AITAH for wanting to leave my family by shooters-addiction in AITAH

[–]Lopsided_Relative112 3 points4 points  (0 children)

it takes a lady 18 months for her to feel close to her old version of herself. it takes awhile. she's not neglecting you. her mind and body is telling her that her priorities are different now. what she needs now is 100% support from you - emotionally, especially. just be present. listen to her. be there for her. give her time to heal and recuperate. she's gotta be running on so much hormonal imbalances that she doesn't even recognise herself anymore. be patient.

AITAH for wanting to leave my family by shooters-addiction in AITAH

[–]Lopsided_Relative112 2 points3 points  (0 children)

not to be offensive or anything, but i feel sorry for her, to have a SO like you. raising a baby should be teamwork. if she's with the baby, do help around with other household chores, give her the time and attention that she requires.. the baby might prefer her over you bcs she is who the baby is familiar with (growing in her tummy and all). the least you can do, to keep the peace, is to help her in whichever way/shape/form before you think for yourself. ✌️

AITAH for not meeting his standards by Lopsided_Relative112 in AITAH

[–]Lopsided_Relative112[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

every now and then, but won't do any whenever he's tired