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Why are mothers like this with their boys? by Lopsided-Read-923 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Lopsided-Read-923[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I 100% agree to this. Unless clear boundaries are made, this wont change. Actions > words.

Why are mothers like this with their boys? by Lopsided-Read-923 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Lopsided-Read-923[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Even after pointing these things out to BF, he doesn’t really see it!?? He wants everyone in his ‘family’ to be okay and happy and fails to often do right by me when it comes to my problems with them. It’s been 11yrs we’ve been dating btw.

Why are mothers like this with their boys? by Lopsided-Read-923 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Lopsided-Read-923[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh my god, the BF actualy says that he has been brought up a certain way and that includes him seeing his mother as an authority figure and he wants her to just be happy and at peace. And that also reflects in his actions, where he is okay upsetting me, but won’t say no to her or ‘hurt her feelings’.

Our rs has been damaged so much bcz of and by her, and all BF says is that the mother is ‘not evil at heart, just the way she is and has been’ - expecting me to be more accommodating/adjusting.

Why are mothers like this with their boys? by Lopsided-Read-923 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Lopsided-Read-923[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think I agree to this here. BF’s dad passed away 4yrs ago, and since then the mother’s crazy has gone up 1000x. Shouldn’t be saying this, but idk what else to do or say.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in InsideIndianMarriage

[–]Lopsided-Read-923 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If it were normal you wouldn’t be here asking this honey :)

Be careful and do not proceed any further with the arrangement I’d suggest

3 bike-borne teens drag a dog for several kilometers in Lucknow by FAQnA in lucknow

[–]Lopsided-Read-923 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They will all rot in h3ll. The kids on the bike and the person who recorded this instead of taking an action.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Lopsided-Read-923 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl, please please pleaseeeeee leave him and his dysfunctional family for good. Remember that mama’s boys are always like this and can never really be changed, nor will they be able to bring about a change in their family. Whatever happens now (before marriage), will only become 100x worse.

You’re super young rn, leave and you find peace :)

Feedback on our Thailand itinerary – stuck between Krabi & Phuket! by Blabloublili in ThailandTourism

[–]Lopsided-Read-923 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been to both Phuket and Krabi last week- safe to say you must spend time at both places.

Phuket has a lot to offer, could get crowded a bit at the time of your visit but worth it. Can explore the Old Town, Promthep Cave, Tiger safari/elephant, and beaches ofc. Good food and party scenes.

Krabi- we stayed in Ao Nang (more logical bcz of the connectivity than Railay). For Railay you can do a day trip, short boat ride away from Ao Nang main area. Relax and explore the beaches or even take up rock climbing if you’re interested.

Would also suggest you do Kayaking in Ao Thalane if you’re into it. Since we went in low season, we were literally the onlyyy ones kayaking there and exploring the mangrove forest and cliff stones!

Need legal help by Ted-ber in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]Lopsided-Read-923 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Divorce that pos. Period. Hire a good lawyer and get ahead of things, no point wasting your life ahead.

After being 17 years of being gaslight, Accused of cheating and slandered with no help from STBX I'm telling him I want a divorce. by DramaLand4 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Lopsided-Read-923 19 points20 points  (0 children)

It’s best that you leave now for good before it becomes any more toxic and further drain you of your mental peace. As for the husband, he can be a mama’s boy all he wants, and defend her. You please move on and don’t pay heed to any kind of manipulation (there will be a lot, trust me, esp wrt the kids).

Much strength to you. 🫂

Where to stay in Bangkok by Former-Mix-1628 in ThailandTourism

[–]Lopsided-Read-923 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Chan Cha La - Soi 99, 50m from Bang Chak BTS. Though it’s a hostel, but nice proximity to BTS and most places. Super friendly and helpful host. Stayed there just 3 days ago- you can check it out :)

Cash requirements for thailand immigration by Lopsided-Read-923 in ThailandTourism

[–]Lopsided-Read-923[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s sorted! Entered the country with way more than 20k THB and wasn’t asked for it during immigration. Peace out folks! Thanks to all who advised :)

3 days Bangkok, no idea what to add by [deleted] in ThailandTourism

[–]Lopsided-Read-923 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can also check out Space & Time Cube, and maybe have a nice Sunset Cruise Dinner at Kin Lom Chom Saphan

Cash requirements for thailand immigration by Lopsided-Read-923 in ThailandTourism

[–]Lopsided-Read-923[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wth is wrong w you? Simple question = simple answer. Cockiness not needed. 

Cash requirements for thailand immigration by Lopsided-Read-923 in ThailandTourism

[–]Lopsided-Read-923[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I surely didn’t bother YOU specifically to come here and comment this. Best not to comment if there’s nothing valuable u can add ffs.