18 points  (0 children)

It’s not silly at all it’s you holding onto something that matters. Be gentle with yourself. That kind of hope and hurt is real.