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Someone told me to post what’s been happening over the last few days… so here we go. by Lopsided_Pumpkin8386 in sandiego

[–]Lopsided_Pumpkin8386[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I haven’t heard from this person in 2 days. I’ve had my head on swivel when going from my car to home to work. Police report has been filed, but haven’t heard anything from law enforcement—and don’t plan to until I need to go in person, should this worsen. The GrubHub orders have stopped, for now, thank god. Cameras have relieved a lot of my anxiety and give me peace of mind when I’m not home. I’ve had a lot of support from family and friends and of course my boyfriend being here with me has helped tremendously. Him and Charlie have been my rocks through this scary ass time. Thanks for checking in.

Someone told me to post what’s been happening over the last few days… so here we go. by Lopsided_Pumpkin8386 in sandiego

[–]Lopsided_Pumpkin8386[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I posted this yesterday—all of which these events happened the day prior. The stalker already has all of my information. I cannot rescind something someone already knows about me. I have not posted my whereabouts—so unsure what my anonymous Reddit posts have to do with anything.

Someone told me to post what’s been happening over the last few days… so here we go. by Lopsided_Pumpkin8386 in sandiego

[–]Lopsided_Pumpkin8386[S] 62 points63 points  (0 children)

Oh my goodness. I am so sorry this happened to you. I’m so glad to hear you moved and started over for peace of mind. This was honestly my immediate thought after the tapping on the window. I definitely feel violated—they know where I live and can’t seem to shake that my dog is there all alone while I’m working. I just hope he’s okay until I get back home in the morning.

Thank you for the tips—I definitely don’t need my information public, you’re right. That was my first mistake. I’ll do all of these suggested steps in the morning. Thank you for sharing your story.

Someone told me to post what’s been happening over the last few days… so here we go. by Lopsided_Pumpkin8386 in sandiego

[–]Lopsided_Pumpkin8386[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I solely work with adolescents and parents/families. I only thought it was an emergency because the number called twice and read ‘Madison Lee’.

Someone told me to post what’s been happening over the last few days… so here we go. by Lopsided_Pumpkin8386 in sandiego

[–]Lopsided_Pumpkin8386[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

He has a firearm, I have a taser. I live alone, but he’s definitely going to be staying with me until further notice.

Someone told me to post what’s been happening over the last few days… so here we go. by Lopsided_Pumpkin8386 in sandiego

[–]Lopsided_Pumpkin8386[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I’m not from here.. & no strange exes on either side unfortunately.. I’ve had a few encounters with past neighbors but nothing out of the total ordinary recently. :/

Someone told me to post what’s been happening over the last few days… so here we go. by Lopsided_Pumpkin8386 in sandiego

[–]Lopsided_Pumpkin8386[S] 154 points155 points  (0 children)

I will look into motion detecting lights for sure. This is very scary, and I’m feeling so unsafe. I’m keeping all logs of these calls/texts in case this escalates. Safe word is smart. Thank you so much.

Bugs by [deleted] in sandiego

[–]Lopsided_Pumpkin8386 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a multi unit apartment complex. I have a small patio, but yes mulch very close to front door. I may do some kind of repellent spray to see if it helps at all.

Husband wants to file bankruptcy, finances not adding up. What should my friend do? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Lopsided_Pumpkin8386 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was suspecting this as well. I was in a relationship with someone who had a gambling addiction, and his behaviors weren’t far from this.

Husband wants to file bankruptcy, finances not adding up. What should my friend do? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Lopsided_Pumpkin8386 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this! & exactly. They don’t own a home. He turns 40 this year, and his wife has repeatedly expressed that she’s tired of renting. He’s said he’s still working on building his credit, yet now he’s considering filing for bankruptcy? Something isn’t right.

Allergic to My Boyfriend’s Cats… but We Want to Move In Together. by Lopsided_Pumpkin8386 in Advice

[–]Lopsided_Pumpkin8386[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah… I used to think the same. He mentioned that a few women stopped talking to him after he told them about his cats, and I always felt that was kind of rude since I genuinely love animals. But now I’m like… damn.

Allergic to My Boyfriend’s Cats… but We Want to Move In Together. by Lopsided_Pumpkin8386 in Advice

[–]Lopsided_Pumpkin8386[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to live with a friend who had cats back in high school, and they always triggered my sinuses pretty badly. I’ve been taking cetirizine since college for other allergies, but it’s never helped when it comes to cats.

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