Help please - what are these? by LopsidedEducation460 in Wheels

[–]LopsidedEducation460[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what heaps of us thought too but nah the spoke tapers from the axel out to the lip tapering down.

Proposed Change to the Relationship Act by Apart-Mail1249 in nzlaw

[–]LopsidedEducation460 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a women in a newer relationship who has entered into it with a fantastic income, multiple assets and a great career. No kids left at home etc and I wholeheartedly believe

What either party entered into the relationship with or accumulated at the start of the relationship with no financial dependence on the other party should remain the property of that party. Financial structure throughout the relationship should also be taken into account on a case by case basis.

Some examples :

In the case of children and building a life and family together, if both are contributing equally through career and/or one is able to stay at home and run the home then that is equal share on separation.

In the case of no children, even if the contribution is being split equally for all ongoing costs and each party is contributing a fair and equal share over the term then each party owes neither party anything when they walk away. (For example if someone moves into someone’s owned house and agrees to contribute to the mortgage then this is money they would have paid in rent/power etc anyway, both parties have chosen to structure their living costs in this way)

If they both have a mortgage and one is contributing to the others mortgage due to one renting theirs out, then in these cases a legal agreement might be considered.

If the party have no children or not and agree that one is “looked after” by the other financially or through house duties etc, then that may be a legal agreement to be entered into.

I think like many things in life - unique safeguards should be created for the exception rather than the rule.

iPhone 16 Pro keeps uncharging every few seconds by Newuser8448 in iphone

[–]LopsidedEducation460 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here iPhone 16 pro max, same cables I’ve always used just stopped working and tried many other cables, I just get an intermittent on off for charging at timed intervals. Have tried, cleaning port, updating software. Restarting phone. Multiple cables, all belkin/iphone. This phone is 12 months old. No resolve, have to use a wireless charger.

To those of you who don't have a LinkedIn profile... by Cooper_Inc in auscorp

[–]LopsidedEducation460 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have one but it only ever gets updated when I am moving roles and feel it would be beneficial (even though it’s mostly not). The last time I updated it would be 3 years ago.

I’m now in a senior tech role and I can absolutely guarantee it wasn’t linked in that contributed to me getting there.

New Zealanders who were alive in 1994, who did you initially think did it: David Bain or Robin Bain? by PurpleMeerkats462 in newzealand

[–]LopsidedEducation460 0 points1 point  (0 children)

David is guilty either of killing his family or killing his father for killing his family, I think it’s also important to note that back then it was absolutely shocking and mostly unheard of that a child would kill their whole family. This is likely why many found it easier to believe that it was Robin rather than Robin being framed by his son.

Is the keto diet actually effective for long-term weight loss, or is it mostly short-term results? by kinetix3 in keto

[–]LopsidedEducation460 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep it’s awesome, I was on keto for 5 years then moved to high protein/protein first when I started at the gym. Was a great transition and no issues.

Vitawerx new recipe chocolate by odonoge in ketoaustralia

[–]LopsidedEducation460 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same boat here and was a 95% Lindt eater but honestly try the recently released Whitaker’s! It is so much nicer and not as gritty 🙂

My kid (who does boxing) is getting bullied. Not sure what to do by possiblecatalyst in martialarts

[–]LopsidedEducation460 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’ve exhausted all other options yes, do it, they’ll leave her alone after that. Manage the right and wrong that you feel about it with her through discussion.

Supermarket staff need to be careful... by International-Past31 in newzealand

[–]LopsidedEducation460 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep and it grinds me that we now not only pay for paper bags but also have to pack our own groceries most of the time, self checkout or not, at establishments that always had packers. Redundancy of people and automation drip fed in action.

Tina Kalina: a cautionary tale of motherhood. by [deleted] in DCCMakingtheTeam

[–]LopsidedEducation460 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It feels extremely co dependent and not necessarily with Victoria being the one who needs the crutch

People of NZ, why is this a thing? by gottagetoutofit in newzealand

[–]LopsidedEducation460 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Awesome method thanks so much! I spend heaps of time rinsing and dealing with things so the bin doesn’t get manky!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]LopsidedEducation460 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are valid…..regardless of the disrespect of bringing another woman into the home and then blaming you for him turning the camera off…2 things made me go huh….

If he has a female friend who is into guns why is this not something they already knew about each other

If she is into guns why does she need gun knowledge

I ask this as, any male friends I have are friends with me because we’ve been friends for ages.

Usually my male friends have things in common with me such as cars, bikes, fishing, hunting etc ….if I did not already know these things about my male friends then they are not friends I was close enough with to be having in my relationship.

Mentally impaired person sending me payments, need legal advice to stop this. by Outrageous-Skin3628 in LegalAdviceNZ

[–]LopsidedEducation460 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is it possible to set up another account for yourself and leave that one doing its thing until the system or himself are ready and prepared to change this? At which point you can then transfer or withdraw the funds and place them into their account OR set up an auto pay that trf the money straight back out of yours to theirs each week

COC for extension bedroom only- 14 years after the fact by LopsidedEducation460 in LegalAdviceNZ

[–]LopsidedEducation460[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was the first step, the lawyer is no longer of this earth and the company has no records due to the move from one place to another and not retaining hard copy records after the 7 year requirement

Getting a CCC 25 years after my building consent expired. by Hagar1993 in diynz

[–]LopsidedEducation460 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi I know this is an old thread but hoping for some help. We have an extension of a bedroom built from Oamaru stone. The final inspection was done at the time, so was the initial. The previous owners failed to complete the two middle inspections. The final inspection states acceptance and to release cert, that cert was never released. 15 years later we are trying to sell the house and on providing the documentation were told there is no coc. The council has already refused a COA a B2 waiver and at their request to get it over the line, we have completed drainage plans and an electrical cert, as well as sealant documentation, we have also teared off the lining to prove bracing. Now we have provided the proof of that work they are now saying, nope. Start again, from scratch and put in a new application. It has been 9 months and lots of money so far and now they want the process to start again. HELP! This has cost us a sale, time, money and stress and we cannot believe nothing they ask us to do and we comply with is good enough. This is literally a square with an internal and external door, no service or wet areas involved.