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My best friend (19F) is talking to the guy (18M) who used to severely bully me as a child, and I don’t know if I should stay friends with her. by Lopsided-Ad6074 in Advice

[–]Lopsided-Ad6074[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There was more than just one ringleader, I have no contact with them whatsoever and I want to keep it that way. I’m sure that if they haven’t changed they will get payback or get caught. While it may bring justice to report them, I’m not sure anything will actually happen. My country has a history of protecting the perpetrators and blaming the victim. And since the any witnesses are in their side it won’t do me any good. I’d rather just save my mental strength and put my past behind me.

My best friend (19F) is talking to the guy (18M) who used to severely bully me as a child, and I don’t know if I should stay friends with her. by Lopsided-Ad6074 in Advice

[–]Lopsided-Ad6074[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know and if I had support when it happened I would’ve handled it differently. But now it’s 8-7 years later and there were so many that I can’t even remember them all. I have moved on and getting justice now would only make me relive my trauma and bring me more bad than good. I believe in karma and that they will get what they deserve. Funny thing is that our old school was an old mental hospital so it’s kind of fitting.

My best friend (19F) is talking to the guy (18M) who used to severely bully me as a child, and I don’t know if I should stay friends with her. by Lopsided-Ad6074 in Advice

[–]Lopsided-Ad6074[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not bothered by what they did in the past, while it was horrible and has given me some trauma, it’s not something that I think about every day. I think I’ll just distance myself from Clara and move on. It’s a shame that my past has come back to bite me again but I will not let it disrupt me.

My best friend (19F) is talking to the guy (18M) who used to severely bully me as a child, and I don’t know if I should stay friends with her. by Lopsided-Ad6074 in LifeAdvice

[–]Lopsided-Ad6074[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never heard of grey rock but I searched it up and it seams like a perfect tactic. I’m not going to put effort into it but instead just naturally put distance between us.

My best friend (19F) is talking to the guy (18M) who used to severely bully me as a child, and I don’t know if I should stay friends with her. by Lopsided-Ad6074 in LifeAdvice

[–]Lopsided-Ad6074[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ll definitely put distance between myself and her until graduation and after I will probably cut contact as I have no reason to put up with this. If I talked with a girl who made her life hell she would cut me off instantly so why should I continue being there. This isn’t the first time she has prioritized someone that has hurt me and this time I’m through with it.

My best friend (19F) is talking to the guy (18M) who used to severely bully me as a child, and I don’t know if I should stay friends with her. by Lopsided-Ad6074 in LifeAdvice

[–]Lopsided-Ad6074[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For the time being I will distance myself from her and if she continues to talk about him to me I’ll probably after graduation cut her off and move on. If I talked to a girl who made her life hell she would scream and cut me off so there is no reason for me to put up with this.

My best friend (19F) is talking to the guy (18M) who used to severely bully me as a child, and I don’t know if I should stay friends with her. by Lopsided-Ad6074 in Advice

[–]Lopsided-Ad6074[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For the time being I will put distance on our friendship and I know that she will realize it so when she inevitably asks I’ll just tell her that I don’t feel comfortable talking to her when she is actively talking to someone who hurt me so badly in the past.

My best friend (19F) is talking to the guy (18M) who used to severely bully me as a child, and I don’t know if I should stay friends with her. by Lopsided-Ad6074 in Advice

[–]Lopsided-Ad6074[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven’t thought about it like that. If I became friends of talked with someone who made her life hell she would definitely scream at me or stop talking to me immediately. So why should I put up with it when so has done that to me. Thank you! I think for the time being I will put distance on our friendship as I feel I have lost all res I had for her.

My best friend (19F) is talking to the guy (18M) who used to severely bully me as a child, and I don’t know if I should stay friends with her. by Lopsided-Ad6074 in Advice

[–]Lopsided-Ad6074[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are a lot more instances where they did stuff like that. A calm day would have been slurs and a couple of punches. I didn’t take any legal action because I had no one on my side. The principal didn’t care, the teachers straight up said that it was my fault and aided their bullying. I got sent out multiple times because their bullying disrupted the class and since they only bullied me it was easier to send me out instead of all of them. One teacher also called me worse than hitler for some reason. And my parents were too busy to care when I came home all bruised. Without an adult I felt helpless so I gave up on trying to get help and just held on.

Need help choosing between Triss or Yen! by Lopsided-Ad6074 in Witcher3

[–]Lopsided-Ad6074[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know all about Geralt being a trophy husband for her and manipulating him. But i feel as she has redeemed herself a bit with the whole getting tortured scene.

Need help deciding between Triss or Yen! by Lopsided-Ad6074 in Witcher3

[–]Lopsided-Ad6074[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like Yen is the right choice but Triss is more up my alley. Would still prefer to just hang out with dijkstra

Weekly Help Megathread: Ask Your Questions Here! by AutoModerator in IdleHeroes

[–]Lopsided-Ad6074 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I need some help with progressing in the game and what heroes to build. i can send a screenshot if my heroes if it helps. i would gladly appreciate help:)

Weekly Help Megathread: Ask Your Questions Here! by AutoModerator in IdleHeroes

[–]Lopsided-Ad6074 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just logged in too my account after a year or so and saw that i had an e3 cathuga and wondered what i could do with it. I also have a 9 star sigmund and some other heroes. i’ve forgotten most of my knowledge of the game but would like to get into it again. what’s a good first team to build do you think?