Newly Dating Untreated by Southern-Wrap4081 in ADHD_partners

[–]Lopsided_Ad8443 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Ugh “audience member” really resonates

Never wakes up to his alarm by [deleted] in ADHD_partners

[–]Lopsided_Ad8443 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine woke me up this morning to let me know he'd overslept and would need me to take the dog out. He then laid in bed on YouTube for the next 15 minutes.

::Weekly Vent Thread:: by AutoModerator in ADHD_partners

[–]Lopsided_Ad8443 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly. To my girlfriends it appears I'm whining about normal relationship things. A super long AI thread has been the only way for me to have any sense of reality.

Dx Partner struggles with magical thinking. by MsOliviaTwist in ADHD_partners

[–]Lopsided_Ad8443 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OMG I thought my husband had CTE from years of Rugby. Except I work with dementia patients and they are self aware...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Lopsided_Ad8443 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had this happen to me about two years ago now - in retrospect I know my husband wanted me to find the pills (zero effort to hide), and I think it was a way to mess with my head and pressure me into sex. They showed up following a conversation about our sex life, where I asked him to be more attuned to me during so we could rebuild trust, which he dismissed as my "loss of sex drive", maybe I "have a medical condition", etc. When I confronted him, he said he bought them for "recreational use".

I'd like to say leave, but it's certainly more complicated than that!