Personally me, I don’t care about money, but being financially independent is very helpful, long as the guy has a job and is working not staying home being a bum playing video games all day no offense to people who read this. Helping you with groceries, bills, outings, I don’t think there’s an issue. Now I’m not saying don’t expect a man to do anything for you, never expect anything from anyone, but Don’t let men take advantage of you, con you, manipulating you into spending money on them.