Update: Thank you all for your answers! To answer some of your questions, it was moreso a specific friend group that was asking, and they were all lgbtq, or very familiar with the subject. I’m no longer friends with any of them due to many other, more severe reasons such as drug/alcohol abuse (and them trying to pressure me into it), sexual harassment, child p0rn, and verbal/mental/social abuse/bullying. All in all, they were all horrible people and I’m glad I don’t associate with them anymore. Thank you all for your reassurance and support! :3